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What Do You Think of to Put off Orgasm?

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Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I read a funny small article in Cosmo that asked guys what they think of to put off pre-mature orgasm. Some of the answers were pretty funny! One guy said he hates Broccoli so he thinks of someone shoving it down his throat

So this is a three part question/poll

First...are you male or female? As a female, I have done this, but I don't think of anything specific, I just stop focusing on the pleasure.

Second...how often do you do this?

Third...in text tell us what you think of!
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I'm female
DeliciousSurprise , ToyGeek , Darling Jen , Waterfall , lamira , BBW Talks Toys , Naughty Student , StrawberryEve , TitsMcScandal , Persephone Nightmare , evanovca , queertastic , Trashley , Selective Sensualist , Bunnycups , Love Buzz , Tori Rebel , usmcwife99 , Alegria , Jenn (aka kissmykitty) , Tuesday , ~LaUr3n~ , Kimbertrees , mrs.mckrakn , Madeira , Alicia , Victoria , J's Alley , Sweet-Justice , NymphetamineKiss , Emma (Girl With Fire) , null , ZenaidaMacroura , darthkitt3n , Persephone's Addiction , pinkzombie , Lucidity , zoobamafooba , KnK , Tart , Liz2 , Taylor , sbon , Envy , Beaners , Taylor Von , Hadespark , SexyStuff , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , zeebot , Valentinka , BadassFatass , Cream in the Cupcake , Epicurean , UnknownGirl , sexyk515 , MaryExy , sasweetheart89 , wetone123 , Rachel Nunez , Rossie , C4ss , tickle me pink , AMGuidroz , Anjulie , Dyma , zracer , sarki , dezzydezire , ily , PassionQT , padmeamidala , Eva Schwaltz , potstickers , K101 , LikeSunshineDust , Forever17 , aliceinthehole , cheetahpita , Antipova , mizzmilla , duff , funforall7 , ViVix , elli , pasdechat
86
I'm male
ToyTimeTim , jakjak , Onanist , Kindred , leatherlover , EdLynn , TechyDad , Rainbow Boy , Lurr , Lummox , Xavier7 , Lily Night , Mr.RightNow , Keegski , Bonesdance , averageguyextrodinarypleasure , newfoundlust , CPTInsanity , Illumin8 , Sir , gehuwd , AHubbyof2SexualMinds , chuckthompson453 , Big Dog
24
I do this often
EdLynn , Lurr , zoobamafooba , Xavier7 , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
5
I do this sometimes
ToyTimeTim , lamira , BBW Talks Toys , Jenn (aka kissmykitty) , TechyDad , Rainbow Boy , Victoria , OhMy! , pinkzombie , UnknownGirl , Keegski , Anjulie , PassionQT , CPTInsanity , Illumin8 , Sir , Antipova , gehuwd , funforall7 , AHubbyof2SexualMinds , Big Dog , elli
22
I do this rarely
DeliciousSurprise , ToyGeek , jakjak , Darling Jen , StrawberryEve , TitsMcScandal , Persephone Nightmare , Onanist , Trashley , Tori Rebel , Kindred , ~LaUr3n~ , J's Alley , Sweet-Justice , darthkitt3n , Lummox , Envy , Hadespark , Lily Night , Cream in the Cupcake , Bonesdance , C4ss , tickle me pink , sarki , dezzydezire , averageguyextrodinarypleasure , newfoundlust , Eva Schwaltz , mizzmilla , chuckthompson453
30
I never do this
Avant-garde , Waterfall , Coralbell , Naughty Student , Persephone Nightmare , evanovca , queertastic , Selective Sensualist , Bunnycups , Love Buzz , usmcwife99 , leatherlover , Alegria , Tuesday , Kimbertrees , mrs.mckrakn , Madeira , Alicia , Serendipity , NymphetamineKiss , Emma (Girl With Fire) , null , ZenaidaMacroura , Persephone's Addiction , KnK , Tart , Liz2 , Taylor , sbon , Beaners , SexyStuff , zeebot , Valentinka , BadassFatass , Epicurean , MaryExy , sasweetheart89 , wetone123 , Rachel Nunez , Rossie , AMGuidroz , Dyma , zracer , ily , padmeamidala , potstickers , K101 , LikeSunshineDust , aliceinthehole , cheetahpita , duff , ViVix , pasdechat
53
Total votes: 220 (114 voters)
Poll is closed
10/26/2010
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Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
I've tried this only in the name of pure science, when testing toys, also in the name of science. Doing math works. Sometimes too well. Hence the rarely.
10/26/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I think of chopping wood, one of my least favorite things that I have to do. Works well. Thankfully I do not have to do it to much, I try to get her off before hand so most of the time it is not needed.
10/26/2010
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
I rarely need to. It usually takes plenty of work to reach the big O so I usually don't want to put it off. Though I did help myself learn to put off climaxing by strengthening my PC muscles so I have a larger orgasm that takes more work versus a quick and hardly satisfying one.
10/26/2010
Contributor: Avant-garde Avant-garde
Doing math can help, but I prefer a clear calm state of mind.
10/26/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
I do this especially for clitoral stimulation. I get off really easily with clitoral stimulation, but I want to enjoy it longer. Therefore, when I think I am about to climax, I either stop the stimulation, or stop thinking about the pleasure. I do not really think of anything else, because I will go off on tangents and eventually, and easily, gross myself out and will not be able to climax.
10/26/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
I start thinking about the chores I need to do or bills that need paid. That will usually help me put it off a little. I don't usually do it though. It usually takes me a good 20 minutes of clitoral stimulation to get me there, so I rarely need it, but on the rare occasion that I need to draw out the pleasure because of my arousal, I will.
10/27/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I have never done this and it would be nice if my orgasms came easy enough that I had to do soemthing like think of weird things to put off orgasms.
10/27/2010
Contributor: StrawberryEve StrawberryEve
I only delay when I want the foreplay to last longer.
10/27/2010
Contributor: evanovca evanovca
i pull rampant multiples so i never really feel the need to hold off.

