Being a bisexual woman in a relationship with a man, sometime I crave the touch of a woman. I have had 2 three somes with my fiance, and neither worked out. He picked out both girls, and the first was more in to me while the second was more in to him. Do you think we should try again, but this time I pick out the girl?
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08/05/2010
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I'd suggest making sure it's a woman you're both attracted to who is also attracted to both of you, picking her out together. It may take some time, but worth it in the end.
08/05/2010
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I have some good friends (with benefits) that I have threesomes with..Both the men and women I know are all close...I think it helps when you are friends first..
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Just Jen
Being a bisexual woman in a relationship with a man, sometime I crave the touch of a woman. I have had 2 three somes with my fiance, and neither worked out. He picked out both girls, and the first was more in to me while the second was more in to
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Being a bisexual woman in a relationship with a man, sometime I crave the touch of a woman. I have had 2 three somes with my fiance, and neither worked out. He picked out both girls, and the first was more in to me while the second was more in to him. Do you think we should try again, but this time I pick out the girl?
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Even though, I am usually with one guy..ummm, I get those urges sometimes for one of my girlfriends to join in...GREAT SEX! Besides, I find women are better at pleasuring me orally than men are!!
08/05/2010
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I agree with Carrie Ann. I recently had my first experience with another woman in a swinging situation, and it confirmed that I am in fact bisexual. My boyfriend and I had discussed swinging because he has tried it before meeting me and finds it's something he needs to be sexually fulfilled. So, we met up with a couple with the intention to possibly swap, but that didn't happen. I found I wasn't very attracted to her boyfriend, but she and I played a LOT. I loved it, which led me to the conclusion that threesomes would be much better suited for my man and I. There were times when she and I were playing that he would finger her, or suck on her toes (he has a foot fetish) and I didn't feel jealous at all, so I know that's not an issue.
Originally posted by
Just Jen
Being a bisexual woman in a relationship with a man, sometime I crave the touch of a woman. I have had 2 three somes with my fiance, and neither worked out. He picked out both girls, and the first was more in to me while the second was more in to
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Being a bisexual woman in a relationship with a man, sometime I crave the touch of a woman. I have had 2 three somes with my fiance, and neither worked out. He picked out both girls, and the first was more in to me while the second was more in to him. Do you think we should try again, but this time I pick out the girl?
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But, as far as finding other girls to play with, I make the final decision since I'm a lot pickier. We haven't had a threesome yet, because we haven't found the right girl to do so with, so we're just taking it slowly until we do.
08/05/2010
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This is a really helpful post! My boyfriend and I are looking to find another lady to play with and I think this is really good advice
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I agree with Carrie Ann. I recently had my first experience with another woman in a swinging situation, and it confirmed that I am in fact bisexual. My boyfriend and I had discussed swinging because he has tried it before meeting me and finds
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I agree with Carrie Ann. I recently had my first experience with another woman in a swinging situation, and it confirmed that I am in fact bisexual. My boyfriend and I had discussed swinging because he has tried it before meeting me and finds it's something he needs to be sexually fulfilled. So, we met up with a couple with the intention to possibly swap, but that didn't happen. I found I wasn't very attracted to her boyfriend, but she and I played a LOT. I loved it, which led me to the conclusion that threesomes would be much better suited for my man and I. There were times when she and I were playing that he would finger her, or suck on her toes (he has a foot fetish) and I didn't feel jealous at all, so I know that's not an issue.
But, as far as finding other girls to play with, I make the final decision since I'm a lot pickier. We haven't had a threesome yet, because we haven't found the right girl to do so with, so we're just taking it slowly until we do. less
But, as far as finding other girls to play with, I make the final decision since I'm a lot pickier. We haven't had a threesome yet, because we haven't found the right girl to do so with, so we're just taking it slowly until we do. less
12/17/2011
Sounds unfair that he got to pick both times
12/18/2011
yeah why should he have to pick. You should be able to pick too. But it would be better if you two agreed mutually and picked together.
03/04/2012
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