Multiple orgasms????

Contributor: Heather Heather
Yeah I have no idea what that is. Many of you mention in the forums how you have these and how you can have sex over and over in one evening. Was there a time when you just couldn't and it changed? If so, how did you change it? Once I climax I'm useless and don't like to be touched. Can that change?
11/17/2009
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Contributor: Saraid Saraid
Heather,

I have always been able to have more than one orgasm in a masturbation session or during sex (with clit stim). Have you tried just very lightly touching yourself or putting pressure on your clit after you come until some of the initial shock goes and you can go again? That's what I tend to do.
11/17/2009
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Heather
Yeah I have no idea what that is. Many of you mention in the forums how you have these and how you can have sex over and over in one evening. Was there a time when you just couldn't and it changed? If so, how did you change it? Once I climax ... more
Absolutely - it use to be that my wife was just like you. The way I got around this perception was to get her off with a vibe - then when it was 'my turn' I had her climb on top and think about the weather until she brought herself to a second orgasm trying to get me off!

Once she realized what was going on - and her potential for multiple orgasms she was more open to trying different techniques to do so.

Early on there always had to be a short lull in the activity - especially careful not to overstimulate her clit - then intercourse for #2. This is about the time I starting buying rabbit type vibes and dildos so that I could maintain her arousal level without contacting her clit.

That's when she really started to experience deeper g-spot and a-spot orgasms. For her this type of orgasm (non-clitoral) are more rhythmic and prolonged - like waves - that the sharper - shorter clitoral orgasms.

Over time she's learned what it takes so it's really quite easy - sometimes its a game for me to see how many I can give her before she collapses from the heavy breathing and emotional exhaustion!

Experiment & enjoy the journey
11/17/2009
Contributor: Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
You know, my partner and I used to think that she could really only have one orgasm during each session, but over time we realized that really isn't the case. We use the first one as warm up (usually clitoral) before we have any intercourse. She usually has another one during intercourse (usually g-spot) and sometimes she'll even have one during anal (although I think it is still g-spot related). It was definitely something that we grew into and she gets a rest in between while she works on warming me up. It has made for very satisfying sessions as of late.
11/17/2009
Contributor: Heather Heather
Thanks for all the great input. Lots of new ideas to try out. Saraid, it worked, sort of. I did just as you said and I didn't have another orgasm but was able to continue with my husband. In the past, I'd dely and/or try to time myself to come at the same time as my husband because I was so sensative after an orgasm. This is a major help and I think my first step to really start working on this and trying all the other suggestions.
11/20/2009
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
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Originally posted by Heather
Yeah I have no idea what that is. Many of you mention in the forums how you have these and how you can have sex over and over in one evening. Was there a time when you just couldn't and it changed? If so, how did you change it? Once I climax ... more
I can keep going and going ..I think my most was 8 or so. I don have to ease up on touching immediately after..but a min or so and im good to go. I discovered this first with masturbating.
11/25/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I have always been able to have more than 1 orgasm per session.
Apparently there are two different types of 'multiple orgasms'. Theres the type where the orgasms are only seconds apart and the other is with a short break (a minute or so) between each one.
11/25/2010