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Contributor: AshMegYo AshMegYo
My boyfriend recently left for basic training. While he is gone, one of our mutual friends who is also in the ARMY and a lesbian is coming to stay with me one weekend next month.
We have talked about messing around while she is here. What are your views?
Do you consider it cheating? (Please note that my boyfriend is aware of everything and doesn't care.)
10/07/2011
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Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
If he's aware of EVERYTHING you do then it's not cheating. We also answered this question when you posted it in the other sub-Forum
11/01/2011
Contributor: laceypanties laceypanties
Yeah, if he's okay with it, then do it!
11/06/2011
Contributor: STM STM
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
My boyfriend recently left for basic training. While he is gone, one of our mutual friends who is also in the ARMY and a lesbian is coming to stay with me one weekend next month.
We have talked about messing around while she is here. What are ... more
If he knows about it and doesn't care then I say go for it!
11/07/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
If he's ok with it then Iwould say go for it too.
11/07/2011
Contributor: Tangerine Tangerine
If that is the kind of relationship you have and he knows about it then why not. This post is from months ago. Wonder how it worked out. Did he get jealous afterwards or was he okay with it. Did you change your relationship after this
01/10/2012
Contributor: mrs poop. mrs poop.
First off, he doesn't care, and you're not hiding anything; It's not cheating.

However, you might want to evaluate what sort of relationship you two have. Are you going to be polyamorous, or in an "open" relationship? Does it matter if he were to hook up with another person? These are things to consider.

Have fun, though
01/11/2012
Contributor: funcouple funcouple
If he did not flat our say "you can sleep with and experiment with another woman while I am away" then it is cheating. You should be very wary of your actions depending on what your morals are.
06/02/2012
Contributor: Bittenflame Bittenflame
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Originally posted by funcouple
If he did not flat our say "you can sleep with and experiment with another woman while I am away" then it is cheating. You should be very wary of your actions depending on what your morals are.
Agreed. Just because she is a female doesn't mean it'snot cheating. She's still a person.
06/02/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
Go for it!!! Just be aware of the fact one you have sex with a female everything will change at least for me it did
06/03/2012