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What do you think about anal sex?

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Contributor: butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
The title says all!
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Hurts like hell!
butterflygirlxo , mama2007 , VanillaFreeSex , SexyStuff , ninaspinkturtle , Moein , Sweet-Justice , barrettbn2 , nicole07 , Choolz , MamaDivine
11  (15%)
I love it
P'Gell , Blinker , Jobthingy , ScottA , Persephone Nightmare , Viktor Vysheslav Malkin , mllebeauty , xhellsbellsx , SweetestAngelGoneBad , Liz2 , usmcwife99 , removedacnt , Shellz31 , Kaltir , jroho , Gunsmoke , TheSinDoll , RonLee , Kindred , Redboxbaby , SexyTabby , Linga , LavenderSkies , Coralbell , toxie m , zeebot , Hallmar82 , namelesschaos , newfoundlust , Jin , Orion , ZenaidaMacroura , Keegski , slynch , pinkzombie , Mr.RightNow , BadassFatass , Rainbow Boy , Epicurean , Solar Ray , Rossie , AOutrajus , liilii080 , SexyLilPixi , Howells , uu , potstickers , s<3x , socalsusieq , aimtoplease , PussyPurr , Bignuf , Raizer911 , Ciao. , GirlOnGirl
55  (75%)
tried it once, but not for me.
LittleBoPeep , Jenniae09 , StephieBoo02 , cocomo , ily , 783883877299373783 , Sir
7  (10%)
Total votes: 73
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09/18/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
There's kind of a big gap between those choices so I am not going to answer the poll because I have done some anal play and I've had anal sex a few times but it's not something that happens often because we're just not there YET..so I wouldn't say I love it yet but it's not exactly that it's not for me.

Anyway, I can say that if it hurt like hell there probably wasn't enough lubricant or warming up with fingers or smaller toys. It really shouldn't hurt if you go slow and easy and make sure you're properly lubricated.
09/18/2010
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
Quote:
Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
The title says all!
When done right, anal is incredible. you need to make sure you are relaxed, do some pre play with fingers and/ or toys and i always say that too much lube is just enough.
09/18/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Love anal play as a receiver (dildos, fingers, other toys).
09/18/2010
Contributor: Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
love giving.
09/19/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
The title says all!
Still working up to full anal sex.
09/19/2010
Contributor: butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
Quote:
Originally posted by Jobthingy
When done right, anal is incredible. you need to make sure you are relaxed, do some pre play with fingers and/ or toys and i always say that too much lube is just enough.
Thank you! I tried it twice! The first time it didn't hurt I actually enjoyed it! The second time however it hurt really bad...I don't think I was relaxed the second time.
09/23/2010
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I've only done it twice so far. I wouldn't say I love it, but I like it.
09/23/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
Anal sex is for assholes.





Okay, seriously, this is a joke. Just had to put it here
09/23/2010
Contributor: mllebeauty mllebeauty
I love anal play. It's always best to warm up with fingers and toys and use lots of lube for thrusting. It's dreamy when you are relaxed and prepped!
09/23/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We do a lot of anal play - but no sex or pegging.
09/23/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I love anal sex both as a receiver and as a giver with a strap-on. I have to be ready and "feel" like being anally penetrated to enjoy it.
Communication, lube and practice are key. The end result is so worth it!!
09/24/2010
Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
It depends, sometimes yes sometimes no. I have to be in the mood.

Its deffinitly a little tighter so it can be sore if its rough. Usally when ime in the mood for anal sex I like it rough though. I usally only do it if its a threesome though.

I have no idea why but for some reason I enjoy anal sex with a strap on more then I enjoy my husband participating in anal sex.

So anal sex with a strap on well my husabnd is using a toy on/in/around my vagina or simply just making out with him while being fucked by a strap on...yummy I want more
09/24/2010
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
no i hate anal sex, we have tried it few times and hubby knows i hate it BUT i will try it if that is what he wants occassionally but it wont be regular, and never have gone all way in, hurts like HELL.
02/11/2011
Contributor: Mistress M. Mistress M.
I've never had anal sex, but I'm willing to at least try it once.
02/11/2011
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I love it. I don't do it very often, but when I'm in the mood for it, there's nothing else in the world like it!
02/12/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by Jobthingy
When done right, anal is incredible. you need to make sure you are relaxed, do some pre play with fingers and/ or toys and i always say that too much lube is just enough.
I agree with everything Jobthingy says! I love it.
02/12/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
Love it.
02/13/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
The title says all!
It hurts but I love it
02/13/2011
Contributor: jankit jankit
Pegging is the good times for all!
02/13/2011
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
i want to want to like it. both giving and receiving. but i am having a hard time with it
02/13/2011
Contributor: Ajax Ajax
It's not something we've tried yet, but it's something I'm excited to try.
02/13/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by VanillaFreeSex
i want to want to like it. both giving and receiving. but i am having a hard time with it
From which side? And how do you mean "hard time" - difficult to relax/hurts or just doesn't feel good?

You have to be comfortable with the idea, trust that it won't get messy if you relax, and absolutely trust your partner 100%.
02/13/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
With all the positive response it gets on EF, I am thinking of trying it.
02/13/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
I've only done it a couple times, and enjoyed it, but it's the sort of thing I only really want to do with a longer-term partner.
02/13/2011
Contributor: ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
Quote:
Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
The title says all!
i like the feeling but i regret it the next day
02/14/2011
Contributor: Moein Moein
I hate it if it only means flesh insersion into anal.
02/14/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
...only tried it once so far. I was a little to brave for my britches *Sweatdrop* Hopefully we will try it again in the future with better results.
02/14/2011
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
We're still working our way up to anal sex. So far, we've done fingers and small toys.

We'll get there one day! I think I'm going to order a small Ripple toy to practice with. hehe.
02/14/2011