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Contributor: The Awesome Penguin The Awesome Penguin
So I used to think this was a much better idea over past years; however, now I am not sure anymore.

Do you find drinking and sex go hand-in-hand very well? Feel free to share any stories!
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Drunk and Sloppy is Great
Mistress M. , mama2007 , bethd1708 , Steve of Eden , Miss Naughty Kitty , LAndJ , eroticmutt , Squirtz Starz , Sera26 , kims89 , Geogeo , butts
12  (4%)
A Little Wine/Liquor can always help ease the mood
Coralbell , Tart , xgreatlovex , Lucidity , Jemztone , firekitten , hive83 , Mr. & Mrs. Peg , married with children , AU , B8trDude , BluePixi , ~LaUr3n~ , potstickers , leatherlover , qqqqqqqqqqqq , jakjak , Mistress Kitty , liilii080 , C4ss , BadassFatass , Alys , OhMy! , Misfit Momma , removedacnt , rdytogo , Vaccinium , Beaners , Caite-Kait , cherryredhead88 , *HisMrs* , UnknownGirl , Love Buzz , RonLee , Danielle1220 , Gunsmoke , Lady Venus , 34 , A Good Girl , toxie m , newlady , GoodMorningSunshine , onehotmomma , darthkitt3n , Miss T , sixfootsex , zracer , Purpleladybug , LikeSunshineDust , KikiChrome , IndependentlyHappy , Valentinka , Kikicrystal , LavenderSkies , Emma (Girl With Fire) , Liz2 , Fanny , Xiel , Lummox , Lithaewyn , yes yes yes , slynch , cobiffle , ninaspinkturtle , extrafun , joja , indiglo , sexygoddess , REDRUM , ellejay , Cream in the Cupcake , ac0313 , Joie de Cherresse , padmeamidala , barrettbn2 , nicole07 , Karen Affeldt , kelaaa33wish , melissa1973 , John Baddi , Sex'и'Violence , Ivy Wilde , sbon , MN58 , Endocott , LostBoy988 , Miss Morphine , newfoundlust , Eva Schwaltz , Howells , EJ , angel142stx , mm098 , jay28 , cburger , Squeaky , Lucky21 , Masokisti , Sublime , bayosgirl , tortilla , Cherry21 , Katelyn , ud328 , jokerzwild , Hallmar82 , biancajames , ConnerJay , Curiouscat , Incendiaire , coconut1 , Kitka , Missmarc , LaSchwartz , WD40watcher , SMichelle , hot lil momma , freud13 , amazon , FriskyInFlorida , SadoMas , Stinkytofu10 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , ChuChii , lov69 , wicked weasel , AliMc , beautifulbombshellVI , misskittymeowxxx , ewwgrossdie , edenguy , pyratess , minstrel69 , JessieDawg , woodsdragon , Andrew1992 , skeeterlynn , Laurinnichole , Bethy Cassatt , Zandrock , Jasco , RedKyuubi , chicmichiw , rainingapricots , mlmac , Britt93 , tequilafish , KinkyNicki92 , wrecklesswords , LuckyLady , captainsgirl , bog , apryls , BrittaniMaree , evie.amor , TexasBrat , Entropy , table38792 , solly , Martiniman , StarrStacked , SecretKinksters , marriedlady123
163  (58%)
Sober sex is good sex!
Viktor Vysheslav Malkin , Redboxbaby , Kindred , Alicia , Angel deSanguine , Naughty Student , VieuxCarre , Yoda , NawlinsDawlin , Rainbow Boy , vegan.guy , VanillaFreeSex , DeliciousSurprise , Sohotdinosaur , namelesschaos , Lady Marmelade , Shellz31 , PiratePrincess , bunny love , LennaKieran , lnf77 , lovemuscle n cookie , Maeby , amandaco2011 , Miss Anonymous , Lily Night , robertk2380 , zeebot , sarki , The Curious Couple , AngelvMaynard , LittleOne , ily , SexyStuff , ParisLove , Pink Jewel , CreamySweet , geliebt , mpfm , WhoopieDoo , Beck , unfulfilled , El-Jaro , martb40 , AzealiaB , jjesssica , sexxxkitten , Highmaintenancegirl916 , ghalik , squire , CamelliaGirl , magicmaxx Mr.Mrs , novanilla , dirtythoughts:) , damnbul12 , Rory , Arclight , PropertyOfPotter , emiliaa , llellsee , FunFantasys , SF , No-nita , SydVicious , Bleu , Anna Mattingly , Trysexual , lainebug , Rosen Rot , ShinySuicide , TJtheMadHatter , 1001 Pleasures , melliegirl
73  (26%)
Other (Explain :D )
kawigrl , ZenaidaMacroura , Eliza , RubenesqueAna , Waterfall , Envy , Crystal1 , Sexymami69 , Taylor Von , tigerkate , BadgersRose , Linga , P'Gell , Darling Jen , Noira Celestia , js250 , aliceinthehole , M121212 , Ms. Spice , SiNn , SaraU29 , kittycatgirl , richsam , snuggly , Supervixen , MrsHouseWife , Deeder , Hummingbird , EmuLove , skittlezjoyann , jake0530 , Falsepast
32  (11%)
Total votes: 280
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Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
Sex can be fun when you've had a few drinks, but I don't like super drunk sex.
01/08/2011
Contributor: xgreatlovex xgreatlovex
Quote:
Originally posted by The Awesome Penguin
So I used to think this was a much better idea over past years; however, now I am not sure anymore.

