This is probably a dumb question about g-spots....

Okay, so I know that having a g-spot orgasm is supposed to be out of this fucking world. I know where my g-spot is, and I do feel it during insertion or when I play with toys specifically made for g-spot play, but I've never achieved a g-spot orgasm.

I'm not even sure how to have one. I think part of it might be that after awhile, if I'm playing by myself, I "chicken out" and can't stand the long-term stimulation enough to keep going. I think someone would have to hold me down and shove it up there for me.

I'm thinking maybe I haven't found the right toy yet, but I'm still curious. What does a g-spot orgasm FEEL like? How different is it from a clitoral orgasm or well any other kind of spasm-gasm? Part of me worries that I could very well have a G-spot orgasm one day and not have any goddamn clue that it had happened. less

I'm going to try to say this in a way that makes some kind of sense... I know the feelings but I've never tried to put them in words so if I don't make sense let me know and I'll try to elaborate further.

A clitoral orgasm is not a slow building thing for me. I get the tingling, the sensation a matter of seconds before I cum and I feel my body tensing up, my hips rising off of whatever I'm laying on, my legs drawing together and as soon as it hits it's a wall of intense pleasure. My arms flail back if I'm laying on my back and my body twitches and spasms. I have noticed that vocally I go up in pitch also.

A G-spot orgasm is, more often than not, a slow building thing for me. I feel it as soon as I hit my g and everything sort of spreads out and relaxes. My knees drop apart, I relax into the mattress, my head drops back, I am almost immediately significantly more wet and my vocalizations drop about an octave and instead of yelling I speak softly, often whispering. It's a warmth that builds, slowly spreading out from my g-spot, through my vag, then through my whole abdomen, then up my arms and through my body. Instead of reaching up for it I settle into it if that makes any sense. The orgasm is also a lot more prolonged- as long as I continue to stimulate my g the waves of orgasm continue to roll through me. After a g-spot orgasm I am in a warm blanket of blissed out relaxation. I feel like I'm sinking into the mattress and I have a big goofy smile on my face. It's much less of a sudden WHAM! of a clitoral orgasm and more of a continuing undulation that gets wider and stronger as it progresses. less

Definitely not a stupid question! These can definitely sneak up on you, and have just as many variations in intensity as clitoral orgasms. I also don't think they're necessarily better -- the blended ones are more intense in my experience, and it's easier to lose focus if you're fighting for a particular type of experience instead of just having fun.

I've had the most success achieving intensity with the Pure Wand, the Amethyst, and the Jollies Firm, but there are many, many toys out there that get the job done. less

I'm going to try to say this in a way that makes some kind of sense... I know the feelings but I've never tried to put them in words so if I don't make sense let me know and I'll try to elaborate further.

A clitoral orgasm is not a slow building thing for me. I get the tingling, the sensation a matter of seconds before I cum and I feel my body tensing up, my hips rising off of whatever I'm laying on, my legs drawing together and as soon as it hits it's a wall of intense pleasure. My arms flail back if I'm laying on my back and my body twitches and spasms. I have noticed that vocally I go up in pitch also.

A G-spot orgasm is, more often than not, a slow building thing for me. I feel it as soon as I hit my g and everything sort of spreads out and relaxes. My knees drop apart, I relax into the mattress, my head drops back, I am almost immediately significantly more wet and my vocalizations drop about an octave and instead of yelling I speak softly, often whispering. It's a warmth that builds, slowly spreading out from my g-spot, through my vag, then through my whole abdomen, then up my arms and through my body. Instead of reaching up for it I settle into it if that makes any sense. The orgasm is also a lot more prolonged- as long as I continue to stimulate my g the waves of orgasm continue to roll through me. After a g-spot orgasm I am in a warm blanket of blissed out relaxation. I feel like I'm sinking into the mattress and I have a big goofy smile on my face. It's much less of a sudden WHAM! of a clitoral orgasm and more of a continuing undulation that gets wider and stronger as it progresses. less

I am a fan of my g-spot. She rocks hardcore. But like some of the rest of you, the orgasms tend to be a bit softer and not as quick or sharp as a clitoral spasm-gasm. Not that they can't be mind blowing, but mostly it's extremely slow building waves that start in my abdomen and roll over my body. From feeling the hair on my head stand on end, to making me clench my toes and I literally can't keep mine going alone. Clitoral stimulation added to this makes it almost unbearable for me which is why I would stop and give in. My husband always has to hold my legs open by force* to be able to keep going with stimulation to my g-psot and/or clitoris.

*disclaimer... all implied "force" is consensual in this house. less

I'm going to try to say this in a way that makes some kind of sense... I know the feelings but I've never tried to put them in words so if I don't make sense let me know and I'll try to elaborate further.

A clitoral orgasm is not a slow building thing for me. I get the tingling, the sensation a matter of seconds before I cum and I feel my body tensing up, my hips rising off of whatever I'm laying on, my legs drawing together and as soon as it hits it's a wall of intense pleasure. My arms flail back if I'm laying on my back and my body twitches and spasms. I have noticed that vocally I go up in pitch also.

A G-spot orgasm is, more often than not, a slow building thing for me. I feel it as soon as I hit my g and everything sort of spreads out and relaxes. My knees drop apart, I relax into the mattress, my head drops back, I am almost immediately significantly more wet and my vocalizations drop about an octave and instead of yelling I speak softly, often whispering. It's a warmth that builds, slowly spreading out from my g-spot, through my vag, then through my whole abdomen, then up my arms and through my body. Instead of reaching up for it I settle into it if that makes any sense. The orgasm is also a lot more prolonged- as long as I continue to stimulate my g the waves of orgasm continue to roll through me. After a g-spot orgasm I am in a warm blanket of blissed out relaxation. I feel like I'm sinking into the mattress and I have a big goofy smile on my face. It's much less of a sudden WHAM! of a clitoral orgasm and more of a continuing undulation that gets wider and stronger as it progresses. less

The #17 is my favorite G-spot dildo, but I found it with the Amethyst. If you are interested in a vibrator to help you out, the Harmonia was great. I just also tried the G-Ki and it's FANTASTIC, plus you can use it for dual stim! *drool* less