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Blow jobs and anal were always my big two. Truth be told I was never very fond of putting something you peed out of in my mouth, but I also never asked for oral either so there wasn't any "what the hell, I do it you should" moments.
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Blow jobs and anal were always my big two. Truth be told I was never very fond of putting something you peed out of in my mouth, but I also never asked for oral either so there wasn't any "what the hell, I do it you should" moments. Well, I did have an ex who expected me to give him blowjobs and I told him that unless he was going to reciprocate the favor, I wasn't gonna do it. He wasn't very amused lol. Even now I have to be in the right mood to give them, although I do enjoy it a lot more with my husband than I did with anybody else. I do find that sometimes a drink or two helps. Not that I feel I have to be drinking to give my husband a BJ, but it helps to knock down the mental barrier between "yes I do legitimately want to" and "um, you pee out of that" lol.
Anal we still don't do tons, although we do it often enough. For both of us we didn't have partners we trusted enough to play around with any of that until we got back together. Now it's more about time and time management than anything else. Anal play takes time and patience, we just don't often have the time to devote to making sure it gets done right and we'd rather wait til we have that time than rush things and have one of us end up hating it.
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Lol...I feel like I have read this post before, I'm having a major deja vue feeling!!!!
I have never had any hang ups, I am so open-minded and I was brought up in a very "sexualized" home. I think sexuality is a big part of me, of course there are things I do not agree with but I am open minded enough to let ppl do as they wish, it's a free world and no one should be ashamed of what turns them on. Run-on sentence...lol.
Actually, I might have a hang up, but not a stereotypical type of hang up, more of a personal hang up. I'm very focused on my vaginal hygiene, I try very hard to make my pussy attractive and clean, sometimes a little too much, which in turn hinders the possibility of getting oral. I am so obsessed with my hygiene that sometimes I turn down oral and PIV sex bcs I am afraid I stink/ am not clean/too stubbly.
I am trying to improve on this, mostly bcs my guy has sort of expected perfection from me through my obsession. He wont give me oral unless x reason and I can only blame myself as I am responsible for his expectations bcs I have always done things a certain way for him and I am the only girl he has ever been with, so what else should he expect!
Anywho rambling is over!
