Do you think of your significant other while masterbating?

Do you think of your significant other while masterbating?

Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
So I'm curious if anyone else is like me in this area... Every single time I masturbate when I'm alone, I can't get myself off unless I am thinking of my husband. I have tried many different visualizations in my head while I'm doing it, even tried thinking of others but it turned me off more than anything. The only thing that I can seem to make myself cum to is the thought of seeing my husband laying in front of me masturbating for me. I love watching him. Is it weird that I'm like this? Or does it just mean that I'm completely satisfied with my husband? Am I the only one who thinks of their partner every time they masturbate?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am female and...
31
I am male and...
10
Yes I think of my partner every time.
9
I think of my partner sometimes but not every time.
24
I don't ever think of my partner.
7
Other... Please explain...
1
Total votes: 82 (42 voters)
Poll is closed
02/14/2012
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Illusional Illusional
I usually do, especially when we're apart.
He's pretty open to my fantasies so I can put him in there, pretty consistently.
02/14/2012
spiceboy spiceboy
It's rare that I think about anyone in particular. I usually just focus on the sensations or throw on some porn.
02/14/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I use to focus on the porn - but now it's all about my girl. Sometimes I'm doing things to her that we don't do in real life - but it's still all about her.
02/14/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by Brandi Rouxxx
So I'm curious if anyone else is like me in this area... Every single time I masturbate when I'm alone, I can't get myself off unless I am thinking of my husband. I have tried many different visualizations in my head while I'm doing ...
If I think of someone, yes I think of my fiance. I don't know if this is weird but sometimes you just get in the mood and concentrate on the orgasm and what you are doing and not really of a person.....atleast I do sometimes.
02/14/2012
PDXlady PDXlady
It depends for me. Sometimes I think about my partner sometimes I think about someone else although I don't think it's ever been about someone I actually know.
02/14/2012
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Brandi Rouxxx
So I'm curious if anyone else is like me in this area... Every single time I masturbate when I'm alone, I can't get myself off unless I am thinking of my husband. I have tried many different visualizations in my head while I'm doing ...
I usually think of her if I think of anyone
02/14/2012
Eliyahu Eliyahu
I usually think of my wife, especially if I'm fiddling with my p-spot!
02/14/2012
El-Jaro El-Jaro
Ex's are fair game in the spank bank.
02/14/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Brandi Rouxxx
So I'm curious if anyone else is like me in this area... Every single time I masturbate when I'm alone, I can't get myself off unless I am thinking of my husband. I have tried many different visualizations in my head while I'm doing ...
I don't think of the same guy every time, but I'm not married either!
02/14/2012
HouseWench HouseWench
yes, but he's the only guy who's ever gotten me off so thoroughly
02/14/2012
Graniteal Graniteal
sometimes but not always.
02/14/2012
CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Brandi Rouxxx
So I'm curious if anyone else is like me in this area... Every single time I masturbate when I'm alone, I can't get myself off unless I am thinking of my husband. I have tried many different visualizations in my head while I'm doing ...
Sometimes I think of my husband... Sometimes I think of past sexual partners... sometimes I think of the ones I have in addition to my husband and sometimes all of the above.
02/14/2012
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
Ex's are fair game in the spank bank.
LMAO... You crack me up JR! I don't think of any of my exes! I hope he doesn't either!! Lol
02/15/2012
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
And it looks like I'll be masturbating again tonight... YAY self love!! Lol
02/15/2012
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I have only thought about my boyfriend a couple of times while masturbating. I very rarely construct personal fantasies. I watch porn and read erotic stories much more often.
02/15/2012
KaraSutra KaraSutra
My husband on most cases, but when that wont do: Ryan Reynolds, Robert Downey Jr, Kate Beckinsale, Frank Mir or Dan Hardy.
02/15/2012
Beck Beck
Quote:
Originally posted by spiceboy
It's rare that I think about anyone in particular. I usually just focus on the sensations or throw on some porn.
Same here.
02/15/2012
El-Jaro El-Jaro
Quote:
Originally posted by KaraSutra
My husband on most cases, but when that wont do: Ryan Reynolds, Robert Downey Jr, Kate Beckinsale, Frank Mir or Dan Hardy.
At first I read "Burt Reynolds"
02/15/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Always.
02/15/2012
sexykiss sexykiss
always does it everytime
06/20/2012
Total posts: 21
Unique posters: 18