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What do you think of ANR/ABF

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Contributor: SecretToyLover2 SecretToyLover2
Visit link for more info on what this is. But basically, it's adult nursing relationships/adult breastfeeding. It DOES NOT refer to infantilism (wanting to wear diapers, be pampered, be treated like a baby, etc.) or incest. It is simply letting your partner drink your breast milk or suck from you in a fashion that resembles breastfeeding. A tender care for your partner. It's very intimate.

What are your thoughts? All answers are public.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
EW.
Hmmm... sounds like fun.
Genderfree
1  (3%)
It's been a secret fetish of mine for a long time.
I'm sort of on edge. I don't really know.
Badass , Hallmar82 , J Peach , K101 , gloomybear , unfulfilled
6  (20%)
I think that it just isn't normal, whatsoever.
slynch , hey steady , prettynpink , MissCandyland
4  (13%)
I think it's completely normal. As long as the two partners like it, why not?
Airen Wolf , Taylor , Ciao. , cburger , underHim , Katelyn , pootpootpoot , darkr , corsetsaurus rex , Stinkytofu10 , JackRaiden , Ms. N , eroticmutt , ellejay , potstickers , Jack Colin , blessedDW
17  (57%)
I am in a relationship like this and I hate it.
I'm in a relationship like this and I love it.
SecretToyLover2 , Bosombabe
2  (7%)
Total votes: 30
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Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyLover2
Visit link for more info on what this is. But basically, it's adult nursing relationships/adult breastfeeding. It DOES NOT refer to infantilism (wanting to wear diapers, be pampered, be treated like a baby, etc.) or incest. It is simply letting ... more
When I had my daughters their father tried my breastmilk and pronounced it too sweet. When I had my son his father tried it as well...he quite liked it but not enough to try more than once. Watching me wrestle with trying to breastfeed our son turned him off the idea. He loves my breasts...they both do actually but lactating for me just never worked well.

If this sort of play/care makes you feel close and connected to your partner and he to you then have a blast!
03/30/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I had an ex boyfriend who really liked the idea of drinking breastmilk "out of the tap" as he put it. I don't think I would have a problem with letting a boyfriend/husband do this. I feel more neutral towards the idea, and donn't think it's gross or bad, but don't have a strong desire to do it either.

That being said I've never had a child or breastfed, so my feelinga may very well change when that happens.
03/30/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
More power to anyones kink, but for me? I would never be involved in this..
03/30/2012
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
This doesn't excite me personally, but I also don't have any real objection to it. I would be curious to taste breast milk, but I don't think I need the extra intimacy of actually breastfeeding from my partner. We're close enough!
03/30/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
I feel that whatever works within a relationship is up to the people involved in that relationship. I have no feelings about it, but if it is what you two do for comfort and closeness then you need no other opinions. I do understand getting reassurance from others who do this, it does make you feel better about your choices. Good luck and happiness!!
03/31/2012
Contributor: hey steady hey steady
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyLover2
Visit link for more info on what this is. But basically, it's adult nursing relationships/adult breastfeeding. It DOES NOT refer to infantilism (wanting to wear diapers, be pampered, be treated like a baby, etc.) or incest. It is simply letting ... more
Sorry but this doesn't appeal to us at all! Having breastfeed both our children I'm afraid that is what my milk is for nothing to do with bedroom type activities x
03/31/2012
Contributor: J Peach J Peach
I've never really thought about it before, but it doesn't weird me out. Infantilism/wanting to wear diapers does, though. Being that it's not really related, I'm kind of in between about it. I guess I'd have to experience it first.
03/31/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyLover2
Visit link for more info on what this is. But basically, it's adult nursing relationships/adult breastfeeding. It DOES NOT refer to infantilism (wanting to wear diapers, be pampered, be treated like a baby, etc.) or incest. It is simply letting ... more
I've never known anyone who does it, but I've heard of it. I've not even heard of it much at all. I don't think it's as common as some of the more extreme fetishes though. It's not my place to judge I view it more as interesting rather than sick.
03/31/2012
Contributor: SecretToyLover2 SecretToyLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by K101
I've never known anyone who does it, but I've heard of it. I've not even heard of it much at all. I don't think it's as common as some of the more extreme fetishes though. It's not my place to judge I view it more as interesting rather than sick.
I felt the same. At first I was like "ehhhhhh" but it just sort of "happened" one day. We were both under a lot of stress. He was upset, I was exhausted. We were laying in bed and my husband and I started to kiss. He was actually laying down across me as we were talking and I was rubbing his head to comfort him. I was only wearing a robe so my breasts were hanging out a bit, which is no biggie when you're a married couple who are naked all the time at home. Anyhow, he sucks my nipples all the time as regular play. And I suppose he was slightly aroused and began to suck. But the exhaustion kicked in and he kept suckling half asleep and dosed off a bit. He woke up after ten minutes or so. I was very relaxed and quite the opposite of aroused. He stopped sucking for a minute to see if I was awake and we noticed some white milky fluid leaking from my breast and he started to suck and more kept coming for a few minutes. I have hormonal issues so I have been known to have breast fluid (even straight up milk ONCE when my husband and I were dating). He had never been there to witness it but he was this time and he loved it. He said it was sweet. It isn't like an obsession. It's more of a comforting type thing we do now. I would hardly consider it sexual anymore!

