who do you prefer?

Contributor: RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
Most women my age I know aren't my type... I guess I'm not very mainstream.
12/17/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
I love my man, but women are soo fun!
12/18/2010
Contributor: Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
i run about 50/50 with both. but i like women just a bit more.
12/21/2010
Contributor: null null
I'm a women and, despite only dating men, I prefer women much more.
12/28/2010
Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
I am a woman who likes women more, but is with the man of her dreams (yay!!)
12/28/2010
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
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Originally posted by Beth D
There's something called the Kinsey scale that I think 'rates' peoples' sexuality much better than just straight, bi and gay. It goes from one to seven, one being totally straight and seven being totally homosexual. Four is exactly in ... more
i was going to bring up the Kinsey scale too! I tend to harp on it when it comes to discussing sexuality. I admit I only recently understood that my point on the scale fluctuates throughout my life. I had thought my change in preferences were just coincidental with the gender i was dating.

For years i was so far toward the homosexual end that i identified as being lesbian. It was just easier. (bisexual discrimination and all). Now i'm older and wiser, and proud to be bisexual.

also throughout my life i have noticed the difference between my sexual orientation compared to my romantic orientation. There were years that I totally enjoyed sex with men, but would not have settled down with one. Couldn't even picture it. Now I can.
12/28/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I like men more, but I do like to play with women once in a while.
12/28/2010
Contributor: Maiden Maiden
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Originally posted by Jobthingy
I cannot answer the pole.

I am a female. I am with a man. I am bi. BUT - I could not be in a long term relationship with a female. I am too stubborn and can barely deal with females as close friends. I don't do well with bitchiness and ... more
This is close to how I feel as well. I love women. They are beautiful, sexy, soft, and well... FEMALE. I am very attracted to them and love to kiss them and want to have them in my sex life.

I hesitate to say I could never be in a relationship with one, because I hate to say "NEVER", and I also know my experience with women is limited. That being said, I have a hard time even maintaining friendships with women over long periods of time. Men are just "easier" for me on an emotional level. I can barely handle my own mood swings, let a lone another female. In my experience, men are very much "what you see is what you get", and with women I am always wondering what they are "really" thinking or feeling, because as a woman, I know that I act the same around people I do like as people I don't.

On another note, I am submissive with men. I love them to be "manly", aggressive, macho, hairy, and strong, etc. However, I feel threatened and turned off by a female that is dominate. I like my women to be "girly" and soft and submissive to me. It's odd.
01/06/2011
Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
Im married so i guess that shows a preference lol
01/07/2011
Contributor: EvaChangeN EvaChangeN
always loved women more than men, but the hubby is a special critter
02/15/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I could never choose one way or the other.
03/06/2011
Contributor: skunked skunked
Male for prefers men. Can appreciate a beautiful woman, but find my sexual attraction to men.
03/13/2011
Contributor: RammaJamma RammaJamma
Other. I'm attracted to men more emotionally and women more physically
03/14/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by LikeSunshineDust
Other... I honestly don't have a gender preference. I'm attracted to a person and their qualities and features, and those certainly vary depending on the person's gender (ie, I prefer feminine girls but not feminine guys).
My thoughts and feelings exactly. Thank you for putting it so well!
03/14/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
bi's normally lean to one side more than the other. even if its only a tiny bit. not saying one is better than the other. but be honest with yourself. which do you prefer?
Im a woman and love men, but occasionally I like being with a woman
03/19/2011
Contributor: LaBellaVita1982 LaBellaVita1982
I prefer women over men.
03/19/2011
Contributor: RammaJamma RammaJamma
Ok, the way I feel about genders is interesting. I prefer women physically but men emotionally. Comparing the two is difficult so I just went with men since I'm in a hetero relationship right now.
03/20/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
I'm not Bi, but Pan actually but I still felt the need to vote.
03/22/2011
Contributor: *Ashley* *Ashley*
Even though I hate dicks, I love penises
03/28/2011
Contributor: daniel and frances daniel and frances
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
bi's normally lean to one side more than the other. even if its only a tiny bit. not saying one is better than the other. but be honest with yourself. which do you prefer?
I think for me, it's just that hetero is the norm so I avoid confronting my attraction for women. And I just like cock. ;-)
06/18/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
bi's normally lean to one side more than the other. even if its only a tiny bit. not saying one is better than the other. but be honest with yourself. which do you prefer?
I'm a woman and like men more but I really enjoy being with women too. I'm bisexual and lean both ways.
06/18/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
Gonna go with equal, as usual. Though I suppose physically I find women more visually appealing, though in all other aspects it's about 50/50!
06/20/2011
Contributor: Trillian Trillian
I am not bi, just think cocks are hot. I prefer women in every way but can appreciate the male form especially the types on the front of the fitness magazines, that don't exist much in real life, lol
06/22/2011
Contributor: LostBoy988 LostBoy988
Honestly doesn't matter to much to me as I am pansexual and prefer by personality.
06/23/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I like girls but more attracted to men.
07/05/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I used to feel almost bad that I wasn't attracted to women in a sexual way. When I was younger, the whole girls going on about "I've never had sex with a woman, but I identify as queer." thing was going strong, and it seemed like everybody thought they were Bi.

I'm simply not bi, nor am I lesbian. I like men. I love men.

I am no longer apologetic about being 97% heterosexual.
07/05/2011
Contributor: Leaving Love Leaving Love
im a woman and like women more
07/23/2011
Contributor: thebest thebest
male and i like men
07/24/2011
Contributor: DeeDaw DeeDaw
I like women more, just cause I find it easier to connect with them in a more passionate and emotional way. Idk. Everyone is different though.
08/22/2011
Contributor: Chaotic Rantings Chaotic Rantings
I am right in the middle of this one but if i had to choose, it would be the last one. I crave females just as much as I crave males. I cant choose one over the other. I love them both
09/04/2011