Do your wives/girlfriends graphic, detailed descriptions having sex with other men cause you to become sexually excited and crave having sex with her?

Contributor: Bailed Bailed
How many men get turned on listening to their wives/girlfriends/fian cees/etc talk in graphic detail about their previous sexual experiences?

When I began dating the woman who's now my fiancee, I knew she was far from a virgin. Around our third date, while she was working on her third or fourth glass of wine, she told me that she gave the best blow jobs I'd ever have. I blew her off. All women think that they're best at giving blow jobs. Out of curiosity, I asked her why her blow jobs were spectacular. Keep in mind that we were in a secluded booth in a restaurant. She became extremely serious, and after a few seconds thought told me in graphic detail how a former boyfriend she had when she was 19 let her experiment and develop her bow job skills on his dick. She delved in to graphic detail about sucking his balls and licking ejaculating glans at the head of his dick before taking his dick inside of her mouth. He'd always cum inside of her mouth during her blow jobs. My fiancee is good looking. She has an incredible body. She has an adorable, innocent, and extremely honest manner in which she'll discuss sex. To her, sex is healthy, normal, and natural.

I was so enthralled listening to the woman who would become my fiancee tell me how she perfected the art of giving blow jobs and that she was 100% confident she could make any man cum in under of minute of taking his dick inside of her mouth. She graphically and in minute detail talked about guys to whom she had given blow jobs, how she has always swallowed, and how much guys have loved her blow jobs. She has always loved to give blow jobs.

Her graphic and detailed discussions about blow jobs she had given almost caused me to cum in my pants while seated at a restaurant booth. It was extremely erotic listening to her.

As we continued dating, into our engagement, and through today, she knows she can get me intensely sexually excited by telling me about her previous sexual experiences. She rarely talks about her less that good sexual experiences. But she can talk at length and in incredible detail about her best sexual experiences.

During her college days, she had two very close black friends who were stars on her college's football team. They went from study pals to friends, to hardcore sex friends. They were her first black men and her frist MFM sex experience. She had many, many MFM sex experiences with them. Both of them were over 6'. One was 6'4". When she gets in to graphic detail about being their secret porn star, I will cum in under 30 seconds. Her MFM sex experiences with her two black, handsome, studs were probably her most cherished college sexual experiences. She loves MFM sex, wants to introduce me to MFM sex, and she wants to have sex with more handsome, black, athletic men before we meet at an altar.

I have no clue of why I get so incredibly turned on listening to my fiancee tell me graphic details about guys with whom she has has kinky sex including anal sex. But every single time she does, she makes me want to stuff my tongue down her throat and my dick inside of her pussy. It might be due to her Puritan, conservative outward appearance, which is a contradiction to who she is as a sexually charged woman. Regardless, when she talks about how other men have banged her brains out and how they did it, I fall more deeply in love with her.

BTW, my fiancee knows that her sex stories get me horny. When she's in her adorable, spunky, feisty, teasing mood and with alcohol in her, she'll coyly talk about a former boyfriend who used to cum all over her face, or one of her black MFM sex partners who had a massive dick, and he shot the most cum she has ever seen come out of any dick.

No other woman has got me so sex tied with her sex stories. My fiancee owns me when she talks about her previous sexual experiences.

Does listening to your wife or girlfriend's previous sexual experiences cause you to become more horny? Or is the intense connection that exists between my fiancee and me that causes me to love and desire her more deeply when she begins talking about how she used to give blow jobs to other guys and a porn star for two black guys?

Do you guys get wood when your wives and girlfriends talk about their previous sexual experiences?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes, it's a massive turn on
Yes, it's interesting to know how she enjoys having sex
TheToyGuy
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Indifferent
She was a virgin before me
No, I do not want to know who did what to her before me
No, her previous sexual experineces turn me off
Total votes: 1 (1 voter)
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Contributor: Croc Croc
Probably this poll needs another option 'my SO(s) avoid sharing that much'

I had a GF a bit older than me, who shared, but I didn't get horny. You just take a mental note 'ok let's try that too'.
The others have been more reserved
01/06/2020
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
Despite your question was addressed to men, I want to answer it too

When my partner gives me a colorful description of what kind of sex he'd like to do with me and in what way, when he depicts every single detail of his sexual fantasies about me, it is extremely arousing for me. But I don't want to know what was his sexual experience with his previous partners. For me, it is unpleasant and killing the mood.