i edge once in a while when masturbating but then i just turn down the vibration or something like that.
10/27/2010
Contributor: Onanist Onanist
The way I delay an orgasm is to change the angle of entry. At a certain angle I can last long enough to satisfy my wife. When I sense she's satisfied, I'll change the angle and quickly finish.
10/27/2010
Contributor: queertastic queertastic
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I have never done this and it would be nice if my orgasms came easy enough that I had to do soemthing like think of weird things to put off orgasms.
I agree! It would be nice if my orgasms came easily (no pun intended, heh).
10/27/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
Breathe yoga-style. I was on medication that made me yawn more than usual... but when we upped the dosage, I'm orgasm every time I yawned. This happened 50+ times a day. By the end it'd be like dry heaves and super exhausting and embarrassing as shit in class, so I learned breathing styles to cut down.
10/27/2010
Contributor: Love Buzz Love Buzz
Im always having to do the opposite, I need to think dirty thoughts and often verbalise them to reach orgasm
10/27/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by Trashley
Breathe yoga-style. I was on medication that made me yawn more than usual... but when we upped the dosage, I'm orgasm every time I yawned. This happened 50+ times a day. By the end it'd be like dry heaves and super exhausting and embarrassing ... more
that must have been awesome and horrible at the same time.
10/27/2010
Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
Ime female, I never ever try to put off an orgasm anymore.
10/27/2010
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
I don't have to so it much, but if I want to delay, I start doing math problems. Basically anything that forces me to focus on something else.
10/27/2010
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
I usually just try to slow down some and focus on my breathing.
10/27/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
I'd feel bad if my partner did this. I don't really care how long it takes him, I just want him to enjoy it as much as I do.
10/27/2010
Contributor: Jenn (aka kissmykitty) Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
(EdenFantasys)
Work. Which is ironic, considering I work for EdenFantasys.
10/28/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
I never delay, even if I come fast. Never.
10/28/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
I think of chopping wood, one of my least favorite things that I have to do. Works well. Thankfully I do not have to do it to much, I try to get her off before hand so most of the time it is not needed.
LOL nice!
10/28/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Quote:
Originally posted by lamira
I do this especially for clitoral stimulation. I get off really easily with clitoral stimulation, but I want to enjoy it longer. Therefore, when I think I am about to climax, I either stop the stimulation, or stop thinking about the pleasure. I do ... more
That's what I do.
10/29/2010
Contributor: Kimbertrees Kimbertrees
I tried this once, but failed horribly in doing so. I normally cum a couple of times during sex so I figure the more the better.
10/29/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i never put em off. i try and get as many as i can. i love sex and i love to orgasm.
10/29/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
hubbie however does try to delay is Os. usually pulls out to stop stimulation.
10/29/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
I don't really ever try to put an orgasm off, but sometimes I like to control the intensity of an orgasm so that it lasts longer. I don't really think about anything during it though, I just try to breath evenly and find a happy balance of relaxing/clenching muscles.
10/29/2010
Contributor: Serendipity Serendipity
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I read a funny small article in Cosmo that asked guys what they think of to put off pre-mature orgasm. Some of the answers were pretty funny! One guy said he hates Broccoli so he thinks of someone shoving it down his throat

So this is a three ... more
I don't think I have ever done this and I don't think I ever could. As a female with sensitive parts, my orgasms can come very quickly.
10/29/2010
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
Quote:
Originally posted by Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
Work. Which is ironic, considering I work for EdenFantasys.
Hahaha. I almost said this!

No, seriously, I just stop the direct stimulation. If I get off too quickly, it's not as intense.
10/29/2010
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
I've never really needed to put off an orgasm, my partner and I always seen to be ready around the same time. Its also not a problem to come over and over again, because we always like to see how much we can get off in one long go.
10/29/2010