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What is your trademarked sex tip?

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Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
So everyone always has advice for sex... Or they need advice. But nonetheless, what is the tip you're always dying to recommend? Or what is the tip you give the most? If you don't usually give tips, you can just post what works really good for you in bed.

Let's see what you guys and gals got!
05/10/2011
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Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
I think my trademarked sex tip (which doesn't necessarily belong to me, but you'll always see me handing it out) is genital massages before sex. Focusing on the perineum for the men. Great for increasing fertility because it definitely doubles the load of cum!

It really is enjoyable for most men and women, and it makes for even stronger orgasms. Stay away from immediate clitoral and vaginal/anal penetration and just go for a smooth sensual massage. Then, when both of you are relaxed and cannot take it anymore - shag!
05/10/2011
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Make it your mindset to be pleased by pleasing your partner. Make it your goal to fulfill your partner's desires and needs. Likewise, your partner should do the same in return. If they refuse to, then you're with the wrong person... move on. If everyone did this, the world would be a better, sexier, place.
05/10/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
After his orgasm - especially when facing each other - rake your fingers through his hair and lightly scratch his skull, like a head massage. Bonus points if you're still intimately connected while doing so. It helps relax them and feels great ... and hardly anyone does it, so he'll remember it being YOUR specialty.
05/10/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Be in the experience, not the goal. Also, sex is only dirty if its done right.
05/10/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
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Originally posted by Istanbull
Make it your mindset to be pleased by pleasing your partner. Make it your goal to fulfill your partner's desires and needs. Likewise, your partner should do the same in return. If they refuse to, then you're with the wrong person... move on. ... more
I love this tip. Very awesome thing to say! I say this to other couples at the church retreats for engaged couples that me and my fiance go on. A lot of women struggle with their husbands just falling asleep once they orgasm, or even vice versa. Sometimes you need to realize that sex is more than getting an orgasm in. Many women cannot even orgasm.

Men also need to realize that it's okay if they prematurely ejaculate once in a while. My fiance often has the issue of going for too long without ejaculating. But every now and then he'll go off in 30 seconds and he feels terrible about it.

It's all about comprimise, giving, and just love!
05/10/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
After his orgasm - especially when facing each other - rake your fingers through his hair and lightly scratch his skull, like a head massage. Bonus points if you're still intimately connected while doing so. It helps relax them and feels great ... more
I love doing this to my fiance. He's in the air force so he has that really short hair on the sides of his head and he loves the way it feels when my nails scratch against it. He's like a dog... lol
05/10/2011
Contributor: Tasty Latina Tasty Latina
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Originally posted by ToyGurl
So everyone always has advice for sex... Or they need advice. But nonetheless, what is the tip you're always dying to recommend? Or what is the tip you give the most? If you don't usually give tips, you can just post what works really good ... more
I live by the following statement:
"Be open minded and try new things (or what ever), at least twice. Only then you can truly say: you don't like it"
So much that since I'm a performer when I'm asked for advice by my fans, I constantly tell them my motto.
05/11/2011