Is there such a thing as a penis being too large?

Contributor: wannawatch wannawatch
Is there such a thing as a dick being too large?
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yes
56  (89%)
no
7  (11%)
let me explain
Total votes: 63
Poll is closed
04/16/2013
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Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Absolutely! If it's too long it bumps hard against the cervix and be very uncomfortable.
04/16/2013
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Absolutely indeed! I've had too long and too thick before (and the one that was too thick was probably also too long but couldn't get it in enough to tell).
04/16/2013
Contributor: hillys hillys
could get uncomfortable
04/16/2013
Contributor: Nezzie13 Nezzie13
Of course there is! It has to fit in my hand, mouth, vagina, and bum. There are limits to what I can take!
04/16/2013
Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
Is there such a thing as too little foreplay? Yes.
Is there such a thing as a penis being too large? No.
04/16/2013
Contributor: TdotY TdotY
oh yeah!
04/16/2013
Contributor: bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by wannawatch
Is there such a thing as a dick being too large?
Absolutely.
04/17/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
YES!
04/17/2013
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
Oh yes, it can definitely be too big.
04/17/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
Oh yes. Had a guy who was endowed in both length and girth. We tried but had to give up there was just no way I could take him.
04/17/2013
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Petite Valentine
Is there such a thing as too little foreplay? Yes.
Is there such a thing as a penis being too large? No.
THIS!

The vagina can stretch to accommodate a baby's head (and most of the the pain in childbirth is from the uterus and cervix opening, NOT the vagina stretching) so, if properly prepared, the vagina should be able to accommodate most penis sizes. The vagina even elongates, not just opens, when aroused. If a penis feels too large, chances are one isn't aroused enough.
04/17/2013
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
Quote:
Originally posted by wannawatch
Is there such a thing as a dick being too large?
I definitely think so, and I feel like my preferences are shorter than the average woman's as well. I have a very short internal length, and have been bruised before on more than one occasion with a partner of average (or just above average) length, so I definitely wouldn't want to take my chances with someone much larger than that. Whether or not foreplay is a factor is irrelevant for me, because I want to be able to have sex at any time and don't always feel like foreplay.
04/17/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
if it's too big, it hurts like hell when inserting taking me out of the mood.
04/17/2013
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by wannawatch
Is there such a thing as a dick being too large?
There is no such thing as TOO BIG a penis in my eyes!! Bigger the BETTER!!
04/17/2013
Contributor: wwwww wwwww
Yes, it is possible. Personally I cannot handle anything bigger than 6 inches. 7 would be pushing it. The human body is amazing but it does have it's limits.
04/18/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
Hell yes! Larger penises make my vagina cringe.
04/18/2013
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
Quote:
Originally posted by Petite Valentine
Is there such a thing as too little foreplay? Yes.
Is there such a thing as a penis being too large? No.
Actually, regardless of foreplay I had an ex who having sex with was almost unbearable. I'm a small girl, small frame, and for him to fit completely inside of me it actually would hit my cervix so much that I actually dreaded sex...and with my hubby, we have sex I want to say 6 out of 7 days of the week at least, and often more than once a day. I love sex. But sex with him was the one thing I actually dreaded, because it was so incredibly painful. It wasn't that he was too wide, it was that he was too long.
04/18/2013
Contributor: null null
Oh god yes. My vaginal muscles may want to stretch that much, but my skin won't.
04/18/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Yes
04/18/2013
Contributor: sunflower sunflower
I was reading through a body mod website and saw pictures of people who got silicone penis injections. Scary.

But yeah IMO there is such a thing as too big naturally too.
04/19/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
My wife says yes, without a doubt.
04/19/2013
Contributor: Mistress Dragon Mistress Dragon
I am not sure about this one. As I have gotten older I found that what I found to be a normal size penis for me was not what was normal for the normal. I had not had anything that was smaller than 6 to 7 inches long and at least the girth of 1.5 to 2 inches across, when I had the first man whom was not this size or close to I thought OMG he has to be tiny. Then I was reading and found that most are not close to this size I had just been lucky or in my eyes it was lucky. I love the size and my first time was with someone this size and I am only 4 foot 10.5 inches tall and at that time weighed in at a whopping 110 lbs dripping wet. So to me I am not sure there is something as to large in length or girth to me.
04/19/2013
Contributor: Luca77 Luca77
I'd say yes, from both perspectives as someone who is bi. One of my exes told me straight out that her last bf was too big. Of course, everyone is different.
04/20/2013
Contributor: Jaybird Jaybird
From what I've heard if it's too long it can hit the cervix and make a woman uncomfortable. I've also heard width matters more than length for pleasure, as it's the stretching that feels nice, but really I obviously wouldn't know how either feels, personally.
04/20/2013
Contributor: Sweet-n-sensual Sweet-n-sensual
I think so... I saw a porno once and this guys cock was MASSIVE! It was insanely huge, this girl was riding him and she didnt even fit all the way on. There was a good 3 inches or so between her and the shaft. It look uncomfortable to me!
04/25/2013
Contributor: souviet souviet
Quote:
Originally posted by wannawatch
Is there such a thing as a dick being too large?
Of course.
04/25/2013
Contributor: lilyflower lilyflower
I've only had that problem once. His penis was very long, but not very thick. It felt like a sword hitting the back of my vagina. Very painful. I think it was able to go in deeper because it was more narrow. That's why it hurt so much. On the other hand, I was with another guy once who was very long and thick, and that was the best ever.
04/25/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by wannawatch
Is there such a thing as a dick being too large?
Yes! If you think about it, when it comes to length, there's really on so much length to a vagina. 7" is like the maximum length of a vaginal canal, and that's when aroused. Then you have the whole girth thing. It can be too big, easily. As it is, my partner and I have enough trouble because it can actually cause quite some pain, tearing (which is easy when you're working with such delicate skin down there!) and just downright discomfort. My partner could not be any larger width-wise and still be able to have intercourse with me. A lot of times I'll have quite some pain afterwards, but it's not so bad during if we're careful.

Anyways, it's really a good idea to think of it this way -- every penis shape & size is custom-made to fit someone's vagina! I really believe this because my parnter and I fit together pretty well besides the discomfort and pain I have occasionally, but the shape -- very unique and absolutely perfect for my pleasure. Lol. Also, the length is perfect for me because I'm able to experience the "X-orgasm" (cervical O) so the length hits my cervix perfectly & the curve causes g-spot stimulation. I consider myself lucky because it's very tough to find someone you're so compatible with like that. He is the only partner I've had who was able to get me there. I'm sure we all run into people who just aren't compatible with our preferences & such, but I definitely think there's no need to worry about being too small.

It's going to depend on what she likes and all, but yes, a penis can definitely be too large. Pain and discomfort from the size is not fun, even if it feels nice to you as a male. IMO, it's more likely to be too big for comfort than too small. That's just me though.
04/25/2013