I do think a lot about females but I think I think about men more
What gender do you think about most while masturbating?
12/01/2012
What I think about when masturbating is like, entirely related to who I'm with sexually at the time.
12/03/2012
I'm the 7%! I'm male and I fantasize about both just as much!
12/03/2012
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since I was very, very young it's always been about girls. unless there's a certain guy I'm really into at the time
Originally posted by
Xarien
I've always been curious about this. When you close your eyes and fantasize, which sex instinctively pops into your mind? Does it vary? Is it influenced by the sex of the person you're currently with?
12/12/2012
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If I masturbate..which I tend not to do (why bother, I have a guy to play with, anytime I want)...anyway, I fantasize mostly about a COUPLE doing it...not a single partner or person.
Originally posted by
Xarien
I've always been curious about this. When you close your eyes and fantasize, which sex instinctively pops into your mind? Does it vary? Is it influenced by the sex of the person you're currently with?
12/12/2012
Women, never men, but if I was honest, a hot shemale will pop into my masturbation fantasy every once in awhile.
12/15/2012
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I'm female and I think my fantasies tend to skew more towards men, but it just depends on my mood. Sometimes it will be exclusively women for a week or more, then back to guys, sometimes both, sometimes people of other gender identities. Whoever is on my mind at the time, I guess
Originally posted by
Xarien
I've always been curious about this. When you close your eyes and fantasize, which sex instinctively pops into your mind? Does it vary? Is it influenced by the sex of the person you're currently with?
12/22/2012
I think about both but mostly men
12/22/2012
I am a female and definitely think about women more when masturbating, though since gaining a boyfriend I think about guys more than I once did.
12/27/2012
I am a female and definitely think about women more when masturbating, though since gaining a boyfriend I think about guys more than I once did.
12/27/2012
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I am a female and I fantasize about males most often...
Originally posted by
Xarien
I've always been curious about this. When you close your eyes and fantasize, which sex instinctively pops into your mind? Does it vary? Is it influenced by the sex of the person you're currently with?
12/27/2012
I voted "other" not because "I just want a poll" or anything but because I felt like none of the options matched me well.
If I had to choose a label for simplicity's sake/ without using a million characters to explain myself, I would say I'm genderqueer and fantasize often about unknown-gendered people/ genderqueer people (myself being the genderqueer one, and unknown because I genuinely don't attach gender to my fantasies. I just imagine bodies without faces and without what I would consider to be gendered markers).
I feel like I fantasize about individual parts (e.g. a stomach), not the entire body, so I never have to consider gender. It's just a stomach to me
If I had to choose a label for simplicity's sake/ without using a million characters to explain myself, I would say I'm genderqueer and fantasize often about unknown-gendered people/ genderqueer people (myself being the genderqueer one, and unknown because I genuinely don't attach gender to my fantasies. I just imagine bodies without faces and without what I would consider to be gendered markers).
I feel like I fantasize about individual parts (e.g. a stomach), not the entire body, so I never have to consider gender. It's just a stomach to me
12/31/2012
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Me too...even though I am very happily married to a man!
Originally posted by
PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I am usually fantasizing about females. Sometimes I will a male.
01/14/2013
other...and not just because I want to vote!
Usually I just focus on sensation and my own body, more than thinking of other people. Occasionally I will think back to particularly hot sex acts with my S.O. to seal the deal!
Usually I just focus on sensation and my own body, more than thinking of other people. Occasionally I will think back to particularly hot sex acts with my S.O. to seal the deal!
01/16/2013
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Agreed!
Originally posted by
Intrepid Niddering
It varies and depends on what specific scenario I'm fantasising about. Sometimes, I fantasise about males. Other times, I fantasise about females. Even other times, I fantasise that I'm a male, with either another male or female.
01/17/2013
All of them
01/23/2013
Both equally.
01/23/2013
I am females and like to watch girls usually while playing but both together to works love to see sexy women ride on top
01/23/2013
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Both. It doesn't affect who I date, no. (tbh, I dislike men on a more personal level.)
Originally posted by
Xarien
I've always been curious about this. When you close your eyes and fantasize, which sex instinctively pops into your mind? Does it vary? Is it influenced by the sex of the person you're currently with?
02/27/2013
I'm female and think about me and a male.
02/27/2013
I dont know
02/27/2013
if im not thinking about my husband then it is about girls for sure.
03/05/2013
females
03/05/2013
I'm pansexual, but 98% of the time, I fantasize about men.
03/05/2013
females
03/05/2013
Mooostly males because I mostly think about guys I've done/could do stuff with, but sometimes a hot lady pops up
03/05/2013
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womens.
Originally posted by
Xarien
I've always been curious about this. When you close your eyes and fantasize, which sex instinctively pops into your mind? Does it vary? Is it influenced by the sex of the person you're currently with?
03/06/2013
I think about both but usualy I am so into what I am feeling that I can't focus on anything else
03/06/2013
I'm a guy and I often fantasize about being with a woman (or more than one) and a man (or more than one) at the same time. Otherwise, I fantasize about being with a woman or multiple women. I almost never fantasize about being with another man without a woman present, and on the rare occasions that I do that, I almost always think about the actual experiences I shared with the one guy I was ever with.
It has definitely evolved over time with me. I remember before I had sex, I used to fantasize more about being with other guys than about being with women. But after I had sex with a guy, and then with women, my fantasies became more about women.
It has definitely evolved over time with me. I remember before I had sex, I used to fantasize more about being with other guys than about being with women. But after I had sex with a guy, and then with women, my fantasies became more about women.
03/06/2013
It really flip flops for me.
03/11/2013