Public Sex?

Public Sex?

briluminary briluminary 08/18/2011

I get it, it's hot, but is it that hot? I get the excitement in the danger but there's no WOW factor to me!

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briluminary briluminary
What do you think?
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Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
I like my freedom too much. I feel like I would be the one unlucky person that would get busted and end up in jail for public lewdness or something.
08/18/2011
meitman meitman
I've enjoyed brief experiences with it, but it's nothing I couldn't live without. I guess I'm not THAT into it personally.
08/19/2011
KinkBiLove KinkBiLove
it's exciting. my boyfriend and i don't do it like we used to because now we live together. BUT when we first started dating , we did it in so many public places !
08/19/2011
shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
What do you think?
depends how public...like having sex with no one around but theres the possibility of getting caught...I like that.But actuaaly in front of people or seeing people have sex isnt cool
08/19/2011
Wildchild Wildchild
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
What do you think?
It's all about the thrill for me. I don't want to be arrested though. I'm into the middle of the woods thing, not the sex in the open public thing (ie. grand Caentral Station).
08/19/2011
Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
Always worried about getting caught.
08/19/2011
Beck Beck
NO thanks unless there is not a single person around.
08/19/2011
DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
i've had sex in public before but there wasn't a soul around *shrugs*
08/19/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
public sex is fun. scary but very fun
08/19/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
fun but always worried about getting caught :S .
08/19/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
What do you think?
When we were young and crazy, we did it a few times....but while "public" it was totally discreet (no one would have ever known what was going on under HUGE winter coats as we "hugged" outside, or under a nice THICK blanket at a concert, or in the water off our little raft, in a lake, not really too near anyone.

