I'm just interested in finding out how many of you are akin to me! I get sooo hot thinking about me doing all the giving. I really never think about my partner giving in return cause the turn on for me is their response to my actions.
Who does the pleasing and the most work in your fantasies?
02/28/2013
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It really depends on who I'm fantasizing about. For instance, if I'm fantasizing about someone with big luscious lips I may have a strong fantasy of them giving me oral, but if I'm fantasizing about someone with a nice round ass, then the fantasy will tend to feature more in the active role.
02/28/2013
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equal
Originally posted by
altheasmarnella
I'm just interested in finding out how many of you are akin to me! I get sooo hot thinking about me doing all the giving. I really never think about my partner giving in return cause the turn on for me is their response to my actions.
02/28/2013
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My fantasies are mostly bdsm so im tied up not able to do anything
Originally posted by
altheasmarnella
I'm just interested in finding out how many of you are akin to me! I get sooo hot thinking about me doing all the giving. I really never think about my partner giving in return cause the turn on for me is their response to my actions.
03/01/2013
Varies
03/01/2013
equal give and take
03/01/2013
both of us equally
03/01/2013
It is equally variable.
Really depends on what I'm in the mood for.
Really depends on what I'm in the mood for.
03/01/2013
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That's me!
Originally posted by
altheasmarnella
I'm just interested in finding out how many of you are akin to me! I get sooo hot thinking about me doing all the giving. I really never think about my partner giving in return cause the turn on for me is their response to my actions.
Whether I'm fantasizing being with a man, or being with a woman - or both - in my fantasy, they are very demanding, selfish and greedy, and I am working hard to give them as much as they want of whatever they want. In real life, I'm more into give and take, but in my fantasies, it's almost always all give. Just thinking about it gets me hot.
03/01/2013
equal
03/01/2013
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now that'll do too...I'd love to try that with my partner, but I'd do all the work
Originally posted by
Geogeo
My fantasies are mostly bdsm so im tied up not able to do anything
03/05/2013
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right??? I love thinking about it, jeez louise!
Originally posted by
spiced
That's me!
Whether I'm fantasizing being with a man, or being with a woman - or both - in my fantasy, they are very demanding, selfish and greedy, and I am working hard to give them as much as they want of whatever they want. In real ... more
Whether I'm fantasizing being with a man, or being with a woman - or both - in my fantasy, they are very demanding, selfish and greedy, and I am working hard to give them as much as they want of whatever they want. In real ... more
That's me!
Whether I'm fantasizing being with a man, or being with a woman - or both - in my fantasy, they are very demanding, selfish and greedy, and I am working hard to give them as much as they want of whatever they want. In real life, I'm more into give and take, but in my fantasies, it's almost always all give. Just thinking about it gets me hot. less
Whether I'm fantasizing being with a man, or being with a woman - or both - in my fantasy, they are very demanding, selfish and greedy, and I am working hard to give them as much as they want of whatever they want. In real life, I'm more into give and take, but in my fantasies, it's almost always all give. Just thinking about it gets me hot. less
03/05/2013
I guess I would say the partner doing most of the work in fantasies, I like to be taken
03/16/2013
Always me but I love it
03/16/2013
I am the giver both in fantasy and reality and I love it that way, my ladys pleasure is mine
04/05/2013
I'm always doing the work in a fantasy. All my fantasies usually involve the other person or people who are strong and dominant. Telling me what I am going to do, or "forcing" me to do as they choose. Most of the positions involved require for me to do work too. Though some parts of the fantasies I'm at the mercy of another! I would love to live out the fantasies, but they are mostly there to help get me off.
04/05/2013
pillow princes all the way here
04/19/2013
My girl does.
04/19/2013
In my fantasy I am being done to, so not doing the work. In real life, I do more of the giving.
04/19/2013
Other. I'm not really in most of my own fantasies. I tend to fantasize about other people and situations entirely.
04/19/2013
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It's usually pretty even for me, but sometimes I'm feeling a little on the 'lay back and enjoy myself' side of things. haha
Originally posted by
altheasmarnella
I'm just interested in finding out how many of you are akin to me! I get sooo hot thinking about me doing all the giving. I really never think about my partner giving in return cause the turn on for me is their response to my actions.
05/11/2013
Depends on the fantasy...but it's pretty even over all.
05/11/2013
It's pretty equal. It's not fun to be in one sided relations.
05/11/2013
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