Pregnancy as a kink

I'm on Implanon, so no. In fact, if I got pregnant I'd be really pissed at Implanon AND my husband!

I do have a friend that has a kink for pregnant girls. I've never asked him if that's why he likes to cum inside girls before. Frankly, I know more than I need to about him sexually and didn't feel the need to ask that. I know he takes risks with things like getting girls pregnant. No condom or birth control, etc. So perhaps for him, yes.

Yes/no?

I like when my partner cums inside me because there's this closeness we feel, and it's his cum, and there's just this super strong primal sort of need and desire for it that makes it feel wonderful.

Now, when I think about it, that primal need and desire is probably part of an evolutionary drive to breed and procreate yada yada. So, in that sense, yes.

However, when I actually *think* about it getting pregnant, I do not find the thought appealing or sexy at all. It elicits a strong DO NOT WANT response. In fact, if I bothered to think about it while having sex, I'd probably have to stop (having sex).

Now maybe that will change when I'm "at the age" where I want to have a kid, though I can't imagine that lasting for longer than the moments when I'm actually trying to have a kid. And I think the only reason men find pregnancy sexy is that evolutionary possessiveness and proudness they get when their all powerful sperm finally get put to use. I "get it" but still... lol *rolls eyes*

My husband and I find nothing sexy about pregnancy. We would be devastated if I got pregnant, as I have a real fear of pregnancy that causes me to avoid sex altogether because I start to freak out that I might get pregnant (although I am always on birth control). He recently got a vasectomy to help alleviate my stress, but I still worry about it almost all the time.

It's really an awful condition.

The worst thing for me about getting pregnant is gaining weight. I always seem to keep about 10extra lbs, but otherwise having a baby is joyful and I love to try to make one. It is not a kink tho. I do not find it sexy, when I am 8months pregnant and up, I am so huge and miserable that I am hoping the baby comes soon. I get really sick pregnant also, I mean the whole time and from any smell, non smell, sight, and thought. It is terrible, but it must to be worth it to me, since I have been pregnant three times. I can not wait to get pregnant again though. I just wish you did not have to gain weight.

I've been pregnant 4 or 5 times (I may have had one miscarriage that happened before I was sure I was pregnant) and we have 3 children (I did have one miscarriage that was very violent.)

We are both very fertile (probably not as much now as some years ago) and we know the time, effort and money, not to mention the absolute mindfulness it takes to raise a child to adulthood (which isn't "18" anymore, it's closer to 23 to 25 years, if your kids are going to college and/or Graduate School) So, we are very careful not to have more children than we can afford or so many that the ones we have would be neglected.

No, we don't find pregnancy a "kink" although we do find my pregnant body full and ripe and very sexy. My Man loved watching my body bloom into fullness and I loved my expanding body, knowing our child was growing within it. Of course, we wanted children very badly, so this feeling was something that only occurs during a wanted and hopefully planned pregnancy. (Although several of ours were not planned, they were still wanted.)

But, children are a lot of work and we don't take chances with an undesired pregnancy lightly.

I have a little bun in the oven at the moment, and sex has been great. When having sex and the sole purpose of ejaculation during that time is for creating a child its the sexiest thing I've ever felt. We both wanted it, and there seemed to be more drive to it.

I believe my significant other has a pregnancy fetish, centered around conception. He denies it, but, I know it's there. That said, I kind of do too. He likes to cum in me, and sometimes even talk about getting pregnant, even if he knows and I know that I won't be getting pregnant due to birth control (and, at the moment, fertility issues--PCOS). I think it really turns him on to think that he's impregnating me. I've told him that I think he has a fetish, but he's so adamant about it. I think it just freaks him out that he's 'abnormal'.

That said, we both agree that getting pregnant unplanned is a very, very bad idea. Tentative date is set for 2 years from now.

I'm not sure about how he will feel about me when I'm pregnant, though.

I've yet to have children, but impregnation is hot yo!

i think that may be part of the primal urge...and the desire to fuck without meaning bringing you guys closer but the reality of it overcomes that.