MEN: Hot or Not-- if your partner wanted to know...

If your partner wanted to know exactly how you liked to be touched, wanted your help showing exactly how you would grasp and stroke yourself, would you enjoy it?

Imagine your significant other saying, "show me how you touch yourself ". Then they straddle you (either forwards or backwards--whichever you prefer),they take your length in their hands along with your hands, lube up, and they say, "use my hands as if they were your own. But I don't want you to cum yet. You will have to let me know when you are close so I can stop"

The cumming will happen when the foreplay is all over

Would this be the beginnings to a hot evening or no? What would you like as a man??

I'm thinking, reverse straddle so one of his hands can guide me in my efforts while his other hand is toying with me Then, I'm in perfect position to be flipped for some rear action That's just me being greedy tho lol less

YES! I would like that very much. I'd like that for my birthday, Yom Kippur, Arbor day, Flag day, Sausage day, Columbus day, Wednesday, and any other day that ends in "y" and a few that do not end in "y". That is the opening to a great and very satisfying night. And its not greedy if he is willing to satisfy. It's similar to the expression, "You can't rape the willing." less

I have for years encouraged my wife to touch herself to teach me what she likes. Part of it is a fantasy - she's a teacher, so the reference works. She's actually starting to enjoy doing it more now - maturity has its benefits.

When we first got our Pure Wand, I got her to experiment with it and teach me how to use it. With something hard and heavy like the PW, it was an excellent plan. She loved it, taught me what I needed to know - and lost much of her inhibition about talking about masturbation.

Even though I'm generally the more adventurous one - I've been reluctant to touch myself in front of her. However it works better when she's pegging me to have me do the stroking - so she can focus on the thrusting. Another barrier crossed for practical reasons.

We've also included 'directed' masturbation as a part of our Dom-Sub games. Recently, and unsolicited, she dipped her fingers vaginally then gave me a taste - I've wanted her to do that forever!

The most fun of all these activities is that it reinforces sex as a healthy playful way to deepen our relationship and have fun. Sometimes things completely fail - but we can laugh it off, because its a game - not some huge romantic 'moment'.

Keep experimenting - there is no wrong choice between consenting loving partners. less

I love hearing when couples are so able to let go of their barriers and then be able to discuss some of their experiences/challenges . I think it helps me to do the same. To let go of the shyness that tends to creep in and helps me to embrace the sexual person I hope to be for my husband .

I think my curiosity lately has started to shock him a bit and has kept him on his toes lol. And, oh do we have laughter at times!!! If our walls could talk, it might make for a good sit-com during some of our 'experimenting' lol. less

I love hearing when couples are so able to let go of their barriers and then be able to discuss some of their experiences/challenges . I think it helps me to do the same. To let go of the shyness that tends to creep in and helps me to embrace the sexual person I hope to be for my husband .

I think my curiosity lately has started to shock him a bit and has kept him on his toes lol. And, oh do we have laughter at times!!! If our walls could talk, it might make for a good sit-com during some of our 'experimenting' lol. less

I've gotten to the age were I have started to realize my limitations - ED, etc. When we're young we take too much for granted and that we'll have our health forever, sadly that's not the case.

Sometimes I regret how late in life my wife finally began responding in earnest to my lifelong endeavor to please her - so much time lost. But regret is not useful, I'm just happy for what I have and committed to keeping it going as long as the Cialis lasts!

Make the best of every opportunity you get. less

If your partner wanted to know exactly how you liked to be touched, wanted your help showing exactly how you would grasp and stroke yourself, would you enjoy it?

Imagine your significant other saying, "show me how you touch yourself ". Then they straddle you (either forwards or backwards--whichever you prefer),they take your length in their hands along with your hands, lube up, and they say, "use my hands as if they were your own. But I don't want you to cum yet. You will have to let me know when you are close so I can stop"

The cumming will happen when the foreplay is all over

Would this be the beginnings to a hot evening or no? What would you like as a man??

I'm thinking, reverse straddle so one of his hands can guide me in my efforts while his other hand is toying with me Then, I'm in perfect position to be flipped for some rear action That's just me being greedy tho lol less

If your partner wanted to know exactly how you liked to be touched, wanted your help showing exactly how you would grasp and stroke yourself, would you enjoy it?

Imagine your significant other saying, "show me how you touch yourself ". Then they straddle you (either forwards or backwards--whichever you prefer),they take your length in their hands along with your hands, lube up, and they say, "use my hands as if they were your own. But I don't want you to cum yet. You will have to let me know when you are close so I can stop"

The cumming will happen when the foreplay is all over

Would this be the beginnings to a hot evening or no? What would you like as a man??

I'm thinking, reverse straddle so one of his hands can guide me in my efforts while his other hand is toying with me Then, I'm in perfect position to be flipped for some rear action That's just me being greedy tho lol less

If your partner wanted to know exactly how you liked to be touched, wanted your help showing exactly how you would grasp and stroke yourself, would you enjoy it?

Imagine your significant other saying, "show me how you touch yourself ". Then they straddle you (either forwards or backwards--whichever you prefer),they take your length in their hands along with your hands, lube up, and they say, "use my hands as if they were your own. But I don't want you to cum yet. You will have to let me know when you are close so I can stop"

The cumming will happen when the foreplay is all over

Would this be the beginnings to a hot evening or no? What would you like as a man??

I'm thinking, reverse straddle so one of his hands can guide me in my efforts while his other hand is toying with me Then, I'm in perfect position to be flipped for some rear action That's just me being greedy tho lol less

If your partner wanted to know exactly how you liked to be touched, wanted your help showing exactly how you would grasp and stroke yourself, would you enjoy it?

Imagine your significant other saying, "show me how you touch yourself ". Then they straddle you (either forwards or backwards--whichever you prefer),they take your length in their hands along with your hands, lube up, and they say, "use my hands as if they were your own. But I don't want you to cum yet. You will have to let me know when you are close so I can stop"

The cumming will happen when the foreplay is all over

Would this be the beginnings to a hot evening or no? What would you like as a man??

I'm thinking, reverse straddle so one of his hands can guide me in my efforts while his other hand is toying with me Then, I'm in perfect position to be flipped for some rear action That's just me being greedy tho lol less