Why is it so hard to find bi's / lesbians?

Contributor: jjesssica jjesssica
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why is it so hard to find a bi / lesbo ): generally i only spot them at clubs on tv. That sounds ignorant, im sorry. I know a few people that are bi because of secrets and confession.
06/17/2012
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06/17/2012
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
I met my ex girlfriends in random places, one at school, one at an anime convention (she didn't know she was bi til she met me and then we ended up dating for years!), one at a club but she was my "barsexual" friend, she only made out with girls at clubs, I met one in college and another in line at Burger King lol.

I am obvious though, I wear a lot of bi-pride stuff, so girls tend to approach ME.

My current girlfriend I met in high school

We can be found anywhere you just have to make people aware you're available, if you REALLY want to find them
06/17/2012
Contributor: jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by Peggi
I met my ex girlfriends in random places, one at school, one at an anime convention (she didn't know she was bi til she met me and then we ended up dating for years!), one at a club but she was my "barsexual" friend, she only made out ...
LOL! when u hit burger king i cracked up. ohh bi stuff like glittery clothes or? grr
06/18/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
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Originally posted by jjesssica
LOL! when u hit burger king i cracked up. ohh bi stuff like glittery clothes or? grr
Bi pride stuff would probably involve stuff like t-shirts or buttons that reference the colors of the bi pride flag, pink, purple and blue, or just outright say something about bisexuality. One of my friends has a really cool shirt with two triangles, one pink and one blue, that overlap to form a central purple triangle. It's subtle, most people don't notice it's a pride shirt unless they're familiar with the bi community. Plenty of bi people like glitter, but it's hardly a standard uniform. =P
06/19/2012
Contributor: Mitzuki Mitzuki
I've found I have the same problem! Though the area I live in is pretty.. I don't know, lol. That's what the internet is for. And that's why you have to bring your pride out a little bit for them to find you.
06/20/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
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Originally posted by jjesssica
why is it so hard to find a bi / lesbo ): generally i only spot them at clubs on tv. That sounds ignorant, im sorry. I know a few people that are bi because of secrets and confession.
I didn’t realize it was=)
For me it seems like everyone is these days.
06/25/2012
Contributor: digit88 digit88
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Originally posted by jjesssica
why is it so hard to find a bi / lesbo ): generally i only spot them at clubs on tv. That sounds ignorant, im sorry. I know a few people that are bi because of secrets and confession.
now that you mention it i find more gays than bi/lesbians
06/25/2012
Contributor: xMila xMila
Most of them in my area are taken Or say they are bi, but never act on it.
06/25/2012
Contributor: vegweg vegweg
I think you just need to figure out where/how to look. There's pride wear, like some other people mentioned.. there are also groups and clubs, particularly if you're attending or live close to a college setting. Look around your local area and figure it out. You'd probably be surprised.
06/25/2012
Contributor: hjtee hjtee
I find it the other way around. In my hometown, there are wayyyyyy more lesbians/bi girls than men or other.

I went to a predomiently female (80%+) university, so there were a large proportion of lesbians there as well!
08/20/2012
Contributor: bdan bdan
I have the same problem. I live in a small town in the bible belt. also doesn't help I barley leave the house.
08/20/2012
Contributor: brandi2009 brandi2009
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Originally posted by jjesssica
why is it so hard to find a bi / lesbo ): generally i only spot them at clubs on tv. That sounds ignorant, im sorry. I know a few people that are bi because of secrets and confession.
i have the same problem
05/10/2013