I haven't had any children, but my G-spot isn't very dependable either. I know I've got one because I've experienced awesome g-spot orgasms, but she's also been known to disappear for weeks at a time! I hear the pure wand works wonders for G-spot stimulation, so I'm saving up for one now.

How long has it been since you gave birth? Did you breast feed? Natural delivery (episiotomy?) or C-section?

Have you tried kegel exercises or Smart balls? Kegels work miracles on your vagina, especially after childbirth.

If you've tried those & they don't work you may be experiencing some nerve damage, or your hormones could be out of whack- both of which can be treated so you can get your old orgasmic self! I'd go to the doctor & get an assessment of your pelvic muscles & get your hormone levels checked too.

To answer your question "does a woman have a G?" The answer is yes! Some women's aren't as sensitive as others, but if you got off easily during intercourse before, you've definitely got one. I've never heard of a woman's G-spot disappear after giving birth & never returning again, so I think the odds of you being able to reach pre-baby orgasms again are in your favor.

Hope this helps, & good luck!

I've actually heard that women 30+ have easier times with their G-spot.


I just recently started using the Pure Wand and while I have not achieved G-spot orgasm, it has really started to pinpoint where it is and actually give me good stimulation. Before the Pure Wand, I really worried, like you, that I was some freak of nature or something.


Previously, did you only have G-spot orgasms? Maybe you need to focus on clitoral ones?

You should work in a hat shop...heehee

CC: Turning 30 is the best!!!

I never had a g-spot orgasm until about a month after my 30th birthday. I swear it was in hiding or something. Now I can ejaculate from only, and I kid you not, tribadism.

Spicing it Up:
I am so sorry for your loss. Your body is probably still in shock to some degree. Plus just being pregnant, well, that wreaks havoc all over a lot of women.

Maybe you should not try for a couple of weeks, have a couple of other kinds of orgasms first, and then try to find it.

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Good luck!

From a LOT of feedback from my thread "TRY THIS" I would say that as a woman ages it becomes MUCH easier to stimulate her GSpot and have it respond. There may be a number of factors but self confidence is a biggie. Also the vaginal walls become thinner as you age so having the G respond to rubbing will be easier as those walls thin over time. SOME women can achieve G-Gasms from a very early age but many can't cum like that until they are a little older. Yup. SOmething to look forward to.

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