Do you find drinking and sex go hand-in-hand very well? Feel free to share any stories!
i find wanting sex, bieng able to perform, and bieng able to stay erect to completetion are all different issues.
01/08/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
I think like, one or two drinks tops is good. After that it's just the point of diminishing return. Once motor skills are obviously impaired, and the guy can't keep it up, the sexiness seems to wane.
01/08/2011
Contributor: Jemztone Jemztone
A couple drinks doesn't hurt. So long as you're not drunk and falling all over the place. Then there's really no point in having sex really. But having a couple will help you relax a bit. And it does help if you and your partner are going to try something new, but are too afraid to and need a little push. But I think there always has to be a limit. You shouldn't always be drinking before sex. You have to experience it with your partner the way we were supposed to.
01/08/2011
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
other- on occasion all of the above
01/08/2011
Contributor: hive83 hive83
Quote:
Originally posted by The Awesome Penguin
So I used to think this was a much better idea over past years; however, now I am not sure anymore.

Do you find drinking and sex go hand-in-hand very well? Feel free to share any stories!
We always have a bottle of champagne or wine. It really helps relax us and have a more enjoyable evening.
01/08/2011
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
A little alcohol is nice for loosening up a bit, but I usually find that it doesn't take much for me to get kind of numb all over. Like, I can't feel things as well when I'm buzzed as I can when I'm completely sober. So it can be okay once in a while, but I don't like it often.
01/08/2011
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
I think some alcohol as well as sober sex are good. Really drunk sex worries me because you can't legally consent at that point and it's not really worth it.
01/08/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
A glass of wine for Mrs. Peg helps her relax and get in the mood. For me...well, it doesn't really matter. Too much is, of course, counterproductive.

"It provokes the desire, but it takes away the performance" -- from Shakespeare's Macbeth
01/09/2011
Contributor: RubenesqueAna RubenesqueAna
Alcohol always makes me insanely horny, but it also makes me sleepy and kind of... lazy? So I'm probably not a very exciting partner when I'm intoxicated, though I always want it when I am. Such a pickle.
01/09/2011
Contributor: Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
Okay, maybe uncool as it is for me to say, but Sober is the way to go. I am never touching the stuff again, was down 4 days with Alcohol poisoning, not fun.
01/09/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
a couple of drinks to loosen up some nights is fine. I dont like being drunk.
01/09/2011
Contributor: AU AU
As usual, I can't really give a straight answer? I voted "A Little Wine/Liquor can always help ease the mood" as I do on the rare occasion like to mix potentially sexual situations with just a little alcohol. After a few drinks-- though I get a little frisky--I lose some feeling. I remind myself it's much better to do it sober. I used to do the alcohol/sex mix more often, but after a few too many silly and serious situations, this has lost some appeal.
01/09/2011
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
I've only had sober sex. So I do not know how alcohol would change things, although I do think that a little bit to drink would make me relax more.
01/09/2011
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Sober sex is good too. I would have chosen that as well if I could. I don't like DRUNK sex. I don't like being drunk. I like to drink...and be tipsy, but not wasted. That's never fun and it's not fun to add to sex.
01/09/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
The last time I had sex drunk was 15 years ago or so. I finally told him he had to hurry up and cum or stop because I was gonna throw up and then I past out instead. He still teases me to this day about all the things he supposedly did to me that night. Never really been that drunk since. We drink occasionally, but never enough to really be more than buzzed. Neither of us like doing that to our bodies and frankly, the older we get, the longer the hangover lasts.
01/09/2011
Contributor: qqqqqqqqqqqq qqqqqqqqqqqq
I enjoy it when my partner has had a bit to drink...Just enough so that they are in a happier mood. I like this because it makes it more enjoyable when she is in a good mood even before we start.
01/09/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
A glass of wine to relax is nice but too much is not fun. I don't like it sloppy and I'm not into hangovers.
01/09/2011
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
In general I prefer sober sex, or one glass of wine sex. One glass of wine is enough to allow me to let my stress go and feel more happy and relaxed but more than that and I just get tipsy and I like to be fully aware during sex. Sure, we've had some fun times having drunk sex..but I only enjoy that on rare occasions.
01/09/2011
Contributor: Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
I prefer sex when I haven't been drinking, my sense of feeling gets a little fuzzy pretty quickly and I like to be able to feel everything. Besides, I had enough drunk sex in my early 20s to last me 12 lifetimes!
01/09/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
A couple of drinks aren't a bad thing...too many can just make things difficult.
01/09/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I prefer sober sex, if I drank something I'm worried my breath smells like alcohol and it stays in the back of my mind...killing the mood for me.
01/10/2011
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
Too many drink and it isn't fun, but one or two can take some stress from the day away.
01/10/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
Too much alcohol makes the orgasms more difficult to attain, IMO. If I feel the effects of the alcohol, I've had way too much.
01/10/2011
Contributor: Envy Envy
I am not much a drinker, it's not my thing, and I have very little sexual experience, so I can't say i have ever drank and had sex.
01/10/2011
Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
I don't drink very much anymore, used to be a big partier but things change when you have a kid. They did for me at least... but that is a completely different subject. Lol


Once in a while a couple drinks help me to loosen up, especially since I am not really comfortable with anyone besides my ex for some reason. I have wanted sex with a couple different people, but I just can't bring myself to ... get physical with them.

That being said.. with my ex it didn't matter how we were. The sex was always great and still is on the rare occassion that we hook up again.
01/10/2011
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
Orgasm don't feel nearly as good when I've been drinking. Everything is numbed.
01/10/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Red wine makes me very horny for some reason. But, as started above, being totally wasted is never good for sex.
01/10/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
If I've had a drink or two I might be more inclined to be in the mood, but being flat out drunk and trying to have sex will just result in me bouncing myself sick, lol
01/11/2011