It doesn't bother me too too much, though I'd still rather they didn't.
How do you feel about your exes keeping you in their "Spank Bank"?
02/07/2011
I mean, doesn;t that kind of go with the territory when you break up with somebody? It's not really something I've ever thought about.
02/07/2011
Just thinking about someone isn't harmful as long as there is no obsession. I have fantasized about all of my exes, and I wouldn't be surprised or offended if they thought about me. I think it might be nice if they still thought of me and our time together with some fondness today. But I prefer to not know if they were doing this. I was with these people when I was in my teens. Things got a little naughty, but none of us went "all the way". So maybe I'm still a little curious about some things . I am curious about how one would have been in particular, but I'm glad we didn't go there. We still talk on the rare occasion, but there is no risk of my fantasies becoming reality. It's pretty over.
My current partner has only had me, so I cannot say how I feel about his exes fantasizing about him.
My current partner has only had me, so I cannot say how I feel about his exes fantasizing about him.
02/08/2011
Great topic, fascinating poll results, interesting discussion.
02/10/2011
I'd be flattered for sure
02/11/2011
I would be really creeped out. After all, exes are exes for a reason.
02/11/2011
Depends...I'd be angered or irritated if they still had a physical photograph of me that they used. However if they were just fantasizing about past experiences I couldn't care less.
02/16/2011
Thats a normal accurance so I really dont mind
02/16/2011
I've never thought about this before. I would be flattered, but the thought is kinda creepy at the same time.
06/13/2011
Wouldn't worry me in the slightest
06/14/2011
I think it would be a pretty weird. It wouldn't bother me too much though.
06/14/2011
flattered and creeped out all at once
06/14/2011
I wouldn't care 1 way or the other, but I thought I grabbed all those pics before I left.
06/18/2011
I chose aroused because the only guy I know who still uses me as inspiration was a reaaaally nice lay and he appears often in my fantasies as well. He lives in another city, though, which is why we're not together any more.
07/24/2011
It's just so inappropriate of them, lol, so icky.
08/19/2011
If it was my ex, creeped out! If it was my partner's ex, pissed!
08/19/2011
Flattered! but i certainly wouldnt be doing the same over them heh
08/20/2011
I was in my partners spank bank before I even knew his name - I find it to be pretty cool
08/20/2011
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If it's an actual photograph, it's okay as long as they aren't sharing it. If they're just using mental images, fap away. I have enough ego to imagine most of the men I know fap to me occasionally.
Originally posted by
Shay
Over at The S Spot (link), we've been talking about how we'd feel, knowing that an ex is using our image as masturbation fodder. OR how we'd feel after finding out that a partner's ex was doing the same.
08/31/2011
My first thought would be than why did we break up?
08/31/2011
I'd definitely be creeped out because I have some creepy exes. Ew.
01/13/2012
Wouldn't bother me
01/13/2012
I'd be creeped out if I ever found out. Especially if it was not just thoughts but a picture. I'd be even more creeped out if they had a partner and were still doing this.
I would hope they would delete those pictures when we broke up and never show them to anyone else.
But life would move on anyway.
I would hope they would delete those pictures when we broke up and never show them to anyone else.
But life would move on anyway.
01/13/2012
As long as they don't try to tell me about it (in detail, especially), then I really don't care. Most of my exes are married or engaged. I'm engaged. If they think of me while touching themselves, that's their business.
01/13/2012
I'd be creeped out for sure, but I guess it happens. I just would rather not know.
01/13/2012
Quote:
This would make me uncomfortable to say the least.
Originally posted by
Shay
Over at The S Spot (link), we've been talking about how we'd feel, knowing that an ex is using our image as masturbation fodder. OR how we'd feel after finding out that a partner's ex was doing the same.
01/17/2012
Quote:
awww
Originally posted by
Joie de Cherresse
I gave my husband a picture of me years ago from when we were seeing eachother before. When we got together years later and actually became a couple, he showed me the picture. He kept it all that time and still has it in his drawer, lol.
01/18/2012
That would be super odd for me.
01/18/2012
If they weren't stalkers it would be ok i guess.
02/25/2012
I guess I would be indifferent. They're only thoughts.
02/28/2012