Masturbation: Make a date or surprise yourself?

Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
Someone made a comment tonight that I thought was interesting. "I don't think masturbation is something you plan, it just happens" So my question is this tonight, do you ever plan to masturbate or is it something that just happens for you?
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I have and do sometimes makes plans with myself to masturbate
20
I do it when the mood strikes, I never plan it
29
Somewhere in between there. Would love to hear your comments
6
Total votes: 55 (52 voters)
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Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I think it's planned for the most part, but it's usually just planning a few hours ahead (like, "during my shower tonight I want to have a little playtime.")
07/26/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
Someone made a comment tonight that I thought was interesting. "I don't think masturbation is something you plan, it just happens" So my question is this tonight, do you ever plan to masturbate or is it something that just happens for you?
I dont ever plan anything
07/26/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I have to plan since I hardly ever have "alone time" when I'm not doing work.
07/27/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Well if thinking about it all day then going home and doing it counts as a date.. then yes it is planned sometimes. Although I dont always get the chance. haha.
07/27/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I masturbate because I'm agitated or need something to distract me from what's going on at the time. I don't think it's ever been just because I was horny. Most of the time, the toys only come out to play when the hubby is around.
07/27/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
If I have something new to play with, then it usually gets planned. Otherwise, it just happens whenever.
07/27/2011
Contributor: lanky lanky
it happens when it happens
07/27/2011
Contributor: catgirl9 catgirl9
It depends. Sometimes I plan on it, but usually it just happens.
07/27/2011
Contributor: themaddhatter themaddhatter
dont plan it
07/28/2011
Contributor: moonch1ld moonch1ld
I do both. Sometimes I plan to the next morning or to wait until after having sex before I do it again.
07/28/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I just go with the flow - whenever the mood strikes me.
07/28/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
More when I'm hungry for it and hubby isn't around.
07/29/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
Sometimes I just feel like it, so I do it. Sometimes I'm having a hard day at work and I plan to do it when I get home.
07/29/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
Someone made a comment tonight that I thought was interesting. "I don't think masturbation is something you plan, it just happens" So my question is this tonight, do you ever plan to masturbate or is it something that just happens for you?
Sometimes I just feel like it and get busy. Usually when my husband and I want to go for it together we say something in the a.m. about tonight and that gives us all day as 'foreplay' to build up some serious excitement. Sometimes the anticipation is as hot as the action!
07/29/2011
Contributor: Crichton Crichton
Sometimes I catch myself planning it, but that is when I'm super stressed and need relief. Most often than not I'm spontaneous about it.
07/29/2011
Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Sometimes I just feel like it and get busy. Usually when my husband and I want to go for it together we say something in the a.m. about tonight and that gives us all day as 'foreplay' to build up some serious excitement. Sometimes the ... more
I like all day foreplay using sexting and naughty pics while we're apart!
07/31/2011
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
I am always making plans for it. The kids have to be napping and the wife is away to work. I know I'm going to be alone for a couple hours and That's when I take over my room or the shower and break out the box of toys and lube.
08/01/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
I don't think I've ever planned it. I do it whenever the mood strikes.
08/01/2011
Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
Quote:
Originally posted by Istanbull
I am always making plans for it. The kids have to be napping and the wife is away to work. I know I'm going to be alone for a couple hours and That's when I take over my room or the shower and break out the box of toys and lube.
That is always sort of my MO too! Kids at school, husband at work and I need a break from writing or editing!
08/06/2011
Contributor: chicken12 chicken12
I almost never masturbate when I'm horny - because I don't get horny. I just do it when I'm bored and it's something differen tto do.
11/03/2011
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
I don't think I've ever really planned it...like to be spontaneous!
11/03/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I just do it whenever the mood strikes me honestly. I don't like planning. It just kills the mood for me.
11/03/2011
Contributor: TameTemptress TameTemptress
It's a surprise!
11/04/2011
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
I rarely plan it, most of the time its when the mood strikes.
01/08/2013
Contributor: subbieforHer subbieforHer
I do honestly miss being able to just plan and spontaneously do that sort of thing. Now whenever I "plan" to do such a thing, I have to seek Mistress's permission to be released from my CB-6000. She is a stickler on denying me until my behavior and service are to Her satisfaction.
01/08/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Sometimes I plan, sometimes it just happens. Depends on the day/mood.
01/08/2013
Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
I never plan it
01/08/2013
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
i never plan it
01/10/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
If you have room mates...sometimes planning has to happen!
01/10/2013