When you're having fun (both solo and with a partner), how many times (on average) do you like to climax before you can happily finish? I'm asking what is the bare minimum that you have to get off to feel satisfied. Obviously, we would like to get off many times but what is the minimum number (on average) that you have to get off to be really happy?
How many times (on average) do you like to get off before you call it quits?
Discussion Topics
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(SOLO) What is the minimum number of times you like to get off before you're finished?
(47 posts)
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(PARTNER) What is the minimum number of times you like to get off before you're finished?
(28 posts)
This number is on average and only for solo play. (Private voting, just in case)
02/27/2012
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When I'm using a toy, I like to get off at least twice or else I feel like I dragged the thing out and have to clean it up for practically nothing. I'm lazy, I guess you could say, so I usually need at least two orgasms to feel like it was worth all the effort.
02/27/2012
I don't really have a set number, but three is an average stopping point.
02/27/2012
3 is the charm
02/27/2012
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im good with once
Originally posted by
Nazaress
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02/27/2012
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at least 5 times but with us when we make love we pull allnighters
Originally posted by
Nazaress
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02/27/2012
Solo about three. I save it for our play.
02/27/2012
I am honestly happy with 1, but it's usually 3 these days. After the first one, the rest just seem to come so easily, so why not keep going?
02/27/2012
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one
Originally posted by
Nazaress
This number is on average and only for solo play. (Private voting, just in case)
02/28/2012
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One OR two
Originally posted by
Nazaress
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02/28/2012
Depends on what I've got going on for the rest of my day, but usually three times is a good average I suppose.
02/28/2012
one
02/28/2012
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Solo 2 or 3
Originally posted by
Nazaress
This number is on average and only for solo play. (Private voting, just in case)
02/28/2012
Okay.. I am the only one that picked 4 times or more. I like to take the first two orgasms slow and teasingly. then.. EXPLOSION. the next two are quick and franctic because i feel like my heart is beating out of my chest but i want one or two more. after that.. time for bed. sleep. goodnight. LOL. in my opinion, 4 is a good number. it may be a lot for people, but solo.. definitely four and no less.
02/28/2012
one and done for me!
02/28/2012
1 and I'm done. I haven't been able to get over the tickleish feeling to be able to stand a toy on me after I've had one.
02/28/2012
By myself, just once. It takes me longer to cum on my own than it does during sex for some reason. The orgasm tends to be stronger, but it takes forever to get there. After one, I'm pretty much exhausted.
02/28/2012
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I'm really sensitive right after so I back off for a few moments and then I'm usually okay.
Originally posted by
unfulfilled
1 and I'm done. I haven't been able to get over the tickleish feeling to be able to stand a toy on me after I've had one.
02/28/2012
Whenever I can afford to do so I never stop until I have got 4 full pleasure peaks, simply because 4 of them produce as much endorphins as 1 done with someone, but I noticed that I prefer to go on and on until I really can't manage more anymore, which is about 6 or even more sometimes, very often 8, 9, even 12, oh my! ^^ ~blushes
02/28/2012
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1 and Done
Originally posted by
Nazaress
This number is on average and only for solo play. (Private voting, just in case)
03/12/2012
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Solo three, partner one
Originally posted by
Nazaress
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03/12/2012
one!
03/12/2012
I'm never satisfied with just one, and I can't stop at two because... Iunno, rule of threes?
03/12/2012
Two or three usually. One would just make me feel lazy.
03/13/2012
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1 and I call it "the snooze button"
Originally posted by
Nazaress
This number is on average and only for solo play. (Private voting, just in case)
03/14/2012
Two or three.
03/14/2012
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I'm good with once
Originally posted by
Nazaress
This number is on average and only for solo play. (Private voting, just in case)
03/18/2012
I'm trying to train myself to have multiple orgasms, but I can't do more than a couple yet
03/20/2012
1 unless I'm feeling extra special. I'm lazy!
04/05/2012
one is usually plenty for both of us.
04/06/2012
How do you get more than one????
04/06/2012
I go for 3 or more. I need to come and once I get there I am always like one more, one more, ONE MORE!!!!
04/07/2012
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Lol, I'm the same way. Orgasms are like potato chips
Originally posted by
Beck
I go for 3 or more. I need to come and once I get there I am always like one more, one more, ONE MORE!!!!
04/07/2012
Im jealous of you all and your multiple orgasms!
04/07/2012
I usually come quite a few times. With the right toy it doesn't take long for each. so I might as well. Though with hi powered vibrators you have to be careful you might over do it.
It also depends on the orgasm. occasionally OI get really sensitive and have to stop for a while before I can go again.
It also depends on the orgasm. occasionally OI get really sensitive and have to stop for a while before I can go again.
04/07/2012
3 orgasms is great for me! However, immediately after the first one, I have to keep going for the 2nd and 3rd ones, or I can't orgasm anymore.
04/07/2012
For solo, probably 2 or 3...on average
04/07/2012
At least 5!
04/10/2012
Once if I'm with my partner, 2 or 3 if I'm going solo!
