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Contributor: eri86 eri86
I couple weeks ago I got the Ella and was hopeful about finally having the tool I needed to achieve a g-spot orgasm.

Now I figured it wouldn't be instantaneous, that I would have to work up to it. But every time I use it, nothing. Not even that I can't orgasm from it, but the curved g-spot end has no affect on me.

I haven't been able to figure out how to make it feel even remotely good. Not that it has been bad. It's just there inside me.

Any suggestions or tips to make it work? Because it is a quality toy. Hate to think it's just going to go to waste if I can't make it work for me.
04/09/2013
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Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
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Originally posted by eri86
I couple weeks ago I got the Ella and was hopeful about finally having the tool I needed to achieve a g-spot orgasm.

Now I figured it wouldn't be instantaneous, that I would have to work up to it. But every time I use it, nothing. Not even ... more
Explore a little with the toy. If you haven't already try different position and angles. Also relax and try not to focus too much on finding and enjoying a g spot orgasm. Sometimes if a person is too intensely focused it can actually become a road block so to speak. So for now just relax, explore and have fun. It will happen.

BTW the Ella is a great toy, I love mine but it took a little bit of time until I found that right spot.
04/13/2013
Contributor: JDear JDear
Make sure you're really aroused before trying g-spot stimulation. I find that a lot of clitoral stimulation is helpful as well. Try just pressing it up against where your g-spot should be and stimulating your clit. Sometimes I can have a g-spot orgasm just from pressure on my g-spot. And sometimes I have a clitoral orgasm or two before I'm able to have a g-spot one.
04/13/2013