Lube--in all its textures and tastes!

Hmm...where to begin? I want to try a clitoral stimulating lube that doesn't have a taste, and also doesn't set my crotch on fire. Seems simple, right? So then why are so many of them minty or fruity?! He just wants my natural taste.

Also, is it ever a good idea to use warming/cooling lube intended for vaginal use as anal lube? Is there an all in one stimulating/vaginal/an al/non-flavored/non-sc ented lube on the market that works?

Sorry for all the silly questions...just new territory that I'd like to explore.