Lights on or off? What do you prefer and why? I really like a soft glow, I like to know what I'm doing.. however, I had mind blowing sex once where it was pitch black and absolutely silent... all my senses were heightened.
Lights on or Lights off
02/13/2012
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Um... you offer yes and no as answers to an either/or question. I can't really answer by voting, so I'll answer here. Lights on. I like to see my lover's hot body, and I like him to be able to see what he's doing.
02/13/2012
Both are good.
02/13/2012
Either on or off for me.
02/13/2012
I prefer to have them off, but we do it with the light on sometimes too.
02/14/2012
I can't answer the poll, as the answer wasn't a yes or no. I love the lights off.
02/14/2012
yes.
02/14/2012
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Lights on...if he wants to do it with the lights off, I tend to think he doesn't find me that attractive!
Originally posted by
EdenJP
Lights on or off? What do you prefer and why? I really like a soft glow, I like to know what I'm doing.. however, I had mind blowing sex once where it was pitch black and absolutely silent... all my senses were heightened.
02/14/2012
Either/or...like anything, it depends in my mood.
02/14/2012
I prefer off. More relaxing.
02/14/2012
off if it's on the ceiling so I don't go blind
02/14/2012
Candle light is the BEST! The flicker can be erotic if the candle is influenced by the movement of the event.
02/14/2012
I am a lights on kind of girl. I like to see and be seen. The only time I want it dark is if it is part of some form of sensory deprivation play.
02/14/2012
Either, a light glow is nice though ... I like to be able to see whats going on.
02/15/2012
I don't think I've ever had sex completely in the dark... hmmmmmm.
02/15/2012
This is an either/or question. I can't very well answer yes/no. But I like the lights on. I like to see his face.
02/15/2012
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Same here, but I like to switch it up sometimes... pitch black can highten the already amazing feelings
Originally posted by
Ilovelingerie
Either, a light glow is nice though ... I like to be able to see whats going on.
02/16/2012
I really enjoy the glow from a candle. I think it makes things a lot more sensual.
02/16/2012
I don't typically have a preference. If I want it dark, I can wear a blindfold
02/16/2012
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ON ON ON!!!@!!
Originally posted by
EdenJP
Lights on or off? What do you prefer and why? I really like a soft glow, I like to know what I'm doing.. however, I had mind blowing sex once where it was pitch black and absolutely silent... all my senses were heightened.
02/16/2012
lights on
02/16/2012
I always used to like it lights on, but my current SO has turned me on to doing it in the dark or in soft light. I like both *shrug*
02/16/2012
I like both, just depends on the mood.
02/16/2012
I really like soft light. It seems more romantic and sensual to me. We do it in any lighting, though. Usually depends on how the lights are before things get started.
02/16/2012
ummm we keep them off. I think it's more of the privacy thing than anything. Our apartment bedrooom window faces the parking lot and our building group if right at the entrance by a pretty busy road.
02/16/2012
It depends on my mood.
03/14/2012
On.
03/14/2012
Hopefully on, but on occasion lights off is fine too.
03/14/2012
I kinda prefer them on. I like to see what's going on, I'm visual that way!
03/14/2012
Depends. Sometimes I prefer the dark...sometimes I want to see it all!
03/30/2012
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