But if you enjoy the sexual stories of your fiancee's experience with others, and it doesn't hurt you, I'm glad for you then
01/06/2020
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
I know more than a few of the men my fiancee used to bang. Most often, she'll get graphic in abstract terms. My fiancee has called me by the first name of one of the guys I know whom she used to have a lot of sex with. I've always laughed. He was one of her more proficient sexual partners. He was so gracious that he allowed her to use his dick to perfect her blow job artistry. Of course, she's figured out a few years later that he exploited her sexual naivete to get more blow jobs from him. Now she laughs about it. She said all he had to do was tell him to give him a blow job and she would've.

I knew my fiancee was far, far from virginal when I began dating her. In fact, she's the most sexually experienced woman I've ever dated.

I do not know the two guys who porn starred her in her many MFM sexual experiences that involved the same two guys. When she's looped, she will get graphic about her MFM sexual experiences. They are her most cherished sexual experiences of her college experience. I've came within 30 seconds of her telling me how she used to blow one guy while the other was working her pussy with his dick doggie.

My fiancee has many fantasies, all normal sexual fantasies, and she'll often talk about them in graphic detail. I have her on video telling me she wanted to be covered with cum. She does have a gang bang fantasy.

My fiancee knows that when she talks graphically about sex, she'll always get me hard. It's her way of initiating foreplay while we're out partying. By the time a bedroom door closes behind us, I'm seconds away from cumming.

She was adorable when she innocently told me of a guy who came more than any guys she's ever had sex with. She told me that one wad would fill her mouth. She innocently asked me if it was normal for a man to cum such a huge amount. I told her that she would know far better than I would.

Maybe, it's her honest, adorable, innocent manner that she'll candidly talk about sex that turns me on.

My fiancee rarely talks about her less pleasurable sexual experiences.
01/06/2020
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Bailed
How many men get turned on listening to their wives/girlfriends/fian cees/etc talk in graphic detail about their previous sexual experiences?

When I began dating the woman who's now my fiancee, I knew she was far from a virgin. Around our ... more
Sounds too good to be true and you know how the old sayings goes
01/06/2020
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
My wife enjoys my stories more than I probably enjoy her stories.
01/06/2020
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Sounds too good to be true and you know how the old sayings goes
Since I divorced, I've dated many divorcées. The majority came from loveless marriages where sex was perfunctory. Without exception, these women were horny, and they enjoyed and pursued their sexual passion. My fiancee was no exception. Her ex was the worst sex she's ever had. She was extremely sexually experienced. He was sexually inexperienced. She tried to teach him how to have euphoric sex. He refused to learn. His idea of sex was mounting her missionary, thrusting his dick inside of her until he came, rolling off of her, and calling it, "Making love." He demeaned her because she asked him to cum on her tits. He called her gross. She has never forgiven him for that. A wise man will never, ever demean a woman during sex.

My fiancee is not a making love girl. She wants to be banged, hard, rough, nasty, with lots of hair pulling, ass slapping, and dirty talking. After she's had her brains banged out, she'll rest blissfully within my embrace. She has told me that if her ex had fucked her like I fuck her, she wouldn't have had to endure years of misery.

So Cal probably is a unique region. It is tolerant of all people and their proclivities. Outside of NYC, it's probably the most liberal region of the country.

My fiancee has a public persona that belies her sexual persona. If you were to attend a business meeting with her, you'd assume she's Puritan, and you'd need a crowbar to pry her legs apart. Get her in a bedroom, and she'll reveal her passionate sexuality.

