I did it!

Contributor: LoveNixie LoveNixie
Since last February, I've been toying around with my gspot. I've read several books, tried several toys, and listened to a broad range of podcasts on the subject. It literally took me months to even find what I was looking for. I'd had gspot orgasms, but had never experienced female ejaculation. Finally after many many nights of attemps, I finally did it, with my fingers. I'd have to say that this was by far the best orgasm I have ever had, but my question is, ia there an amount of liquid from your ejaculate that is considered excessive? The amount I released was what seemed like very excessive. I mean really if I pressed down on my bed there was a puddle that would form, much like pressing on a sponge. lol
11/22/2009
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Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
Congrats to you! That's awesome. From everything I've read, seen, and experienced with my own partner that doesn't sound at all excessive. Obviously the amount of fluid is going to vary greatly between different people but I think a fair amount is not too out of the question.
11/22/2009
Contributor: anelinvader anelinvader
I would have to agree with Boink that dose not sound excessive my wife will some times ejaculates (squirt) alot where we will soak through a towel doubled up and some times it will be just dribbles
11/22/2009
Contributor: Miss Jane Miss Jane
Congratulations

I'm not sure how much is of the norm, but I'm sure it varies. Maybe you peed a little? hehe
11/22/2009
Contributor: Epiphora Epiphora
Congrats! Things will never be the same! And no, no amount is excessive. Go with it!
11/22/2009
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
Congratulations! This is something I have hopes of doing someday.
11/22/2009
Contributor: Saraid Saraid
Congrats! I actually just did today as well! However, my amount wasn't much - I left a 5" diameter puddle on my comforter that I then had to scrub out. But on further expection, it wasn't lube and it wasn't pee - so I'm going with the answer of yes, I squirted.
11/22/2009
Contributor: Raven Raven
Way to go, NixieBuzz. I have an excellent book about g-spot orgasms and squirting, and she says the amount of ejacualte can be anywhere from a couple of spoonfuls to maybe a cupful or more. So there is no amount that is either too scant or too excessive. Mine tends to be about a half cup, which is kind of middle of the road, it seems.
11/22/2009
Contributor: MuffysPinguLove MuffysPinguLove
Congrats on achieving squirting! I agree with Epiphora, there's no going back now!
11/22/2009
Contributor: Wrecked-Czech Wrecked-Czech
I have only been with one woman that could squirt, and she always squirted atleast 3 to 4 ounces of sweet liquid. To put that into better perspective, a typical shot glass is only 1.5 ounces. For me, the more a woman squirts...the better!
11/22/2009
Contributor: Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
Congratulations! And there is no exact amount; some women squirt a LOT, others only squirt a little.
11/22/2009
Contributor: LoveNixie LoveNixie
Ok good. Thanks for all your support, and congrats. I just wish i could find a toy that worked well for this, my hands cramp up from that weird position they have to be in. I realized I needed much firmer pressure than I'd tried before, and I can't seem to find one that really works for this. Any suggestions?
11/22/2009
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
NixieBuzz - great to hear of your success. Try the PureWand - the curve makes getting to your g-spot much easier (according to my wife). I can even use the the big smooth ball of the PureWand to make my wife gush - how much depends on a lot of things - but the more she gushes - the more I like it!
11/22/2009
Contributor: Polyserena Polyserena
There are a lot of really really good toy reviews on this site. I've had recent success with the Alumina Revolve. Like you I used my fingers first. I find it's quite intuitive to use because the lack of curve means even if you twist it it won't change the position you are pressing on. And it feels even better with temperature play. It is a hard toy which is useful for g spotting, but I think people are put off by it's lack of a curve. It is fantastic, probably especially for me because it is a little more targeted and finally I know exactly where mine is (little to the right...). With a warm up from the g toy ella I squirted easily with the marble slimline G too (using as a dildo), but it didn't feel that amazing.
11/23/2009
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Congrats!! The amount of ejaculate varies always seems more then it actually is. A throe works real well but two towels will be effective.
I use the NJoy Pure Wand and gets me there almost every time but it takes some practice. I have to be the driver though or the pressure is too intense for me.
My favorite vibe the Gigi is also awesome and gets me there faster but why rush anyway?
11/23/2009
Contributor: Kmonkey Kmonkey
I realize that each girl is different but I've been trying to get my partner to squirt for a while now and I'm just not hitting the right spots I guess. She's squirt with other partners before but I'm just trying to find any kind of trend in the "how to" aspect that will help me please her a little more.
11/26/2009
Contributor: anelinvader anelinvader
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Originally posted by Kmonkey
I realize that each girl is different but I've been trying to get my partner to squirt for a while now and I'm just not hitting the right spots I guess. She's squirt with other partners before but I'm just trying to find any kind of ... more
sounds like you or both of you might be trying to hard I know if I am trying to make my wife squirt some times it will not happen because it is when she is totaly relaxed and in the moment, relaxed is when she is the wetest and able to squirt the most some times the best squirting has been when we were not even trying just having fun and playing
11/27/2009
Contributor: Kmonkey Kmonkey
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Originally posted by anelinvader
sounds like you or both of you might be trying to hard I know if I am trying to make my wife squirt some times it will not happen because it is when she is totaly relaxed and in the moment, relaxed is when she is the wetest and able to squirt the ... more
Thanks for the advice my friend. We don't get many oppurtunities to enjoy each other's company so I guess when it does happen I get so fixated on pleasing her that not only do I neglect myself, but she's less relaxed as well. If things happen between us again I'll be sure to just relax and enjoy myself.
11/28/2009
Contributor: TacoODoom TacoODoom
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Originally posted by LoveNixie
Since last February, I've been toying around with my gspot. I've read several books, tried several toys, and listened to a broad range of podcasts on the subject. It literally took me months to even find what I was looking for. I'd had ... more
congrats! the first time i pulled that off I freaked out 'cause I thought I'd broken my bits. I hope you achieve it again many many more times
01/28/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
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Originally posted by LoveNixie
Since last February, I've been toying around with my gspot. I've read several books, tried several toys, and listened to a broad range of podcasts on the subject. It literally took me months to even find what I was looking for. I'd had ... more
That's great!
08/02/2010
Contributor: YoungCouple YoungCouple
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Originally posted by Wrecked-Czech
I have only been with one woman that could squirt, and she always squirted atleast 3 to 4 ounces of sweet liquid. To put that into better perspective, a typical shot glass is only 1.5 ounces. For me, the more a woman squirts...the better!
Amen, my high school girlfriend used to ride on top, and have multiple a-spot and g-spot orgasms (we are talking like 15 every 30 minutes). She would soak multiple towels to the point that we would have to wring them out when we were done, it was HOT!
08/05/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
congrats!! made me a little jelouse
10/12/2010