Infantilism is just weird to me, though. Very extreme. And often people mix up the two which is a little harsh. I'm in the process of trying to induce lactation just to try it. I guess I'm just curious. It may not be something I stick to but I just want to see what it's like!
04/09/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
my bf does this occasionally as a joke and it doesnt other me cause its meant to lighten up the mood
04/10/2012
Contributor: underHim underHim
Whatever floats your boat. My husband was completely turned off of my chest when they were leaking from pregnancy and breast feeding.
04/10/2012
Contributor: pootpootpoot pootpootpoot
My partner and I have tried to induce lactation before so that we could try this, but it didn't work out. If we could make it happen, though, it wouldn't be a 'nursing relationship'. It'd become just another activity in our regimen.
04/12/2012
Contributor: corsetsaurus rex corsetsaurus rex
This seems like a nice way to feel better about a changing post-baby body, for both partners. I'm not sure that we would try it, but I certainly won't dismiss the idea now.
04/12/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyLover2
Visit link for more info on what this is. But basically, it's adult nursing relationships/adult breastfeeding. It DOES NOT refer to infantilism (wanting to wear diapers, be pampered, be treated like a baby, etc.) or incest. It is simply letting ... more
My girlfriend and I would like to try ANR. Probably not the diapers, being treat like a baby or the pamper aspect, I just think being about to suckle milk out of her breasts is really hot.
04/12/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Not my thing. But to each their own.
04/12/2012
Contributor: SecretToyLover2 SecretToyLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by Stinkytofu10
My girlfriend and I would like to try ANR. Probably not the diapers, being treat like a baby or the pamper aspect, I just think being about to suckle milk out of her breasts is really hot.
ANR is not infantilism (the diapers and whatnot). I think infantilism is... Well I am not going to talk about that because I may say something that would upset others. I just mean the act of letting your partner suckle.
04/14/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
When I was breastfeeding, my hubby wouldn't go near my breasts. That's just not something he enjoys.
04/14/2012
Contributor: KittenPrincess KittenPrincess
Definitely not interested in the whole "adult baby" thing, but having a partner breastfeed seems perfectly natural and really sexy. Especially with the release of the bonding and love chemicals, it could be a really sensual experience.
04/16/2012
Contributor: SecretToyLover2 SecretToyLover2
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Originally posted by KittenPrincess
Definitely not interested in the whole "adult baby" thing, but having a partner breastfeed seems perfectly natural and really sexy. Especially with the release of the bonding and love chemicals, it could be a really sensual experience.
I feel the same!
04/16/2012
Contributor: Jack Colin Jack Colin
I absolutely love it...
Everything about it. It's a great bond 2 people can have.
It's both sensual and highly erotic.
Every drop a women emits from her body is heaven...my mouth is a slave to all women's bodies.
01/15/2013
Contributor: Genderfree Genderfree
When my girlfriend takes progestrone she ends up having a bit of milk every so often.
02/03/2013
Contributor: blessedDW blessedDW
I just stumbled upon this idea a few months ago. At first, I was like ewwlink babyish. However, now I love the idea of providing comfort in such an intimate way and I don't see it with the eyes of this is for a baby anymore. I nursed 3 children, youngest is now 9. We never thought of it at the time. Now...I want to do this, but probably without the full on lactating. That can be a bit cumbersome without actually having an infant! I'm totally desiring having hubby at the breast for an extended period of time each day. It's very erotic and bonding!
02/07/2013
Contributor: FlashFuchsia FlashFuchsia
I didn't know it existed until there was that AHS episode about it. Definitely not something I'd be into, but I can see why others might be. There are weirder fetishes.
02/07/2013