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How do you tell your partner that the position doesn't work so well when he's....smaller than norm?

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Contributor: InNeedOfABuzzzz InNeedOfABuzzzz
The guy I'm dating is amazing in and he knows everything to do right...except he's a bit smaller than what I'm used to. He's good at what he does and uses it well in every position but missionary which seems to be on his top three list of positions...I can't feel much pleasure that way.

How do I tell him or let on without being mean or hurting his ego??
08/17/2011
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Contributor: Taylor Taylor
Do you even need to mention size? you could just tell him how you love other positions and and the way they make you feel and that missionary just isn't working for you.
08/17/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Taylor
Do you even need to mention size? you could just tell him how you love other positions and and the way they make you feel and that missionary just isn't working for you.
That's what I would do too. "While I like the missionary position, I'm not really feeling it as much as I am these other positions" or something like that
08/17/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
Just suggest wanting to try new positions and see how that goes.
08/17/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I agree with the others. There's no need to mention his size. Just let him know that missionary isn't your favourite, and tell him what positions you prefer.
08/18/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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Definitely don't mention his size! Just say something along the lines of "Well, THESE positions hit my spot much better than missionary!"
08/18/2011
Contributor: InNeedOfABuzzzz InNeedOfABuzzzz
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Originally posted by Ryuson
Definitely don't mention his size! Just say something along the lines of "Well, THESE positions hit my spot much better than missionary!"
Thanks! I'm just really not wanting to ruin things here....I will throw in some new ideas and see it goes. Thanks!!!!!
08/18/2011