ladies how doe u tell a guy he has a baby penís?

Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
ladies how doe u tell a guy he has a baby penís?
06/25/2011
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Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Quote:
Originally posted by Kdlips
ladies how doe u tell a guy he has a baby penís?
Depends on the context. In our case it worked out pretty nicely because he was into sexual humiliation so I was able to let him know in the bed without him being upset by it at all. After being told a few times, he just sort of knows/understands and puts in the extra effort elsewhere to get me off.
06/25/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I wouldn't. If his is small, he probably knows that. If I were in that situation, I would prefer to spare his feelings and maybe focus on telling him what things he does well that pleases me.
06/25/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
My ex-husband solved it for me - he didn't want sex.
06/25/2011
Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
If you want to continue the relationship, you don't. His penis may not be the biggest you've ever had, but if you like the rest of the package (brains, personality, love for you) then I would say nothing and get creative. Introduce him to penis sleeves and other size enhancing options.
06/25/2011
Contributor: lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
Don't say anything just buy a penis pump.
06/25/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Kdlips
ladies how doe u tell a guy he has a baby penís?
The same way a man tells a woman her ass is too big, vagina is too loose, or boobs are saggy...you don't. These are things that the person already knows or can do very little about. Unless the guy is very into humiliation I focus on other things about the guy I like and build him up in those areas. I can always get a larger dildo but I can't always get a new guy...especially if he's a great guy!
06/25/2011
Contributor: melissa1973 melissa1973
I've only had that problem once and that was with my X husband. LOL No wonder he was a virgin until we got married. I shoulda checked under the hood first or kicked the tires. Now everyone except him I have never had a complaint with in that catagory.
06/25/2011
Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
The same way a man tells a woman her ass is too big, vagina is too loose, or boobs are saggy...you don't. These are things that the person already knows or can do very little about. Unless the guy is very into humiliation I focus on other things ... more
Very well put.

I agree with this entirely
06/25/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by melissa1973
I've only had that problem once and that was with my X husband. LOL No wonder he was a virgin until we got married. I shoulda checked under the hood first or kicked the tires. Now everyone except him I have never had a complaint with in that ... more
that's horrible and funny! why didn't u see it beofre you got married did u try?
06/26/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
The same way a man tells a woman her ass is too big, vagina is too loose, or boobs are saggy...you don't. These are things that the person already knows or can do very little about. Unless the guy is very into humiliation I focus on other things ... more
Yup. From a guy's perspective, there is simply no good way of saying this. Not that I have that problem mind you . If he is a great guy, deal with it, because it would almost assuredly absolutely crush him if you told him he had "a baby penis".

That said, if you really are into something that is absolutely enormous, you might be able to spare his feelings by saying that a normal-sized penis feels good, but doesn't get you off the same way something freakishly huge does. In that case, Petite Valentine's suggestion of a penis sleeve might do the trick
06/26/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by Kdlips
ladies how doe u tell a guy he has a baby penís?
If that is something you just cannot deal with, break up. Don't stay in the relationship and harbor resentment for something that he cannot change.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Bonesdance Bonesdance
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Originally posted by RonLee
If that is something you just cannot deal with, break up. Don't stay in the relationship and harbor resentment for something that he cannot change.
I'd agree with this; there's no point humiliating a guy over something he has no control over. Either learn to live with it or move on.
06/28/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
oh this made me giggle. i've been there... i just stopped having sex with him. it was awkward relationship-wise without the tiny pee pee. it just added to the ick factor. shouldnt have been with this guy in the first place.




good luck!
06/28/2011
Contributor: null null
You just don't. Unless it's some huge hang-up for you, just don't tell him and push for activities other than PIV sex that can get you off.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Lilith's Girl Friday Lilith's Girl Friday
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
My ex-husband solved it for me - he didn't want sex.
That's not really a solution to a problem, though, is it?
07/09/2011
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
if you care about or love the person it really shouldn't matter.there are so many other great things to focus on.besides,if you care about them it should still bring you great pleasure being with them.isn't emotion one of the contributors to pleasure in sex?if it bothers you,then move on.but don't be mean to him and tell him he is small.build him up instead in other aspects.
07/09/2011