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My Orgasm is Painful for Him - Suggestions?

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Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
I have intense g-spot squirting orgasms. And it hurts my partner whenever I orgasm on his penis (because of the intense clenching). What can I do to make him feel better about this? Or is there no solution?
03/07/2013
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I have no experience with this. No woman has ever been able to squeeze hard enough to cause me pain. At the risk of appearing rude - I'd avise him to suck it up and stop complaining!
03/08/2013
Contributor: eri86 eri86
Does it hurt him every time? I feel like there needs to be more information given for anyone to try and determine what is going on.
03/08/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I would suggest warning him right before you orgasm and then he can pull out, you cum and then go back to business as usual. Either that or lay off the kegel exercising.
03/08/2013
Contributor: Jenn (aka kissmykitty) Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
(EdenFantasys)
If it's really causing him that much pain, perhaps swap him for a g-spot hitting dildo right before you start to climax? Perhaps go down on him to give him something to be "occupied" by while you're getting off.
03/08/2013
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
i most often see women force the man out right before they squirt. would that ruin it for you? otherwise, you have a strong pussy and you should be proud of that. the alternative could be a lot worse.
03/08/2013
Contributor: Munko Munko
I've hurt my partner several times too...More often than not though he gets "pushed out" (not by choice, I guess I just have good birthing muscles! LOL)

He generally tends to just suck it up otherwise....I've found it's worse in positions where things are tighter and more closed up...if I'm more exposed and open when I climax, then I don't contract as hard I guess.
03/11/2013
Contributor: Howley Howley
my gf pushes me out but i actually love trying to stay in for the ride the contractions feel greattt but sometimes i get pushed out and then my junk gets bent in the process which hurtsssssss.

i have no idea how you could make it less painful for him :/
03/22/2013