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Rough sex or slow and intimate? Which do you prefer? Please explain why you chose what you did?

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Contributor: MrWood MrWood
While having a sexual discussion with my fiancé' the other night, I asked her which she preferred. Making love slow and intimate or hard, and rough. To my surprise she told me she really preferred a good hard session.

So, I was wondering what you prefer. Every one is welcome to respond, not just the ladies.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I like it rough (rocking the headboard)
KrissyNovacaine , SecretKinksters , KatieCutieBear , chicmichiw , K101 , SaucyxGirl , Hallmar82 , marmouse , oneeyedoctopus , Sera26 , TheirPet , kitty1949 , SeductivelyCute , bettyboom , JADE76 , Bri9
16
I like it slow and easy (love making and close)
AmethystQueen , PropertyOfPotter , edeneve
3
I like both equally
married with children , Rossie , KinkyKatieJames , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , gsfanatic , *Camoprincess* , HarlequinBunnie , ShadowedSeductress , quackbuster , spiced , joolie , eri86 , FieryRed , sXeVegan90 , bratcat , Cinnyree , Sbmsvschoolgirl , Beautiful-Disaster , solitudinarian , friendswithfangs , kitty1949 , Pastafariette , evie.amor , Vanille , Gluesnffr , libbyv , wicked48
27
Total votes: 46 (45 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: MrWood MrWood
Like I mentioned my fiancé said she likes a good hard screw, which I like as well, but sometimes, I'm feeling really close and want to go slow and intimate. Also, It takes me a very long time to reach orgasm usually,(an hour or more). Going slow sometimes makes it easier for me to cum for some reason. I try to make our sessions a mixture of both, especially if she has already had several orgasms and is exhausted and I'm not finished yet.
05/12/2013
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
I prefer slow and intimate.
05/12/2013
Contributor: married with children married with children
we like both. But we dont get too rough.
05/12/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I prefer a mixture of both, not that rough, but hot steamy sex.
05/12/2013
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
It depends on my mood.
05/12/2013
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
It depends on my mood. Some days I like it slow and some days I want it rough. I like to switch it up.
05/12/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Sometimes I like it slow, but I prefer hardcore sex!
05/12/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I prefer slow and passionate, but I enjoy something faster and harder too.
05/12/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I also prefer slow and passionate - makes the whole experience last longer.
05/12/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
Honestly, if I'm going to go for PIV sex, there's no stimulating my G-spot unless there's a lot of rough movement. And I love it! But, if I'm going for the orgasm, some gentle rocking is all I need to not break my concentration.
05/12/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Think I lean a bit towards rough, but both are pretty awesome depending on my mood
05/12/2013
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
A mixture for me most of the time we are intimate slow and close sometimes he throws in some deep hard thrusts with a spanking
05/12/2013
Contributor: HarlequinBunnie HarlequinBunnie
Quote:
Originally posted by MrWood
While having a sexual discussion with my fiancé' the other night, I asked her which she preferred. Making love slow and intimate or hard, and rough. To my surprise she told me she really preferred a good hard session.

So, I was ... more
It all depends on our mood. It's been so long I would welcome either. Though a nice long ride in the country bare back sounds good like a breath of fresh air after being under water for a while.
05/12/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
Prefer a mixture of both, slow and long connects us, fast and hard when our passion can't wait.
05/12/2013
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
I love them both! We often have both in one session. Just thinking about our slow love making gives me chills...it's so sexy and intimate.

Sometimes of course, I just need it hard and fast. I love it when he works himself up quickly coming at me hard, then slows down and does it nice and romantically.
05/12/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
I voted for my wife. She likes a mixture. She does get a lot more passionately excited when it gets rough.
05/13/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by MrWood
While having a sexual discussion with my fiancé' the other night, I asked her which she preferred. Making love slow and intimate or hard, and rough. To my surprise she told me she really preferred a good hard session.

So, I was ... more
Rough. A little slow at the beginning, but definitely a little rough.
05/13/2013
Contributor: FieryRed FieryRed
How can anyone choose just one? It all depends on the mood. Sometimes it's all romance and intimacy, sometimes it's all passion and drive. A lot of times, though, it begins slowly, teasingly, emotionally, and then escalates until we're both frantically going at it!
05/13/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
For me the rougher the better. I am really not into the whole slow and making love thing for some reason.
05/13/2013
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Too slow gets boring to me. I like to start slow but always like to end rough
05/13/2013
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
Honestly it depends on the setting and my mood. Sometimes you just gotta rip off clothes and go for it. Other times, the slow, romantic pace is nice.
05/13/2013
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I usually like it rough because I usually like to orgasm during sex.
05/13/2013
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
I mainly like it rough with just a bit of slowing down here and there.
05/13/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
I enjoy both almost equally. usually my partner and i start off kind of slow, moving our way into pretty rough territory. I do enjoy the latter more.
05/13/2013
Contributor: Cinnyree Cinnyree
I am a very moody person and i like my sex to coincide with my mood.

I do however like sex better when my partner sets the mood and pace
05/13/2013
Contributor: Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
A little bit of both. Sometimes I need it rough, sometimes I like it intimate.
05/13/2013
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Rough and slow. Wait, is that an option?
05/13/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
I like both equally! There are times I want the rough sex then there are times it's nice to go slow.
05/13/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We're beyond sex as passion - its recreation for us - so neither hard or slow match our style. We're into fun.
05/14/2013