My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now. We've been experimenting with different things, but I can't seem to get him off. I'm worried it something I'm doing. Any tips on sending my man into ecstasy?
I can't get him off....
09/07/2012
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Thats tough! I don't know an answer, but wanted to make sure you know someone is reading!
Does he have any fantasies? Has he had this with other women? Is this the norm for him?
Does he have any fantasies? Has he had this with other women? Is this the norm for him?
09/07/2012
What all have you tried so far? Is there anything that gets him close? What kind of feedback have you gotten from him?
09/07/2012
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That's pretty odd for a guy. Definitely get feedback, maybe watch porn to get his visual senses going while youre doing it?
Originally posted by
Rachel B
My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now. We've been experimenting with different things, but I can't seem to get him off. I'm worried it something I'm doing. Any tips on sending my man into ecstasy?
09/07/2012
has he had trouble in the past? what have you tried? does he give you any kind of feedback or instruction on what feels good, what he wants to try? I cant say i've ever had this problem, but maybe its medical, side effect to medication or something.....
09/07/2012
Have you tried asking him what's going on?
09/07/2012
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he could have a medical condition or extremely nervous?But ALSO... drugs legal and illegal can do this. I had a bf once with the same problem..it seemed like i could never get him off and did it forever well low and behold it was because he was always high on pills and or coke!...
Originally posted by
Rachel B
My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now. We've been experimenting with different things, but I can't seem to get him off. I'm worried it something I'm doing. Any tips on sending my man into ecstasy?
09/08/2012
I'm with everyone else. Curious about what you've tried but want you to know that we're here to answer any questions you may have.
Medications have an influence, helath issues, etc.
Ask what he desires? Does he have fantasies? Does he like visual stimulation? Porn or you dressing in sexy lingerie that ends in a strip tease? Does he prefer you to make noises? Communication is key here.
Medications have an influence, helath issues, etc.
Ask what he desires? Does he have fantasies? Does he like visual stimulation? Porn or you dressing in sexy lingerie that ends in a strip tease? Does he prefer you to make noises? Communication is key here.
09/08/2012
Talk about what's going on. It's a scary, awkward conversation, but it's important. Also, you've been together 6 months so you should be able to talk to each other about important things.
Ask him to show you how to get him off. I didn't know how hard you could squeeze a guy's penis until one took my hand and showed me. Any number of things could send him over the edge, or hold him back. Maybe dirty talk in his ear pushes him to climax, or maybe stuffed animals looking at him during sex make him too nervous to cum.
Everyone is different. My boyfriend loves blow jobs, but I've never made him cum that way. He still asks for them though.
Ask him to show you how to get him off. I didn't know how hard you could squeeze a guy's penis until one took my hand and showed me. Any number of things could send him over the edge, or hold him back. Maybe dirty talk in his ear pushes him to climax, or maybe stuffed animals looking at him during sex make him too nervous to cum.
Everyone is different. My boyfriend loves blow jobs, but I've never made him cum that way. He still asks for them though.
09/14/2012
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