That's a nay for me, but I'm much more empowered now for my future partner(s)!

In my case, it's fairly mixed but I know why. I became sexually active pretty young, and back then sex wasn't so much about actually enjoying it as just being "grown-up" and scandalous because we were doing it at all. Also, I really didn't know anything - I honestly thought the sex was great. I didn't know how to please myself and so of course I didn't know how to show my boyfriend how to please me.

As I got older, things got sexier. I learned my body and so did my next few boyfriends; things were good.

Then there was a spell of mostly singleness and one-night stands. These times were never good because I'm kind of a complicated lady to please and one night isn't nearly enough time to figure my body out (or so I've found). So, those times all sucked.

Now, with my current boyfriend, things are the best ever. For me it's really just been a matter of me figuring myself out and taking the time to pass on that knowledge to the men I'm with. Without those factors things are pretty mediocre but I can't really blame my partners for my not being satisfied.

Sex was terrible. I had no idea what turned me on and guys didn't even care. It was awful.

In their defense... I'm pretty hard to please!

I only have one past partner and I was not satisfied with him in any way.