Now, however, we would not find that "thrill" there and indeed, the out in the open public sex thing is a huge turn off if we see it or hear about it.
08/20/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
Always worried about getting caught.
Cameras are EVERYWHERE now...not like the "olden days" of the fifties to seventies.
08/20/2011
Ava5 Ava5
the fear of the embarrassment and risk of getting arrested or something make it not seem fun at all for me
08/22/2011
haley730 haley730
No not my thing
08/22/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
What do you think?
public sex is fun
08/22/2011
RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Cameras are EVERYWHERE now...not like the "olden days" of the fifties to seventies.
Exactly Bignuf! As well, I can't run like I could as a kid anymore.
But YES, Done it many years ago.
08/22/2011
lucymalfoy lucymalfoy
No, I don't like exposing other people to MY sex life without their consent.
08/23/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
No, I'd be too nervous!
08/23/2011
Caramelgirl Caramelgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
What do you think?
I honestly think public sex is hot !!!
08/23/2011
Anonymous.Brunette Anonymous.Brunette
Too risky for me. I'd be too nervous to really enjoy it.
08/30/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
I enjoy it, the possibility of getting caught is what excites me, but we always make sure it's "in private in public" and nobody else gets exposed to our sexins.
08/30/2011
Bry & Jenn Bry & Jenn
we'd rather do it in private....
08/30/2011
domsub1993 domsub1993
It's very exciting, but I'd never want to damage another person by seeing what they shouldn't see.
10/14/2011
Vanille Vanille
No thank you. I rather go for a private setting. If you want to boink that bad you can wait until we get home.
10/15/2011
ijako9 ijako9
I think it's fun!
10/18/2011
Karen Affeldt Karen Affeldt
The risk of getting caught is what makes it so fun. It also makes sex more intense.
10/18/2011
Jobo Jobo
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
What do you think?
10/19/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
How public are we talking about? I've had sex in a walking trail type park.
10/19/2011
CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
What do you think?
We really enjoy it and do it a lot. That said you have to use some common sense when doing it. If you really want to be "Caught" or watched then go to a swingers house party and just do it in a room but leave the door cracked and shortly someone will take a peek. Or just do it in front of the crowd there if your feeling brave. Most people who have never been to a swing part so they really know what goes on. In 95% plus cases its nothing close to a mass orgy. Its couples and maybe a few singles wandering about and doing the crap we all do at normal parties. Eventually someone will go get naked and people may or may not watch. Its a good place to feel comfortable because most of the folks there are non judgemental and respectful of you. And your 100% safe from getting in trouble if you get "caught" cause thats what people are there for. The magic word is always a polite simple "no" if someone asks to join you if you dont want that. Most parties require couples to wear condoms to have sex even if its a husband and wife just with each other and always if its anyone other then who you came to the party with. As far as actually.doing it in public - go someplace remote and keep easy to put on clothes near by. Or stay inn your vehicle and again use common sense where you park. Don't go places families with kids might be - period. Bars are also most often not super pissed if you have a quicki in their bathroom or casual not obvious play in a dark booth. People will know without you making it obvious - just dont be super dumb and get on the bar rail. Night clubs and bars are also good because by nature they are kid free and most of the folks are drunk and horny or there to get laid themselves - or dance and flirt. Industrial areas also work at night or on weekends when most are closed from normal business. Golf courses at night in a sand trap pr on the green, rivers along the far trail (whatever trail is so long and remote people dont often take ot) also work well. Have fun - be careful - use some common sense and you can have a great and thrilling time!
10/19/2011
NicNat NicNat
Yes and No, I mean I love kising and hugging all of my man in public and I think it would be a major turn on to have public sex, But then the thought that you could get caught and be fined is soooo not worth it, and the fact that little kids could see you. There is already enough badstuff going around that kids are doing, I don't think public sex whould help there chocies any.
10/19/2011
Sinfully Sinfully
Totally hot!
10/19/2011
iwantyouwantingme iwantyouwantingme
I love the idea of public sex, it turns me on (and makes me nervous) to think about other people watching me. I have done some stuff in public ares and the chance of getting caught scared me to death, but also turned me on. To be honest I think I was much more scared of the idea of getting caught after I did it... In the moment I didnt care, lol. Reckless I know, but it is what it is.
10/19/2011
Rhazya Rhazya
I'd love to try it once, but with my luck I'd be caught. Do I want to see others doing it.. no.
10/19/2011
eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
What do you think?
Haven't really done it more than once or twice but I was fairly nervous. A private spot in the woods is better.
11/01/2011
SexyTabby SexyTabby
For me it used to be a thrill but it was a phase we grew out of both out of need and responsibilities. We have kids now and explaining to them Mommy and Daddy were arrested for having sex in the park they play at --- NO THANK YOU! We've already had our share of loving on the beaches, sex in the woods, too public of displays and cops. I'm still very much a fan of outdoor sex but it's restricted to our own property and privacy. It was actually taken into consideration when we bought such a large property in the middle of nowhere.
11/01/2011
Kitka Kitka
We don't do it too often, but it's pretty fun when we do. Mostly it's late at night while camping or something like that.
11/01/2011
ninja250 ninja250
We don't do it often, only a few times, but never really any wow like you said
01/15/2012
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I think it's fun. Our public sex was at a beach in February though, so there wasn't much risk.
02/14/2012
nakedbear nakedbear
Id be far too nervous.
02/14/2012
Teacookie Teacookie
I don't really care about public sex tell it hurts my eyes or ears. there fore keep it at home.
02/14/2012
Melissa Smith Melissa Smith
When we first met we did all the time, But now that kids are involved it's a different story.
02/14/2012
Iron Man Iron Man
I looove public sex. Yesplz.
02/14/2012
richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
What do you think?
not for me
03/12/2012
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
What do you think?
Public sex doesn't happen often, but it's fun sometimes to whisper what I want then walk away to a semi-private place. For me, the spontaneity is sexy, not that is public.
03/12/2012
GO GO
Its hot
03/12/2012
Positwist Positwist
Public sex is fantastic for the adrenaline rush, the fear of getting caught.
03/12/2012
Azule Azule
I think it's fun to a practical extent but there are some safety concerns I've had about certain places like bathrooms and whatnot just because they seem kind of gross.
03/15/2012
dks210 dks210
It's definitely a rush, but I get so paranoid too.
04/09/2012
gloomybear gloomybear
its exciting because its fast and heavy
04/10/2012
Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
I get awfully paranoid, but the excitement really turns me on.
06/24/2012
Greenleaf Greenleaf
I'm extremely, ultra shy. So no, not something I'm interested in at all, to the disappointment of my partner.
06/24/2012
meezerosity meezerosity
No way, too shy and anxious about getting caught.
06/24/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
It's amusing to imagine, but I wouldn't actually have sex in public.
06/24/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
I think I'd be too paranoid to be aroused.
06/24/2012
EdenUser EdenUser
Definitely not, I need to be comfortable to be aroused.
06/24/2012
cricket cricket
I like to get pounded in mcdonalds
06/24/2012
sextoylover sextoylover
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkBiLove
it's exciting. my boyfriend and i don't do it like we used to because now we live together. BUT when we first started dating , we did it in so many public places !
yeah its exhilarating and exciting to know u might get caught!!
06/24/2012
Rey Rey
a kind of scary, nervous fun to indulge!
06/25/2012
mistressg mistressg
Umm..other? It can be okay, but it's not really mind-blowing for me.
06/25/2012
Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
i dont care for it as much as i used to
06/25/2012
MissCandyland MissCandyland
Not really my thing.
06/26/2012
indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
What do you think?
I'm good with PDA but sex is over kills take it home please not in my face
06/26/2012
animepanda89 animepanda89
Not for me.
06/30/2012
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I don't mind it in public if my partner is into it. I get off on making my partner hot and bothered.
06/30/2012
John E W John E W
I vote yes but depending where it is!

