How important is it for you to cum?

Contributor: LaBelleVie LaBelleVie
How important is it for your partner to make you cum in order to consider it great sex? Do you need to cum everytime, or at least half the time? Or are you comfortable never cumming, as long as it was an overall enjoyable experience? I personally would love to cum everytime, but am comfortable with at least half the time.
08/09/2012
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Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I need to cum to feel satisfied, but my husband (nor the other partner I had before him) made me cum. I've always had to do that myself.
08/09/2012
Contributor: LaBelleVie LaBelleVie
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Originally posted by bayosgirl
I need to cum to feel satisfied, but my husband (nor the other partner I had before him) made me cum. I've always had to do that myself.
Yeah, if I find myself always having to finish myself off, that's a problem for me.
08/09/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
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Originally posted by LaBelleVie
Yeah, if I find myself always having to finish myself off, that's a problem for me.
Isn't that annoying?! I've heard about women whose partners make sure they cum before THEY do, and I'm like, why can't that be my husband? Sometimes I don't want to have to do it myself, you know? But I know vaginal orgasms are more powerful anyways, so I'm trying to teach myself to be able to cum from penetration only.
08/09/2012
Contributor: lineswecast lineswecast
It's pretty important, but I come so easy that it's not a big deal to get me there.
08/09/2012
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
For it to be great, yes. If we're just doing a quickie it isn't important to me. I have fun either way!
08/09/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
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Originally posted by LaBelleVie
How important is it for your partner to make you cum in order to consider it great sex? Do you need to cum everytime, or at least half the time? Or are you comfortable never cumming, as long as it was an overall enjoyable experience? I personally ... more
I never cum during sex and am fine with it.
08/09/2012
Contributor: laflauta laflauta
Obviously I would prefer it, but there are just some times that I can't have an orgasm for some reason or another, so I don't worry too much about it.
08/09/2012
Contributor: Rawr4483 Rawr4483
I always want to..but if it doesn't happen its not a big deal. There's always next time!
08/09/2012
Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
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Originally posted by LaBelleVie
How important is it for your partner to make you cum in order to consider it great sex? Do you need to cum everytime, or at least half the time? Or are you comfortable never cumming, as long as it was an overall enjoyable experience? I personally ... more
I would like to orgasm more, but I'm ok if it's not every time.
08/10/2012
Contributor: Layenna Layenna
I'd say I cum about 75% of the time. I can last for hours, and sometimes she just can't handle me anymore. I'll go finish up by myself or have her help me out. I still enjoy making my girlfriend enjoy herself though
08/10/2012
Contributor: Undecided Undecided
I need to cum almost every time I have sex unless its a few times a day then maybe I can go a session without but my partner loves making me cum
08/10/2012
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
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Originally posted by LaBelleVie
How important is it for your partner to make you cum in order to consider it great sex? Do you need to cum everytime, or at least half the time? Or are you comfortable never cumming, as long as it was an overall enjoyable experience? I personally ... more
i appreciate it
01/11/2013
Contributor: Nympho88 Nympho88
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Originally posted by LaBelleVie
How important is it for your partner to make you cum in order to consider it great sex? Do you need to cum everytime, or at least half the time? Or are you comfortable never cumming, as long as it was an overall enjoyable experience? I personally ... more
I prefer to get off every time! but I get a small amount of satisfaction knowing my partner gets off as well! I love the feeling of an orgasm so knowing that my man feels the same bliss makes me feel good!
01/11/2013
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
It's not a big deal to me. Sometimes I don't even cum during masturbation, I just edges for ages.
01/11/2013
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
I have to cum for me to be satisfied
01/11/2013
Contributor: ladyjo1987 ladyjo1987
It's a bigger deal for my partner to make me cum - he wants to and often can't - then it is for me to cum. He seems to feel bad when it's not really his fault.
01/13/2013
Contributor: kaykay0427 kaykay0427
I don't always have to get off sometimes if I know hes horny ill let him fuck me even if im not feeling it... but about 9 times out of 10 he will make sure i get off before he does
01/13/2013
Contributor: SavingMyself SavingMyself
I would not be happy if we had sex and he had an orgasm and I didn't. It doesn't take much to get me to cum, so if he couldn't put forth even that tiny bit of effort, I'd be upset.
01/15/2013