first of all, if he's making you feel good--you're not doing anything wrong!

but, yes- some woman cannot climax from gspot stimulation alone while others can. For many it takes time and lots of practice (that's the best part) to orgasm internally but some woman never do. Don't stress over it. No need to put all your stock into the last moment of it- dont' make it a goal, just enjoy the ride.

and that sensation of needing to pee is very common with intense gspot stimulation--the gspot is considered a section of erectile tissues at the base of the bladder. it's pretty much the female prostate, a set of glands that when stimulated generate fluid (female ejaculate) and women who are able to relax their instincts not to pee are able to experience female ejaculation (i'm still trying!)

congrats on finding it! my advice would be to practice on your own (fingers work great but there are tons of gspot specific toys) when you don't have the added pressure of someone else there. get to know how your gspot responds and that's easier to do when you're doing the guiding.

Thank you so much. What great info! I will have to defiantly have to work on all that!

You're almost there. But you have to push yourself beyond that feeling of needing to pee.

It took my partner and I a long time to figure out what she needed to orgasm from g-spot stimulation. She definitely can't start with it because she doesn't really feel it in the beginning. I have to warm her up with clitoral and/or nipple stimulation sometimes with an orgasm sometimes without. This foreplay allows the g-spot to begin filling with fluid which she needs in order to get pleasure from stimulation there. As long as our positioning is right, I can usually get her to orgasm from PIV intercourse once she is appropriately warmed up. It's something that probably never would have happened if we hadn't started researching g-spot stimulation.

I personally cannot have an orgasm from my husband or myself just rubbing my g-spot.. however, I've used toys (only harder materials like metal and glass) that work to stimulate my g-spot enough that I'm able to orgasm. It's funny, when using g-spot toys that are effective in making me able to climax I never get the feeling that I need to pee or any other signs.

Oh yeah -- I can't have a g-spot orgasm from manual stimulation or sex. I have to have a toy, and it has to be thrusting at the speed of light.

The funny thing is just like last week I gave up trying to find it, lol. Funny how thinks work out. I think now I'm going to try and figure out if I can O from it. And if I can try squirting from there.

I found mine last night too! but i was trying alone with a plain vibrator not one of those G-spot toys.....I just ordered one so hopefully that will make it feel better....it was a huge suprise when i did it....but i didn't O from it either! Good luck to you!

hmm, maybe we should try again...I'd love to find my g-spot but whenever we go hunting it doesn't feel remotely good - it's actually pushed me close to a panic attack a couple of times. no idea what's up with that. then I read about women finding theirs and I want to go looking again.....it's very frustrating.

I'm curious - what does it feel like? How different is it from a clitoral orgasm?

That helps. I'm used to clitoral orgasms, which are intense, and just kind of build into screams (hence why we bought a gag, lol).

With me, I need a clitoral orgasim prior to achieving a g spot orgasm. As newme mentioned, a g spot orgasm is very much localized. I do find using a butt plug during masturbation and intercourse does make my g spot more sensitive to stimulation and of course orgasm.

I am going to have to keep practicing

Wow this thread is informative...
I have a couple of questions to see if what I'm experiencing is normal, though.

When I am using my regular toy, which is a decadent indulgence vaginal dildo, I tighten so hard around it nearing orgasm I slow the shaft down to almost stopping. I think I somehow have reached g-spot orgasm a few times (usually it's clitoral) due to my roughness of use, but am not sure. It is almost an itching feeling, urge to urinate, and very fast build-up before explosion, does that sound like a g-spot O or a clitoral one? I should probably know the difference but becuase I have yet to use a g-spot dildo, I am not sure.
Also, what have you noted to be the best vibrating g-spot toy? I think it's all mental, but would prefer vibration over silent due to power. Thanks for any help.

Is that it?

Saurou:
"women who are able to relax their instincts not to pee are able to experience female ejaculation (i'm still trying!)"

Huh! I get so lost in the orgasm I tense all up and/or shiver all over (my g-spot is like an insta-cum button) that I can't relax enough to ejaculate. It would be cool to do, though! Thanks for the fun fact

For me, orgasms are like being on the craziest part of a roller coaster. I feel like I'm at the top, but then I can keep climbing higher and higher. If it's done right, I can pretty much stay on that orgasm ride until whatever action is slowed a lot or stopped.

My clit gives me a sort of fast, intense orgasm, like I'm always on the verge of it just being too much pleasure to handle. It always makes me want something inside me and it makes the muscles on the inside flutter and go nutty.

When I have a g-spot orgasm it's more like what Carrie-Ann described.. like I'm trying to shove the orgasm out. It's also more intense in a way, but also more.. tolerable. My back curls, instead of arching when I have a clit orgasm, and I tense up. If my eyes are closed, I get teary eyed from the intensity sometimes.

Ahh, orgasms..

Yeah I have a hell of a time finding my gf's g-spot. It seems like nothing I try works. Maybe I'll have to try it with a toy. Any suggestions on where to start?