I have gotten to the point where I do not like church. I will go if I'm with my parents and they really want to go, but I do not like it. I think that for the last several centuries, the Church has twisted the Bible to condemn people and control them.
For example the whole "spilling your seed" thing has to do with the fact that he didn't want to impregnate his brother's wife, not that he was masturbating. But it got twisted around to make it "wrong" to masturbate.
I still believe that there is a God and I still have my own personal journey with him, if you will, but I don't think there is as much condemnation in God as the Church or conservative, controlling people would have us believe.