one, just my wife. same with her. we have been together for over 18 years. still going strong.

In high school I was a tad promiscuous but learned quick that it's more important to develop a healthy relationship and sex life with one person

Not very many. (:

I could just as easily have said so many I don't know but that seems more like a bad attitude than a fact. I have had more than 200 women as sexual partners and as many men (consensually) as I can count on one hand. I think the rest of you are just lazy. Anyone in their mid30s who has had less than 20 partners seems naive to me. But there are huge cultural differences between those in polyamorist or "open" communities and serial/monogamists. I wonder what role education, travel, metropolitan vs rural has?

BTW I'm being playful (honest but playful) and don't mean to offend anyone. I completely support everyone's right to craft their sexual partnerships is the model that is most desirable to the parties involved.

After my divorce, I turned into the male version of a slut. Both times. If my current wife would have listened to me I would have never gotten married the third time, would have been married to her, life wouldn't be so complicated and I would not have been a slut. I should have been more persistent with her. Glad we aer together now.

I've had enough to know what I like.

14, and I've settled down, but I'm not ashamed of my 'number'.

15. A solid number for my age, I think.

One and its the same guy im with now

I kind of call it two. I definitely had sex with one person, and sort of had sex with a couple of others, so I average it out to two.

8 for me. 6men and 2women.