I generally identify with being pansexual, but I've become to realize that I am incredibly attracted to people who blur gender not just physically but blur societal gender roles in general. In elementary school I had a crush on a guy that everyone else in our class thought was a girl (until I asked him) that same year I was in a dance class with a girl who I had a massive crush on because I thought she was dude (I was about eleven) and when I saw her putting on lipstick I was initially confused but still incredibly attracted to her (first time I realized I attracted to girls). I realized this trend continues today, it seems to be ingrained in me and I can't help but to wonder why. It totally grasps my attention in a way that nothing else does when I see someone whose gender appears undefined. Anyone else relate to this?
Androgeny
06/22/2011
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yes, ive had similiar experiences. I think there are both "masculine" and "feminine" qualities i am very attracted to, and i tend to like people who have both of these qualities.
04/24/2012
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Noira Celestia
I generally identify with being pansexual, but I've become to realize that I am incredibly attracted to people who blur gender not just physically but blur societal gender roles in general. In elementary school I had a crush on a guy that
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I generally identify with being pansexual, but I've become to realize that I am incredibly attracted to people who blur gender not just physically but blur societal gender roles in general. In elementary school I had a crush on a guy that everyone else in our class thought was a girl (until I asked him) that same year I was in a dance class with a girl who I had a massive crush on because I thought she was dude (I was about eleven) and when I saw her putting on lipstick I was initially confused but still incredibly attracted to her (first time I realized I attracted to girls). I realized this trend continues today, it seems to be ingrained in me and I can't help but to wonder why. It totally grasps my attention in a way that nothing else does when I see someone whose gender appears undefined. Anyone else relate to this?
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I can't explain it either, but androgyny is something special.
I read a book in middle school entitled "What happened to Loni Garver" with an androgynous character. If you don't mind reading below your intelligence level (as it is geared for preteens) I recommend checking it out.
It was my favorite book for a long while and I passed it on to many friends who felt the same.
The main character speaks of her attraction towards Loni in a really beautiful way
04/24/2012
I'm definitely into androgyny, but it seems only certain brands. Like I'm rarely into men who look like women, but I tend to feel ridiculously attracted to women who look like men. My ex was comfortable in the body she was given, but she often felt like she didn't really feel exactly male or female. Sometimes she liked to bind when we went out because she enjoyed being mistaken for my "boyfriend." And I thought that was really hot, though I'd never have encouraged it unless she really enjoyed it.
04/26/2012
Mmmm, androgyny.
I'm fairly androgynous myself and I like fellow androgynous females.
I'm fairly androgynous myself and I like fellow androgynous females.
04/26/2012
I like androgynous people. I'm not attracted to the hyper masculine or the hyper feminine.
04/28/2012
I like androgynous people. I'm not attracted to the hyper masculine or the hyper feminine.
04/28/2012
There are only some parts of androgyny that I find sexy. Usually, it has to do with my desire to be protected... I want to be with a woman who can take care of me (I'm not really a feminist, can you tell?). I do find some androgynous women to be extremely attractive as well, but they have to be confident. All the androgynous women I actually know are insecure and unattractive to me.
05/30/2012
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