It has to be away from kids etc. somewhat safe.

I have been caught before and just warned to get a room! I was lucky it ws at night.
06/30/2012
L&P3040 L&P3040
I voted yes but with some conditions. I'm not doing it in a park or something wide open like that. I'm thinking more like in a dressing room type thing.
06/30/2012
travelnurse travelnurse
totally hot
06/30/2012
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We love public sex, its mainly the thrill of getting caught
07/03/2012
Peggi Peggi
I used to do this all the time, but my hubby isn't really into it and quite frankly, I'm not either anymore
07/04/2012
JennSenn JennSenn
It sounds exciting, but I don't think I'll ever do it unless I'm really horny and really confident that I won't be caught. I voted yes, because I like the idea of it.
07/04/2012
digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
What do you think?
yeppers
07/08/2012
KRD KRD
As long as you're smart about it, I say yes. I wouldn't go having sex in the middle of main street or anything, though.
07/19/2012
chelly411 chelly411
I think as long as it's not a terribly crowded place go for it.
07/19/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
What do you think?
I find it exciting
07/20/2012
Charry Charry
I almost always need my privacy, but I think it would be an exciting thing to try.
07/20/2012
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I have never done it.
10/12/2012
<3BF <3BF
Public sex is hot on two conditions: no one can see you/catch you in the act, and it's not in a bathroom. That's nasty.
10/12/2012
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I like privacy.
10/12/2012
mp3me mp3me
Love the idea but couldnt
12/20/2012
KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
I love it. It makes it so much more exciting when you feel like you're going to be caught any minute!
12/20/2012
ASpiritedSlut ASpiritedSlut
So hot! I wish I could get more of it, but I'm constantly paranoid!
12/20/2012
spiced spiced
I've had public sex with a guy and with my first girlfriend. It was always out of necessity, not by choice. It was fun, but getting interrupted by the sheriff's department was NOT fun. I prefer privacy now. In a tent out in the middle of nowhere is still fun, though.
12/22/2012
@cammingcouple @cammingcouple
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
What do you think?
It's very different than doing it indoors. we don't do it enough, publicly.
02/05/2013
Martiniman Martiniman
Is it hot? Yes...Extremely! Do I have to absolutely have it in my sex life? No!
02/07/2013
souviet souviet
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
What do you think?
big no.
02/07/2013
Mr. E Mr. E
We used to, when we were much younger.
02/07/2013
shorejen9 shorejen9
Not for me.
02/07/2013
ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
I love it
02/07/2013
gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
What do you think?
yes yes yes!
02/09/2013
TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
I used to love it when I was younger, but now it's too much of a risk. Jail sucks.
02/22/2013
Cynthia Jordan Cynthia Jordan
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
What do you think?
I love having sex in public usually me and my man search for the perfect place while teasing each other for a few hours then we just right in
02/22/2013
TheirPet TheirPet
I love it as long as one doesn't get busted.
02/22/2013
srexom srexom
not really
02/22/2013
Flower1 Flower1
No.
02/22/2013
Ayogirl230 Ayogirl230
idea is hot but better not get caught!
02/22/2013
LexiKitten LexiKitten
I tried it before, but I didn't like it. I was too nervous and couldn't fully focus on it!
02/22/2013
dragonflia dragonflia
I didn't like it but it was made into a game. Needless to say i won the duck game with my husband. I still to this day get red in the face when we go to the local gas station.
02/23/2013
sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
I would only ever do it somewhere really out of the way where I knew I wouldn't get caught. The risk of it is a huge turn off.
02/23/2013
butts butts
there's been a LOT of threads about this lately! Nope, I'm absolutely not turned on by it, I'd absolutely never do it.
02/23/2013
Total posts: 100
Unique posters: 99