why do guys think is cheatin when they girl have sex wit another girl?

Contributor: sexyk515 sexyk515
why do guys think is cheatin when they girl have sex wit another girl? Is that them being insecure about they manhood because im not go lie i love having sex wit females but i hate having to sneak and mess around or have a girlfriend because he go get mad.......
03/29/2011
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Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyk515
why do guys think is cheatin when they girl have sex wit another girl? Is that them being insecure about they manhood because im not go lie i love having sex wit females but i hate having to sneak and mess around or have a girlfriend because he go ... more
Ummmm... because it is cheating? If you're partner is not consenting to you hooking up with another person, it's lying and cheating. It doesn't matter their or your sex.
03/29/2011
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
Yup, still cheating, sorry. Just because you are bi doesn't mean that it is any different. Saying that it should be an exception would be the same as saying that since your guy is attracted to women that he should be able to sleep with them when ever he wants.
03/29/2011
Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
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Originally posted by Lucidity
Ummmm... because it is cheating? If you're partner is not consenting to you hooking up with another person, it's lying and cheating. It doesn't matter their or your sex.
This exactly. What does sex or gender have to do with anything?
03/29/2011
Contributor: BadgersRose BadgersRose
It's definitely cheating unless you are in an open relationship where you both agree to see and be with other people and you both are ok with that. Otherwise you should just break up and find partners who are open to multiple partners.
03/29/2011
Contributor: Curves Curves
yeah, that's called cheating.
04/01/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
That is still cheating sweetheart... any way you look at it.
04/01/2011
Contributor: CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
Cheating. Find a more open-minded boyfriend if you want to go about things that way, and don't be upset if he wants to get with other girls.
04/01/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
If you are in a committed, monogamous relationship, that is CHEATING. Any break of that commitment involving another person is cheating, completely regardless of gender, gender identity, etc.
04/01/2011
Contributor: CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
If it wasn't anything that you talked about before hand and had a good understanding about than it is cheating. Some guys might not mind it, but some guys would be mad as hell.
04/01/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
Sorry but I agree with your boyfriend. Why wouldn't it be cheating? Maybe you guys should talk more about what each of you expects in a relationship. If your ideas about what cheating is don't matchup and you can't come to a compromise that is acceptible to both of you, then it might be time to end the relationship.
04/01/2011
Contributor: Pleasure Piratess Pleasure Piratess
Ditto to what everyone else has said.
04/01/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
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Originally posted by sexyk515
why do guys think is cheatin when they girl have sex wit another girl? Is that them being insecure about they manhood because im not go lie i love having sex wit females but i hate having to sneak and mess around or have a girlfriend because he go ... more
It is cheating. Weather it be with someone of the same sex or opposite, sex is sex.
04/01/2011
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
Who or what sex is involved really isn't relevant. Any time there is a couple who have expectations of their partner being faithful and you add another party to that dynamic then you are in fact cheating. Hiding it and lying isn't going to be helpful to anyone. If there is any respect in the relationship with the boyfriend then you should let him know how you feel and what you expect. If it works then it works if not move on but don't lead him along. It's also kinda sad that there would be no respect for the additional party that you only see them as an object and not a shared experience. You should be honest with them as well.
04/01/2011
Contributor: AlaskanBeauty AlaskanBeauty
It is cheating.
06/01/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
Because girls are just as much of a human being as guys are, and cheating is more about lying and doing intimate things without consulting one's partner than the act itself.
06/05/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
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Originally posted by emiliaa
Because girls are just as much of a human being as guys are, and cheating is more about lying and doing intimate things without consulting one's partner than the act itself.
I agree with nana.inuk
Extramarital sex is still sex regardless of whether it is homosexual or heterosexual in nature.
06/24/2011
Contributor: rachaelxfaith rachaelxfaith
Unless you are in a polyamorous or open relationship, this is cheating.
07/02/2011