She is far more apt to talk graphically about sex after she's had a bottle of wine. However, I've heard her talk graphically about sex completely sober, especially when she's in a sexually insatiable mood, which is far more common than infrequent. She can have sex many times every day, which is very common for most women in their sexual primes.

She has always viewed sex as healthy, normal, and natural. She has always had an equality view of sex. Sex was for her enjoyment, too. She has once asked me, "If sex was euphoric, why shouldn't I have had sex?" She told me that sex was mental therapy for her. It relieved college stress, and it always improved her humor. I have detected sex's positive effect on her. If she's bitchy, or stressed, or depressed, a half-hour with my face buried in her bush and my tongue working her clit followed by a banging the way she loves it, and she's a transformed girl.

My fiancee and I are best friends. She knows she can confide in me about anything, and I will not judge her. After we had established mutual trust, we were free to tell each other anything and everything. She has told me that I am the only person, male or female, whom she has ever completely trusted.

Very early in our dating relationship, she was not reticent about telling me that sex was extremely important to her. She was and is in her sexual prime. She told me that she could have sex every day, many times a day.

We had mystical sex on our first date. We've had sex almost every day since. We are extremely sexually compatible. I've never experienced sexual compatibility with any women that comes close to the electrical passion that exists between my fiancee and I. As soon as she got in my car, sexual tension was palpable. We couldn't wait to rip each other's clothes off.

Very early in our relationship, maybe on our second date, she told me how she loved sex and what she didn't like. She also told me of her many sexual fantasies. She's had most of them since she began having sex. She was naive during her early sexual experiences. But she did know that she loved sex.

She sexually blossomed during her college years. She attended a liberal college where sexual equality was stressed. She was extremely good looking. She could have been Playmate of the Year. She had an incredible body. She always had guys hitting on her. She had her pick of men. During times she didn't have a boyfriend, she had numerous FWB's. As sexually active and adventurous as she was, she told me she was almost saintly compared to most of her sorority sisters. My fiancee had many MFM sexual experiences with the same two college guys. Many of her sorority sisters weren't as sexually conservative as my fiancee.

My fiancee relates her college experience to her sexual blossoming. We could be dining at a restaurant, watching NCAA football at a sports bar, or laying in my bed watching TV when something with activate her memory of a fond college experience, which will relate to another story of her sexual blossoming. Years ago, she told me I had the perfect size dick for her. I asked her how she knew. She told me that she had a one-night-stand with a guy who had a very small dick. Once she felt his small dick in her had, she knew his small dick would never work for her. She mercy fucked him and sent him packing. She told me that she preferred girth to long dicks. She did not enjoy guys with long dicks shoving them down her mouth.

I can vividly remember the firs time she told me to cum on her face. When she was in college, she believed the myth that semen enhanced her complexion. She'd often tell her boyfriends to cum on her face. She'd rub their cum into her face thinking it was improving her complexion. She now knows it was a myth, but she still likes facials.

That cum conversation led to her telling me how much she loved warm cum on her body, especially her tits. That led to her telling me about a college guy she used to bang who came in gallons (an exaggeration). She told me she had never seen a guy shoot as much cum as he did. He filled her mouth with cum when she gave him blow jobs. She explained that to me as segue to her asking me if it was normal for men to produce that much semen. I had no clue. I told her that she was in far better position to assess cum quantity than I was.

She see a handsome, studly black guy at a sports bar. If she's had a few glasses of wine, she'll reminisce about the two studly black guys she used to fuck while she was in college. She didn't tell me about the black associate professor until much later in our relationship. He was much older that she was. My sense if she has confounding feelings about her relationship with him. She had believed rumors about him that bordered on stereotyping. She said he was the complete opposite of rumors that were attached to him. She said he was extremely handsome and in excellent physical condition. She had an immediate sexual attraction to him. She initiated sex with him. He was exceptionally good in bed. She had a clandestine sexual relationship with him. She loved having sex with him because he assured she'd always experience sexual euphoria.