04/10/2012
Twice, at least!
02/09/2013
Two or three, usually.
02/09/2013
One leads to three or four, so, eh. Once in spirit. Three times in reality.
02/09/2013
Once. Sometimes twice
02/10/2013
If it's clitoral, just once. If I'm bringing dildos into the mix, a couple of times. It all depends on if I'm going for a quickie, or I'm there to take my time.
02/22/2013
Once for me, usually 2 or 3 with a partner
02/25/2013
Mine are so intense that 1 is enough for a few minutes.
02/26/2013
One or two...It takes too long to go for more
02/26/2013
Total posts: 47
Unique posters: 44
This number is on average and only for couple play. (Private voting, just in case)
02/27/2012
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My boyfriend and I don't make love as often as I'd like so I usually want to get off at least twice to be completely happy with the encounter. If I get off once, I'm happy, but I'm more happy when I get off at least twice. It helps that he also likes to get me off as many times as he can before we finish. It helps him as much as it pleases me.
02/27/2012
My boyfriend and I have quite a bit of sex, and it just usually ends with more than once.
02/27/2012
IF I come it's only once
02/27/2012
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2 is good
Originally posted by
Nazaress
This number is on average and only for couple play. (Private voting, just in case)
02/28/2012
One, maybe 2
02/28/2012
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2 because I get sensitive after awhile and the second time he takes FOREVER to get off! If we take a break 3 times is ok.
Originally posted by
Nazaress
This number is on average and only for couple play. (Private voting, just in case)
02/28/2012
1 and done for both situations. We have sex at night and want to get some sleep afterwards
02/28/2012
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When I am alone I find one and done is usually my style, I guess you'd say but with either partner I am multi orgasmic. I'm not really sure why but I think it has to do with the different types of orgasm I am able to experience with a partner. When I am solo I tend to go for the goal, so to speak, and am fairly satisfied...for a bit.
Originally posted by
Nazaress
This number is on average and only for couple play. (Private voting, just in case)
02/28/2012
I'm always left alone to finish after he's done so my one is still the same answer.
02/28/2012
I can cum almost every two or three minutes (sometimes less) during sex. So I expect to cum more than five times. I've never counted out how many before I say "yeah, I'm good - just waiting on you now." I know it's more than five.
02/28/2012
Usually just once is fine.
02/28/2012
Just once works for me. If I try to keep going after one it can be really uncomfortable.
02/28/2012
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I'm sorry that happens for you.
Originally posted by
unfulfilled
I'm always left alone to finish after he's done so my one is still the same answer.
@ Kira: Wow! I think three is probably a record for me when we're not "aiming" for anything, you know? Like, he can make me go more but if it's just regular sex, it only happens two or maybe three times. That's pretty impressive!
02/28/2012
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I am sad for you. I hope that changes soon!
Originally posted by
unfulfilled
I'm always left alone to finish after he's done so my one is still the same answer.
02/28/2012
2 would be a "required minimum" if I didn't pay all that much attention to my Master's Comfort of being fine with 1 only, so I better say that I have to be ok with it, then I often just go on by myself, but always in my life when I was with someone I preferred to get my "load" of 2 and rather 3 whenever there was a chance, and even more of course if possible! ^^ ~lays ears blushy
02/28/2012
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1 and Done
Originally posted by
Nazaress
This number is on average and only for couple play. (Private voting, just in case)
03/12/2012
My current partner and I marathon like we're trying to prove something. It's tough to say how many times I get off, though. It's just a big sexy blur.
03/12/2012
Usually one and done. He goes at it rougher than I do so I can usually only handle one.
03/14/2012
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Keep on going until both of you are completely exhausted.
Originally posted by
Nazaress
This number is on average and only for couple play. (Private voting, just in case)
03/19/2012
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normally it's just one. only probably twice have a O'ed more than once. VERY rare. I wish i could keep going but i get exhausted, touched out and too sensitive
Originally posted by
Nazaress
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How do people have more than one?
I think my problem is i can ONLY O ontop with proper clit pressure/rubbing. I wish i could O from penetration alone
04/06/2012
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I'd like to go twice a day, but usually we don't have time.
Originally posted by
Nazaress
This number is on average and only for couple play. (Private voting, just in case)
04/07/2012
It depends on the guy. I had one where I was coming 4 time in night. with another, sex was always a struggle for us. I'm hoping my next man will by more like the former.
04/07/2012
Foreplay included its normally twice but thats not always the case but my fience is normally pretty good about making sure I'm not left wanting more one way or another
04/10/2012
i am a guy so 1 and done in my case for both. i am so jealous of you ladies and your multiple orgasms. does that make up for periods and giving birth?
02/09/2013
I'm lucky if I can even get off once with a partner if my vibe isn't within reach so I'd say "one and done"!
02/09/2013
Infinity. If he's willing to keep going, I'm down.
02/09/2013
If I don't get my 3 orgasms in, I'm left wanting. He makes me cum HARD at 3+. I love it when I have trouble moving afterwards.
02/22/2013
Total posts: 28
Unique posters: 26