Women: On a scale of 1-10, how sexually satisfied with you with your current partner.

I voted low, but mostly because I can have a high sex drive but I'm waiting for my partner to be comfortable with even the idea of having sex.

He's worth the wait.

I rated mine an eight. The sex itself, in the moment, is above and beyond a 10. It's life-changing, mind-shattering, body-rocking sex. But there are just two things missing: more of it and kink. If I could get a spanking prior to sex at least once a week and be guaranteed to have sex every other day, it would be a 10+. Alas, the sex is as vanilla as yogurt and on average we're going 3 or 4 days in between on good weeks and more on bad... I understand that he's tired from work and all the kids and me (I'm a handful and a half), but that doesn't stop me from wanting it all the time...

Definitely an 9

A seven

I voted 7 because he is fantastics, but there just isn't enough of it because we live so far apart.

I voted a seven yesterday. He's been the best, period. His patience and Zen have been miraculous ...

But I'm still learning to let go and not over-think everything. It's been a process. Plus I'm having to learn everything that everyone else my age takes for granted.

Although I could do with more hair pulling and spanking.