I have never been in a relationship with a woman who was my best friend, with whom I was in love, and with whom I've had the most exciting sex in my life. I've had women friends tell me that they wish they could have what my fiancee and I have. Very, very few people will ever experience it.

Here's reality: most married men have no clue of their wives' previous sexual experiences. Most men are either too insecure, judgmental, or jealous, or all three to deserve to know. Very early in my relationship with my fiancee, we agreed to open communication about everything including sex. Open and nonjudgmental communication is a foundation of authentic friendship. My fiancee has told me that I know more about her than anyone she has ever known. I will not judge her based upon her cherished sexual memories she's created during her sexual blossoming. I'll often tell her that she is most fortunate to have lived such an exciting, thrilling, and euphoric sex life.

My only regret was not meeting my fiancee many years ago. We are the essence of two of a kind.
01/07/2020
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
I've forgotten to mention my fiancee's incredible sexual confidence. I can vividly remember a dinner date we have very early in our dating relationship. After she had finished a bottle of wine or close to it, she told me of her blow job talent. She adorably told me that no guy she has ever given a blow job to failed to cum. Many of her girlfriends complained to her that they were unable to get their husbands any boyfriends to cum from blow jobs. She proudly told me she has never had that problem. I absolutely adore her sexual honesty and confidence.

She briefly dated a guy who had asked her to shave her bush. My fiancee has beautiful, thick hair that women pay a fortune for a salons. She has a thick bush. It's genetic. Thick hair runs in her paternal side.

She did terminate her relationship with him, but not because she would not shave her bush. She loves her bush. He did not dislike her thick bush. He preferred Brazilian.

My fiancee told me that she'd never shave her bush for anyone, although she did ask me whether I'd want her to shave it. I told her that I love her sex bush, especially when my face is buried in it.

My fiancee told me that her bush represents health, feminine sexuality, youth, and vitality. As women age, their hair thins. Hence, she views her thick bush as an important component of her sexuality. She adorably told me that she is not a sexual fad follower. She said that mature men know that women grow pubic hair. If any man couldn't cope with her bush, then he couldn't cope with her personality, and he would need to go,

My fiancee has always been submissive during sex. As long as her former sex partners took care of her, she would do anything sexually for them as long as it was not degrading. However, her sexual submissiveness had limits. Shaving her bush for a man was something she would never consider.
01/07/2020
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
My fiancee has asked me about my previous sexual experiences and what I most enjoy about sex. I've told her that I love exciting, thrilling sex. So does she. I told her about a former girlfriend who used to fuck me everywhere including in secluded areas of public places. My fiancee loves the same. She told me to let her know ahead of time so she could dress for secluded, public sex. She has always worn skirts for public sex. If she's wearing a skirt, odds are we'll have sex in a secluded stairway.

She's had sex at sorority and fraternity parties inside of bathrooms and once inside a closet. She said it was easy for her. All a boyfriend had to do was lift her skirt over her ass, pull down her panties, and bang her from behind. I fell more deeply in love with her. I didn't have the heart to tell her that how her former boyfriends fucked her in public was common.

I told her that I love her exhibitionism. She does it more often for me.

She has told me that she'll do anything for me sexually that I desire including FMF sex. I can't handle her let alone another woman.

I do not like routine, bland sex. My fiancee has a pronounced disliking for routine, bland sex. Once sex becomes boring, excitement and passion fade.
01/07/2020
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
I had another thrilling and sexually stimulating conversation with my fiancee.

Healthy women who don't like sex probably have not experienced euphoric sex. Healthy women in their sexual primes enjoy sex at least as much as men.

Most women will lie to their husbands and boyfriends about their previous sexual activity. My fiancee has lied about her previous sexual activity to former boyfriends and her ex-husband. She does not know of a woman who hasn't lied about her previous sexual activity.

I used to bang a woman that I had later saw at a reunion. Away from her husband, she virtually begged me to not disclose our long ago sexual relationship. I would not have remotely thought of talking about our long ago intimacy. I felt very, very sorry for her. Her life must have been most uncomfortable because she had to prevent disclosure of her previous sex life to her husband, the one person in her world whom she should have felt most secure discussing anything including her previous sex life.

