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Hitting the G-Spot, A-Spot, etc. with a Noncurved Toy or Penis

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Contributor: rigg rigg
Hey I posted a message sort of like this in another area but I thought it was more appropriate here...

Anyways, I have gotten the impression that a lot of women feel that it is easier for a curved toy/penis to hit the g-spot and other vaginal hot spots. I unfortunately am equipped with a straight penis, so I was wondering if a straight toy or penis can be used in a way that can perform as well as a curved one, and hit spots such as the g-spot, a-spot, etc. If so, how could one achieve this? Are there any positions, angles, or techniques that would be more suited to non-curved, straight penises or toys? Are there any advantages to having a straight, non-curved penis?
12/11/2010
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Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
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Originally posted by rigg
Hey I posted a message sort of like this in another area but I thought it was more appropriate here...

Anyways, I have gotten the impression that a lot of women feel that it is easier for a curved toy/penis to hit the g-spot and other vaginal ... more
Everyone's anatomy is somewhat different, but we've had success hitting the g-spot before in the doggie position with shallow thrusting and more of a downward angle. It doesn't work if she isn't already faily aroused though (which causes the g-spot to swell).
12/11/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
Everyone's anatomy is somewhat different, but we've had success hitting the g-spot before in the doggie position with shallow thrusting and more of a downward angle. It doesn't work if she isn't already faily aroused though (which ... more
This. Doggie style seems to work best for hitting the g-spot on most women. Most from-behind positions will do a good job of it including spooning. Being aroused is a huge part of it since the g-spot swells and is easier to hit when aroused.
12/11/2010
Contributor: rigg rigg
Thanks for the advice guys! Now, I know this might sound kind of corny or whatever but I always thought it would be really romantic when having sex with a girl for us to both be able to orgasm face to face or at least be in a position where we could kiss...but this seems like it might not work as well in doggy - are there ways for a straight penis to effectively hit the hot spots and also allow for this more "intimate" face to face positioning? Again, thanks for the feedback I feel I have learned so much from these forums!
12/12/2010
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
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Originally posted by rigg
Thanks for the advice guys! Now, I know this might sound kind of corny or whatever but I always thought it would be really romantic when having sex with a girl for us to both be able to orgasm face to face or at least be in a position where we could ... more
Women can orgasm without g-spot stimulation!

You can still have your face-to-face romantic moment.
12/12/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by rigg
Thanks for the advice guys! Now, I know this might sound kind of corny or whatever but I always thought it would be really romantic when having sex with a girl for us to both be able to orgasm face to face or at least be in a position where we could ... more
Absolutely. With her on her back and you inside her, bend her legs so her knees are as close to the ground beside her as possible. Or just one knee. Or have her legs over your shoulder. These positions allow you to face her and still have terrific G-spot stimulation. Its also good if her knees are bent and her feet are on your chest, but then you won't be able to kiss her.

A curved penis might make it easier to hit a spot deep inside her, but unless you're just a little bit inside her being curved doesn't help with G-spot stimulation. Straight is best IMO.
12/12/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
My wife always has good luck when I am sitting on the couch and her straddling me. This gives her the control to make my penis hit the G-spot with my slightly curved penis and we are very close. This site is great for new positions to try. Doggie style does little to stimulate her G-spot but does hit the A-spot quite well. Go figure.
12/12/2010
Contributor: rigg rigg
Thanks for the terrific advice guys, I will definitely keep it in mind when/if I get an opportunity...

Tuesday mentioned that a curved penis might make it easier to hit a spot deep inside a woman; would this be the a-spot? If so, are there ways for a straight-dicked guy to access that spot?

I love the comments so far guys they have been super enlightening...I guess what I'm basically wondering and conflicted over is (all other things equal) can a straight-dicked guy pleasure a woman's vaginal spots as much as a curved-dicked guy within the range of face-to-face, kissable sexual positions? (also if it matters both guys are in the average size range)

I get the impression that there are a lot of other guys out there with straight penises (and women who experience them) so I hope this thread would be helpful to a lot of people!


Again, thanks for any feedback you guys rule!
12/12/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Q. "Can a straight-dicked guy pleasure a woman's [deep] vaginal spots as much as a curved-dicked guy within the range of face-to-face, kissable sexual positions?"

OMG, yes. Don't worry about straightness. A straight cock hits all the spots too.

Another position that is supposed to work well for G-spot stimulation is her on a counter and you inside her. I guess this amounts to the same position as I described earlier, but vertical.
12/12/2010
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
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Originally posted by Tuesday
Absolutely. With her on her back and you inside her, bend her legs so her knees are as close to the ground beside her as possible. Or just one knee. Or have her legs over your shoulder. These positions allow you to face her and still have terrific ... more
Great information!
12/12/2010
Contributor: rigg rigg
Thanks guys I (and probably a lot of other guy in this situation) appreciate the responses and advice. If you're reading this and have any additional relevant experience or advice feel free to post!

Happy holidays,
Eric
12/26/2010
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
The only guy I have been with who was able to hit my g-spot during intercourse had a smaller sized penis. It may have been curved, but I remember it as being straight.

Could probably be done with shallow penetration and maybe something to lift up her hips like the Liberator Wedge, but my husband doesn't seem to like doing that because he says it makes his head sensitive.
12/26/2010
Contributor: That Guy That Guy
Call me crazy, but my girlfriend seemed to actually get the best g-spot stimulation from anal in the cowgirl position while leaning back (toward my feet), and I have a very straight penis. If you're having trouble getting there, that might be the way to go. Of course, this presupposes that both you and she are okay with anal, which is assuming a lot.
01/05/2011
Contributor: rigg rigg
I am really sorry to keep posting on this topic but this is an example of the seemingly large body of discouraging info I have been coming across as a guy who has a straight penis - having trouble getting it out of my head. Found this in a thread about straight vs. curved penises:

"I am Clinical Sexual Adviser, the G spot is located approx. 3- 4 inches on the front inner wall of vaginal cavity, it has ben proven that a curved penis has a much better chance of stimulating the G spot that a straight penis. The partners of men with curved penis receive orgasms at a rate of 56% percent more than those with straight penis's and many times the partners with the straight penis needed to manually stimulates with a tongue or finger to achieve orgasm."

it also seems like most toys are curved, and if they arent this is considered a drawback.

and then there are polls like this

does this discouraging info have any truth to it? how can i compensate? I know the g spot isnt the be-all-end-all of a relationship or even sex but it is something she has admitted has a strong preference for in sex. I love doing manual/oral but i (and she) wants to hit the g spot during intercourse while we kiss, and we are both older and unflexible. All other things equal how can i use my straight penis to perform as well as an upward curved one? Help/guidance on this issue is so appreciated
07/01/2011