1. Talk is great, but if you get SKYP it is basically free or VERY inexpensive VIDEO PHONE. Then you can put on a SHOW for your lover.
As for what to say, or advice. It really depends on YOUR relationship. Mr. Bignuf travels around to do lectures sometimes, and with my work, I cannot go with him. We often will get each other "steamy" on the phone describing what we will do to each other as soon as we meet back up. The trick is to MAKE IT HAPPEN, no matter what. That way, NEXT TIME, whatever you say will have the absolute "ring of truth".

Once, when he was going across country with five stops, he decided it was easier to drive and have his car, as each lecture was three days apart, and he could listen to lectures HE needed to hear on AudioBooks. Well, when he got to where he was going, I told him where, in the car, I had hidden a sex toy (a life size vagina/anus male masterbator, and I had put MY panties on it, after wearing them and getting them nice and "jucy" with my own scent. I wanted him to sniff them, to think of me, and then I wanted him to "penetrate" the toy WHILE I WATCHED. He was a bit embarrassed at first, but with ME moaning, groaning, encouraging and playing with my own self (using the CLONE A WILLY of HIS penis, in fact), he ended up having a great time....so did I. The best fun you could have apart. It also let ME watch him doing what HE was going to do to ME when he got back from an angle I would never have been able to see (unless we were making our own little video). It was a GREAT hour long call.

Anyway, best wishes on your phone call plans. I hope this helps. less