For the MEN! Male Multiple Orgasm.

For the MEN! Male Multiple Orgasm.

BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Or women, if their men have experience with the topic and have something to add...

So, My Mr. and I were talking in the car on the way to a class we had to go to about orgasms. (What? There were no kids with us! Of course we talk about sex!!!)

I was explaining how having more orgasms in one day is helpful to me for increasing my sex drive since it brings blood flow to my genitals. So he countered that he actually does not even want to masturbate much anymore because my sex drive is so high that he doesn't want to take away from our time together by wasting an orgasm midday. (Now, let's not get crazy, I work late evenings and he's often in bed when I get home, so it's not to say that he doesn't masturbate, he just doesn't as often as he used to.)

He was telling me that, for him, orgasms are more intense depending on how much seminal fluid is built up, so if he's release recently, orgasms are less intense. He also said that there was a technique for learning to orgasm without ejaculating, and I found a website that discusses this. We're not opposed to the work it takes to learn this technique.

I'm just wondering if any men have tried it, been successful at it, has any tips for learning?

Thanks in advance. Sorry for the text wall.
12/17/2010
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wolf's lil red temptation wolf's lil red temptation
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
Or women, if their men have experience with the topic and have something to add...

So, My Mr. and I were talking in the car on the way to a class we had to go to about orgasms. (What? There were no kids with us! Of course we talk about ...
Wow, that is pretty interesting. I think I will share that news with my partner. He always seems to hold off longer than me which results in me having multiple orgasms and him one big one. It would be nice though if he could have multiple orgasms though, since he constantly gives me them.

I do agree though with your Mr. about the holding off making them better- I've noticed that if we take a break and he holds off, it tends to be VERY rewarding for him.

Does your man normally orgasm pretty fast or does he take a while? I wonder if that makes a difference.

Either way, I will share it with him and we will do a little bit of 'researching' hahaha
12/17/2010
Yoda Yoda
I would concur that if I haven't had an orgasm in a while, they are WAY more intense when I do. Something about the buildup of fluid and emotion, and yes, deprivation.
12/17/2010
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by wolf's lil red temptation
Wow, that is pretty interesting. I think I will share that news with my partner. He always seems to hold off longer than me which results in me having multiple orgasms and him one big one. It would be nice though if he could have multiple orgasms ...
He's not terribly quick, it depends. We find that the more deprivation we have, the quicker it is next time yet more intense.

But I am wondering if anyone has actually accomplished this technique? What about orgasm without ejaculation? How do you separate the two?
12/17/2010
namelesschaos namelesschaos
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
Or women, if their men have experience with the topic and have something to add...

So, My Mr. and I were talking in the car on the way to a class we had to go to about orgasms. (What? There were no kids with us! Of course we talk about ...
Yes that technique works and is the way most (note I said most) multi-orgasmic men seem to find out they can have multiple orgasms. I actually food that technique works by accident, I was just using my PC muscles to enhance my impending orgasm and ended up prevent ejaculation and the subsequent refractory period.

Although that technique works i don't use it often I've found a whole host of things that can bring me to non-ejaculatory and thus refectory period free orgasms, vibrators, pain (I love my clover clamps), even direct gentile stimulation depending on the amount of pressure, thrust speed etc.

In my experiences all of the non-ejaculatory orgasm I have are good and they do tend to make the build up to that one big orgasm more intense; although seem men report weaker orgasm due to having to concentrate to perform the method you linked to.

The most important tip I can give is not to think of male multiple orgasms as a goal, depending on your guy he may pick up the trick right away, or it may become a hobby taking a long while for results to manifests. Enjoy the journey even if it doesn't end in multiple orgasm the process will teach your guy about his body and if you do it together it can be good bonding time.
12/17/2010
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by namelesschaos
Yes that technique works and is the way most (note I said most) multi-orgasmic men seem to find out they can have multiple orgasms. I actually food that technique works by accident, I was just using my PC muscles to enhance my impending orgasm and ...
Thanks for the advice! I'll pass it along!
12/17/2010
Liz2 Liz2
My b/f over the past 1 1/5 yrs has really discovered his P spot. He totally enjoys strap-on play and over the past year noticed that prior to ejaculating cum, that during my thrusting, he emits a copious amount of pre-cum which is very similar to my ejaculate prior to his "big" orgasm. He describes these releases as kinda like a mini orgasm, which is pleasurable and does delay his seminal ejaculation.
Sometimes he doesn't ejaculate but he says he is satisfied.
After a strap-on session, if does cum, as above, he needs lots of time before he is aroused again, like next day.
12/17/2010
ScottA ScottA
Even if you don't achieve multiple orgasm you can learn some techniques to boost your ability to maintain an erection after orgasm. Even if you don't have a second orgasm sex still feels good.
12/17/2010
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by ScottA
Even if you don't achieve multiple orgasm you can learn some techniques to boost your ability to maintain an erection after orgasm. Even if you don't have a second orgasm sex still feels good.
Well yes, and that is part of the desire too, to learn to "play through," if you will.

But I think some of the desire is to work on this technique for deprivation play as well. Have several nights of sex where he does not ejaculate, and then go into a dom/sub session where he'd be submissive and I'd "allow" him to ejaculate.
12/17/2010
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