Please help me. I think I am going crazy here. I am lusting for bisex but not for me, for my husband. Is this normal?

Herpob,

We understand what you're going through. We also play a lot in the bedroom and enjoy pegging and other aspects of playtime.

I had always considered the possibility of M/M/F being really hot and had a chance with a couple guys prior to meeting my husband, but they were not into touching beyond incidental contact.

Fast forwad to now and my husband is very open. We occasionally play with a strap on or with me just using a toy on him when the mood strikes. I've snowballed with him after going down on him, he will go down on me after cumming inside me and we have even had him roll his legs over his head while I sucked him/played with his ass/stroked him until I aimed his cock towards his mouth and he shot his own load directly in his mouth.

We have discussed M/M/F with me calling the shots or finding a couple where the girls direct the boys to put on a show for them (there are LOTS of girls that think M/M is hot). We often talk when having sex about another cock and I've used our toys on his mouth and ass while we have been having sex also. I get really turned on thinking about him getting it from behind while he's inside me and we've got a favorite position where his ass is exposed and I have used toys on him while he was inside me. I have no doubt I could talk him in to sucking another guy or letting him take him from behind with my encouragement. I'm the jealous type so don't know if it will ever happen, but the fantasy of it is enough for us now.

So no, you are not crazy. You should be thankful you have an open minded partner that enjoys your fantasies as much as you do. The key to this and any other fantasy is open communication with your partner.

To begin with, you are not crazy. Full of Adventure maybe, but not crazy. You need to talk this out and be sure there is a match with your feelings. Here is my story...


As an older adult male, I had never considered anything different then being with my wife as a monogamous couple. When I had a prostate cancer scare a couple of years ago my whole life changed. As it turned out, it was just a scare and I am without cancer. That being said, I have had prostate surgery and now able to resume a normal life. Over a two-year period, I have had fingers up my anus along with equipment for two separate biopsies. It seemed like I was the one to practice on because I live near a teaching hospital. About once a month, I would have something put up inside me for sometime short exams or long exams.

I called my Doc Bubal and asked he was getting me ready for prison with all his in and out of my bottom. What was first embarrassing became something I looked forward to. It was always something different, sometimes male sometimes female sometimes students, two or three at a time. I never knew.

Because I was kind of enjoying the experience, I was afraid that maybe I was gay and just never knew it. That is not the case. I finally got up the courage to talk with my wife about what I was feeling and my fears, and she was great.

She now has no trouble putting on her strap on and thrilling me to no end. We have shared our fantasies and enjoy our new found sex lives. I have told her, had known then what I know about myself, I would I would have been happy to have another man’s penis in my mouth and buried deep inside me.

I am past the opportunity time in my life for this to ever happen, but it has provided many a steamy night for my wife and I. I hold no judgment against anyone on the journey in finding out what makes them happy and being able to share that experience with someone who feels the same. Life is too short to let this kind of thing slip away.

My ex was bi, I loved it, the sex was amazing. We never included other couples, though I did want to. If your man is all for it then do it. Embrace it and enjoy it...