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After your first sexual encounter, what is the longest you have gone without sex?

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Contributor: WD40watcher WD40watcher
This is just intercourse itself. No masturbating or oral.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
One day to a week
1  (3%)
2 weeks to a month
4  (11%)
1-3 months
5  (14%)
3-6 months
5  (14%)
6 months to one year
10  (27%)
1-2 years
7  (19%)
2-4 years
3  (8%)
4 plus years
2  (5%)
Total votes: 37
Poll is closed
03/30/2012
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Contributor: Beck Beck
Hello and Welcome to EF! This kind of poll has been done many times before. If you are curious here are some results.
03/30/2012
Contributor: underHim underHim
We have a son who I swear can smell hormones, he wakes up and starts crying more times than not when we start having sex.
03/30/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
i wait 6 months
04/02/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Eleven years. I was married.
04/18/2012
Contributor: chantal coopette chantal coopette
3 months
04/18/2012
Contributor: JDear JDear
Almost a year. 9 months I think.
04/18/2012
Contributor: Various Various
The longest I have gone is 5 weeks-and that was because I had a baby.
04/18/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by underHim
We have a son who I swear can smell hormones, he wakes up and starts crying more times than not when we start having sex.
You're right. Babies can smell pheromones, and it is believed that one of two things is involved; 1) They can smell the sex hormones, know a rival may be conceived and without realizing why, will try to stop it. (This is just a guess by some who study pheromones)

or 2) the oxytocin and prolactin released during sex are the same hormones released during breastfeeding and they smell them in the air and actually wake up because they want to eat.

My guess is number 2 is more accurate, but both could be. Our kids were the worst cock blockers, too.
04/19/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
The longest I've gone without sex was a month. I was in college and away from My Man (we had an open relationship) and hadn't found a fuck buddy yet. It was a L-O-N-G month!

We were supposed to go six weeks without sex after our kids were born, yeah, that didn't happen. My Man got a BJ 4 days after my last baby was born (he looked so lonely lying on the bed alone, while I was on the air mattress with the baby. So, she got her first hour in the crib until we were finished.) We rarely lasted more than 10 days after a baby was born without oral and PIV.
04/19/2012
Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
When I was pregnant we weren't allowed to have sex due to placenta previa, then i had the healing grace period, then i had no libido. Poor hubby.
04/19/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Probably close to 4 years, bleh
07/07/2012
Contributor: cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
Probably close to a year. My boyfriend and I are long distance, and it's hard to arrange visits sometimes.
07/23/2012
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
About a year.
07/23/2012
Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
About 3 months and that's while I was pregnant on my last trimester.I just couldn't have sex. I was wayyy too swollen down there and it was super painful. Poor hubby. Lol. I still gave him special attention though. haha
07/23/2012
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Quote:
Originally posted by WD40watcher
This is just intercourse itself. No masturbating or oral.
It was a little over a year.
07/23/2012