My question is basically how has sex life been affected when a parent has had to stay with u and ur SO during a time so they can heal from injury. My mom was in a car wreck a week ago yesterday. She has stayed at the house with my wife and i since then because she was bruised and banged up pretty good. My wife and I have an awesome and sometimes kinky sex life together but my wife has told me she feels kinda uneasy bout getting kinky since my mom is at the house. Has this ever happened to anyone else and what did u do? less

We have not had any parent for an extended stay. I will say whenever OW's mom stayed over we have had some good sessions. I attribute that to the good mood OW is in due to having her mom stay overnight.

However I can see if the stay is due to a stressful reason, neither of us would be in a joyous mood. less

My question is basically how has sex life been affected when a parent has had to stay with u and ur SO during a time so they can heal from injury. My mom was in a car wreck a week ago yesterday. She has stayed at the house with my wife and i since then because she was bruised and banged up pretty good. My wife and I have an awesome and sometimes kinky sex life together but my wife has told me she feels kinda uneasy bout getting kinky since my mom is at the house. Has this ever happened to anyone else and what did u do? less

Does this mean no sex or just not the type of sex you are looking for? If it's no sex, that might take it's toll on both of you if you guys are use to having it in any sort of regularity. Is there anyway you two can sneak away for a little while for a quickie every now and again?

Also, I wish your mom a speedy and health recovery. less

Truth is I think we have the opposite problem... things get too kinky when her mom is around. Like we have almost gotten caught a few times with her being close by. She insists on having me cum inside of her before her mom comes down and while she is here she tells me how its turning her on that I am leaking out of her while her mom is drinking a cup of coffee across the table from her.

One of the best orgasm's I ever gave her was in the back of her uncles sequoia which is kind of the toyota version of the suburban. I made her promise to look at me and do her best not to make a noise as we were driving with her uncles family and her parents and under a blanket I massaged her clit until she buried her head in my shoulder to keep from moaning as she came all over my hand. It wasn't that I have fantastic technique (I like to believe I do but...) and it wasn't that she gets off easily... it was the tension of getting away with something we shouldn't be doing that made her cum so hard.

Now they have never stayed with us but we have stayed with them for some time and sometimes getting creative is super hot.

For example I was living at her parents house for a while when we were engaged. They didn't use the garage so they would let me keep my car in it. So my regular car was in the driveway and I used to keep my "Toy" in their garage.

The day I bought the car I drove it back to their house and backed it in. She came out of the house (which is connected to the garage) in these great skimpy terrycloth shorts without panties on (Completely caught me by suprise, as my mind was on the muscle car I just bought after saving up for it for a long time....) and she closed the garage door and she jumped up on the fender and I pulled those cute shorts aside and had my way with her. We were having sex in the middle of the day on the other side of the wall from where her parents were folding clothes.

To this day .... years later LOL... whenever we get a new car we make a point to pull it in the garage and have sex on it LOL!

Take the situation... make it a game like it was in college and high school. Make it fun.

Like get a remote controlled vibrator where you both can be in the same room with the mother and be naughty. less

Haha that sounds like it was awesome. But our problem is with my mom being in the living room constantly and us basically stuck in the bedroom. Our walls are almost paper thin so we have to watch the noise level. Also my wife's work schedule has been terrible lately. Im almost asleep whenever she finally gets home round 1030 1045 at nite. I work day time hours so u can imagine how it is for us. less

Sure I can....However...

Once again you can make that incredibly sexy.

This may sound ridiculous but hear me out.

Have you ever heard of edging or tantric sex?

That is essentially creating waves of the feeling of having an orgasm up until the point where you actually ejaculate.

Now most guys myself included have worked on their technique for masturbation and I have found with masturbation as well as actually having sex that sometimes it is actually hotter to go as slow as possible and see how long it can last but going with the absolute least amount of stimulation.

Now what I mean by that is if she gets on top and grinds her clit against you and does her best to grind you against her G-Spot but does not ride you and thrust you... you will get off. AND if you do that with a minimum of thrusting im saying half an inch maybe 3/4 of an inch movement while inside of her and do your best to think of anything but an orgasm and focus all of your energy on not having an orgasm you body will eventually force you to have an ejaculation/orgasm and may very well be the best feeling you have ever had. It will take a while and you will know you are doing it right when you feel like you almost have for lack of a better term blue balls that is right when your body will start to take over and without you allowing yourself to have an orgasm you will cum. It feels amazing and the only way you can do it is slow and steady. It has to be enough stimulation to stimulate you but not enough to make you cum so it has to be slow and steady which is perfect. No noise involved just penetration and concentration. Straight up control over your body...

The fun part is you will find that even when the mom is no longer there you guys will be doing it.

Plus that... she will be amazed at the volume of cum that your body produces... that feeling of "blue balls" is your prostate filled to its capacity and your orgasm is directly associated with how much you ejaculate.

Trust me it will be a good time!

For me sometimes I work late hours and dont get home until the early morning. I employee this little technique when I can... It will put you to sleep like a baby and a cup of milk and you will wake up feeling super invigorated. AND! No noise! less

I can empathize with finding it slightly uncomfortable to have an all out Kink Fest when family is visiting. It can be a bit of a buzz kill lol. For us, we definitely wouldn't break out our toys, etc. We tend to keep it more subdued, sensual and slow. The only thing that usually becomes an issue is MY noise level lol. I have to concentrate really hard to keep my silence in check

Creativity also goes a long way and could be a huge intensity booster. So, as others have suggested, take it to a different location. Have fun with it. less