My fiancee now believes lying is immature. It consumes too much energy to protect a lie, and risk of disclosure is high. Once a person is revealed as a liar, it's natural to question veracity in other areas. Her previous sexual activities are only her business. If she cannot trust me with her most closely guarded secrets, she'd be a fool to marry me. Of all the people in the world, I am the one whom she should feel most comfortable and secure revealing anything she desires.

I am the only person she has told that she used to fuck one of her associate professors. In fact, I believe she has never told anyone that she used to fuck him. I know that she did not want her sorority sisters and others to think she received an A in his class because she was fucking him. She fucked him because she had an intense physical attraction to him. Because he was more than twice her age, he routinely took her to sexual euphoria. She loved having euphoric sex with him. His huge dick was an added benefit for her. And he authentically cared for her. He became her mentor for her remaining 3 years of college during which they routinely had a lot of euphoric sex. And he obliterated the myth that black men don't eat pussy.

Women lie about their previous sexual activity because their husbands/boyfriends are insecure or unrealistic or both.

My fiancee has told me that it's a huge relief to her that she can tell me anything she desires without fear that I'll judge her. It's soothing for her to not have to protect a lie or lies.

One of the most mystical relationships known to man is being in love with his best friend. Very few people will ever know it.

Men in their sexual primes and beyond could not be players if there weren't women who enjoyed sex.

As my fiancee has told me a zillion times, sex is healthy, normal, and natural. A woman's stature is no diminished because she enjoys sex and regularly engages in sex. Once my fiancee experienced euphoric sex and its tremendous physical and psychological benefits, she judiciously pursued sex. Euphoric sex helped her cope with academic stress and horrendous stress caused by her divorce.

Medical research has proved that women who have a lot of sex, especially in their senior years, are healthier and live longer. This is not true for men.

I'm delighted that my fiancee has had a an exciting and fulfilling sex life. My bet is most women wish they had my fiancee's euphoric and thrilling sexual experiences. I've dated more than a few middle-aged divorcées who were sex-starved and tried to experience what they wished they had in their youth. My fiancee has experienced what those divorcées were questing. I do not have to worry whether my fiancee will stray to sew wild oats, She's tasted more wild oats than Quaker can grow.

Maturity brings wisdom. My fiancee is in the midst of her sexual prime. She craves sex. Her pussy will become drenched by merely thinking of sex. The upside is I'm the one who gets to bury his face in her gorgeous bush. I couldn't care less how many men she's might've have fucked. The reality is her previous sex life is none of my business. I do know that she was a stone cold fox in college with a Playmate of the Year body. She knew college guys wanted to fuck her. What they didn't know is she wanted to fuck them. Because she was the quintessential California Girl, a fox, and had a nearly perfect body, she was able to be selective in whom she fucked. But she will admit that drunken college parties duped her in to especially giving blow jobs to guys she wouldn't have otherwise given a second glance. But then again, drunken college parties are legendary for indiscriminate sex.

Would a drunk coed at a college party reduce her stature because she gave a guy a blow job in a secluded area of the party? I would hope not.
01/08/2020
Contributor: HotCherryPie88 HotCherryPie88
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Sounds too good to be true and you know how the old sayings goes
01/11/2020
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
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Originally posted by HotCherryPie88
Most people will never experience true sexual euphoria. I feel sorry for such people.

Since I've met my fiancee, I experience every time we have sex.
01/12/2020
Contributor: GingerTesla GingerTesla
Quote:
Originally posted by Bailed
How many men get turned on listening to their wives/girlfriends/fian cees/etc talk in graphic detail about their previous sexual experiences?

When I began dating the woman who's now my fiancee, I knew she was far from a virgin. Around our ... more
Yes but this is also a known male instinct. From when we were savages. you know most of your sperm is actually fighting sperm looking for another mans seed to kill so that yours will make her pregnant.

its normal and gets me every time.
07/27/2021