I should have voted "Rather inclosed about my sexuality when it is not on here/internet. Only my doctor knows in my real life."
I'm a very private person.
I'm somewhere between the second and third choices. Only my partner knows about my fantasies, but some close friends know a bit about me, like my activity on eden, for example.
I'm open with certain people, essentially close friends who aren't the prying kind. I used to be more open, but certain friends of mine were indiscreet and didn't see why it was not a good idea to talk about my kinks, conquests, and the like to people I didn't really know, which rightfully so, PISSED ME OFF.
I just don't tell most of my friends my personal business anymore. I like the privacy. My business, unless I choose to share it with other people, is my own fucking business.
I'm pretty open if someone asks but I'm not one to go around bragging
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12/29/2010
hornypoet69
I voted for the most open one, but I'm not very open with my family. My mom knows I'm gay, but no way in hell am I going to tell her I own a dildo, or anything of the sort.
I keep to things between my partner and myself. We will discuss things with closer friends if asked, but that rarely happens so it usually isn't an issue.
Im extremely open. If the subject comes up with someone, Im more than happy to talk!
Ditto! My mom and even my father have been known to ask me for advice when they were dating after their divorce. Awkward, at first. But all my friends, and my family knows we are highly sexual and that we do reviews. They got a kick out of Christmas presents this year! My husband keeps fairly tight lipped around his family though. However his sister, his mom and I talk (at least when we are visiting) and they know. I have a big mouth and I don't care who knows.
If the subject comes up, I'm completely open about it. I don't really see a reason not to be. Someone who is going to judge me on something like that doesn't belong in my life in the first place.
I am open about it to all of my friends, some co-workers, some of my family (my sister, cousins, parents, one of my grandparents, a few of my aunts and uncles).
If someone asks, I'll answer openly, but these things don't usually pop up in normal conversation. I have one friend who I am beginning to freely talk to about sexual preferences, since she's working on discovering her own preferences. The other day, I had a 40-50 minute talk to her about how she shouldn't try anal when she's uncomfortable with the idea, even if her boyfriend wants to do it. It was... interesting.