I'm a B.I girl in a hetero long term relationship. We've been together for about five years but recently i've been having a lot of urges to be with women. I don't have that availability but I find myself ogling girls and fantasizing about it a lot more than usual. My boyfriend doesn't understand and doesn't want me to be with girls so i'm not sure what to do about it. Any ideas guys.
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Aww, so sorry. I wish I could help. I've experienced similar and I just proposed 3-somes which luckily my boyfriend was fine with but.. well unfortunately my solution though it worked (for ME at least)was unconventional and by how it sounds your boyfriend wouldn't be comfy with that. I hope someone provides you with a good answer, good luck to you deary.
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peachmarie
I'm a B.I girl in a hetero long term relationship. We've been together for about five years but recently i've been having a lot of urges to be with women. I don't have that availability but I find myself ogling girls and fantasizing
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I'm a B.I girl in a hetero long term relationship. We've been together for about five years but recently i've been having a lot of urges to be with women. I don't have that availability but I find myself ogling girls and fantasizing about it a lot more than usual. My boyfriend doesn't understand and doesn't want me to be with girls so i'm not sure what to do about it. Any ideas guys.
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All committed relationships require giving up doing things that you want to do for the sake of your love for the other person. It doesn't really matter that you find yourself attracted to other people of the same sex or the opposite sex. Since your BF is not interested in sharing you with other women, you will need to decide if he is worth giving up on your urges.
Are there other problems in your relationship? Sometimes a wandering eye is just a way to break out of a bad relationship or get attention from others that you are lacking at home. Since you said this is a new problem, what happened when you started to have fantasies about other women?
Are there other problems in your relationship? Sometimes a wandering eye is just a way to break out of a bad relationship or get attention from others that you are lacking at home. Since you said this is a new problem, what happened when you started to have fantasies about other women?
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