Size Preferences

Size Preferences

justabitcurious justabitcurious
So after the wife and I started using toys, I've noticed how quickly she climaxes and how much more intense it is. Her favorite toys are two dildos one of which is above average and one is big. She's always says size doesnt matter, however after pointing out how much she likes her toys, she now embarrassing admits that it does and she likes bigger. I like to jokingly give her a little bit of trouble about it now and then but she seems embarrassed that she likes bigger. Do you think theres a good number of women out there too embarrassed to admit that size does matter and that they prefer bigger?
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Yes
wifey , OH&W, Lovebears , Gunsmoke
3
No
Yes, to some extent.
Lena Eden , MrClark , symbiasin
3
Total votes: 6 (6 voters)
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Jun 5, 10:33 am
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wifey wifey
Quote:
Originally posted by justabitcurious
So after the wife and I started using toys, I've noticed how quickly she climaxes and how much more intense it is. Her favorite toys are two dildos one of which is above average and one is big. She's always says size doesnt matter, however ...
Its not embarrassment normally. Most gals probably want at least a bit larger than what the average SO has. But we won't tell you the truth because you can't handle the truth. Best to keep that desire to ourselves for the sake of keeping the relationship in working order.

Your SO is in the minority...most of us won't ever divulge the truth on how we really feel about cock size. Never. I, for one, have told my husband many times (because he always asks) that his size is perfect but that every now and then I'd like a bit larger, or even a bit smaller. It throws him off the scent. However, what I'd really prefer is about an inch longer and thicker than what he has.

Its not embarrassment - its just preserving a sexy secret you can never know about. Sorry for being blunt.

Curious how this works out, cause once you know that she knows you know...whoa baby!!! You better keep her well satisfied with your "smaller" member, because that "embarrassment" you think you see may just be her throwing you off the scent (see above).
Jun 5, 2:58 pm
justabitcurious justabitcurious
Quote:
Originally posted by wifey
Its not embarrassment normally. Most gals probably want at least a bit larger than what the average SO has. But we won't tell you the truth because you can't handle the truth. Best to keep that desire to ourselves for the sake of keeping ...
Good info...I figure some of this was the case. I could definitely tell the difference between myself (tad under 5 inches , 4.7 girth) and her above avg toy that is 7 long and 5 thick. Breathing patterns, body mannerisms, etc. It was undeniable. She doesnt event try to hide it with the huge one (8 long, 6.3 thick.)
Jun 5, 3:03 pm
wifey wifey
Quote:
Originally posted by justabitcurious
Good info...I figure some of this was the case. I could definitely tell the difference between myself (tad under 5 inches , 4.7 girth) and her above avg toy that is 7 long and 5 thick. Breathing patterns, body mannerisms, etc. It was undeniable. She ...
You should check out this latest poll:

link

The poll was done by a guy named DILF. Very interesting. Ask your gal to respond to the survey, if she can. She can keep it discrete on this poll, I think.

Anyway, you say she REALLY gets off on that large dil..8 inches long by 6.3 inches thick. 2 questions:

1. Are you sure that's 8 inches insertable, or 6 inches insertable with 2 inches of useless extra? Big difference.

2. The 6.3 inches girth I assume is circumference. Is that the maximum girth, as in its "tapered", or is that the average girth? Again, big difference.

Anyway, if its truly 8 inches insertable and 6.3 inches average girth, then there is only one question left...can she take the whole thing all the way??? If so, you got to figure out a way to keep her well satisfied because her kitty is out of the bag now since you got her into larger toys, and her kitty is on the prowl for something you can't compete with. That big dil is more than twice your volume
Jun 5, 3:43 pm
justabitcurious justabitcurious
Quote:
Originally posted by wifey
You should check out this latest poll:

link

The poll was done by a guy named DILF. Very interesting. Ask your gal to respond to the survey, if she can. She can keep it discrete on this poll, I think.

Anyway, you say she REALLY ...
It is 8 long insertable and 6.3 wide...its pretty consistently shaped. She can take about 7 inches of it. Using that and some clit stimulation she has powerful vaginal orgasms. Only way she can is with one of the two toys.
Jun 5, 3:49 pm
wifey wifey
Quote:
Originally posted by justabitcurious
It is 8 long insertable and 6.3 wide...its pretty consistently shaped. She can take about 7 inches of it. Using that and some clit stimulation she has powerful vaginal orgasms. Only way she can is with one of the two toys.
7 inches, for now...

I used to be "fussy" with toys/dildos. Didn't really like them. Perhaps for several reasons I won't bore you with now. But my husband is a typical male freak, loves to stick things inside me (other than his pecker!)...dildos, vibrators, cucumbers, bottles, you name it (everything but the kitchen sink!). Strange to him (and me to a lesser extent) that I could only take about 5.5 - 6 inches length by the same in girth at most.

Well, fast-forward a few years and I guess I'm just a hornier MILF now. A few months ago I got up to 7 inches in length and now I can get to around 7.5 inches at most. Is 8 inches in the cards for me? Maybe, we shall see. For girth, I now get up to almost 7 inches (if it is tapered, thicker at the base). So what does this mean for your gal...

Keep getting her "drunk" with a certain large size and she will build up a tolerance. Then there is only one way to go from there - higher. Of course, all us girls have our limits. It appears your gal is figuring out what that hers is. So don't be surprised if/when she hits the Great 8! Good luck.
Jun 5, 4:32 pm
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I have gone on record in many EF polls saying that "size matters". In 'polite' conversation few women say "My SOs dick is just too small!"

I had the same experience as you with my wife - they are so concerned about the fragile male ego - they can not admit that you/me (most men) are inadequate.

Thankfully we can satisfy our size-hungry women with a huge variety of fun toys!

The toys make putting up with a guy with an oversized ego and small/average penis at least bearable!
Jun 5, 8:12 pm
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by wifey
7 inches, for now...

I used to be "fussy" with toys/dildos. Didn't really like them. Perhaps for several reasons I won't bore you with now. But my husband is a typical male freak, loves to stick things inside me (other ...
We started out with toys about 6" long x 1.5" diameter. My wife's new favorite is 9" long x 2.3" diameter.

She can't take the whole length - but loves the stretch she gets from it's girth. It's a soft silicone design (Vamp Carina) with a pronounced head that ravishes her A-spot. To go any bigger, I'll have to find a Bad Dragon dildo in a shape that isn't too off-the-wall.
Jun 5, 8:20 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by wifey
Its not embarrassment normally. Most gals probably want at least a bit larger than what the average SO has. But we won't tell you the truth because you can't handle the truth. Best to keep that desire to ourselves for the sake of keeping ...
You are very wise . Lol, it's a no brainer.
When wifey asks" Does this look good on me , honey?" A wise hubby will say , " Yes dear, beautiful, perfect "
Jun 6, 11:29 am
Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
You are very wise . Lol, it's a no brainer.
When wifey asks" Does this look good on me , honey?" A wise hubby will say , " Yes dear, beautiful, perfect "
Men have very fragile egos when it comes to their penis size, no big ephihany there. I sometimes wonder if I could blindfold my wife and while we were having sex, switch to a slightly larger dildo and see her reaction. Like Jack Nicholson said in A Few Good Men, "you can't handle the truth" I am not sure I would want to know. I am pretty confident in my own sexuality, and have has no complaints from my present wife, but I do wonder if she is always happy, and if I would really want to know otherwise. I guess if you don't want to know, don't ask.

PS: Nicholson's line in the movie was ad-libbed, it was originally scripted to be " you already have the truth".
Jun 11, 12:19 pm
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